[nabs-l] phone numbers at night clubs
V Nork
ginisd at sbcglobal.net
Mon Jan 4 04:28:12 UTC 2010
Hello list, As I read this great thread, I wonder, as a woman, what the
thinking is about going out to clubs and bars alone, with just a cane and
cell phone? I have never tried this, but I would like to venture out alone,
maybe you could share your experiences and ideas? Most of my friends I do
hang out with are not into clubs, so this would be a solo outing for me.
Thanks , Ginny
----- Original Message -----
From: "Briley Pollard" <brileyp at gmail.com>
To: "National Association of Blind Students mailing list"
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Sent: Sunday, January 03, 2010 7:28 PM
Subject: Re: [nabs-l] phone numbers at night clubs
> Depending exclusively on a sighted guide is of course not wise. Having no
> other mobility aid available is foolish. However, using sighted guide in
> addition to another mobility aid is useful at times such as in loud and
> crowded environments such as night clubs. I'm not saying hang on to your
> friends all night, (that is obviously awkward and defeats the purpose of
> going tout to have fun), but it still can be helpful. Even when I'm with
> blind friends, often someone might hold my arm while using their cane just
> to insure we stay together in crowded environments. My point is it
> shouldn't be disregarded as a viable tool in addition to others.
>
> BrileyOn Jan 3, 2010, at 6:37 PM, Jedi wrote:
>
>> And that's why one should avoid depending on a sighted guide if at all
>> possible so that their decisions don't have to affect yours.
>>
>> Respectfully,
>> Jedi
>>
>>
>> Original message:
>>> hmm no i wouldnt take my guide dog since music would be loud and there
>>> would
>>> just be too much activity but i never really take a cane either. I
>>> think
>>> the first time i went to a bar since my vision loss or a club yes i had
>>> my
>>> cell and my cane but after the first time i left it and went with
>>> friends
>>> sighted guide.
>>
>>> here is another question alittle off topic. What if you went sighted
>>> guide
>>> and your guide ended up drinking. do you drink too? what if you wanted
>>> to
>>> drink, would you do it in a nightblub or bar or even alittle further in
>>> public?
>>
>>> -Teal
>>> ----- Original Message -----
>>> From: "Brice Smith" <brice.smith319 at gmail.com>
>>> To: "National Association of Blind Students mailing list"
>>> <nabs-l at nfbnet.org>
>>> Sent: Friday, January 01, 2010 5:16 PM
>>> Subject: Re: [nabs-l] phone numbers at night clubs
>>
>>
>>>> I know this is slightly off topic from the original question and
>>>> others might have different opinions on this, but a club or bar is the
>>>> last environment I'd feel comfortable losing any type of independence
>>>> whatsoever. What happens if you find yourself separated from your
>>>> friends? As a guy I never go out at night without my cane, cell phone,
>>>> and some extra cash ... and for good reason women usually worry over
>>>> this more than guys do. Buy an identification cane or one of the new
>>>> ambutech telescoping canes if you need something light -- anything to
>>>> keep yourself feeling and looking independent if something unexpected
>>>> happens.
>>
>>>> To add to the original question, ditch the notetaker or anything extra
>>>> that unnecessarily weighs you down. Except for my cane, I never carry
>>>> anything that can't fit into my pocket. Doing otherwise is asking for
>>>> trouble.
>>
>>>> Brice
>>>> On 1/1/10, Adrianne Dempsey <adrianne.dempsey at gmail.com> wrote:
>>>>> I think taking a note taker to the club is a bad idea. I don't even
>>>>> bring
>>>>> my purse because it is just something to carry around. You don't want
>>>>> to
>>>>> set it down somewhere, and you would just look silly dancing with it.
>>>>> In
>>>>> fact I don't even bring my cane because I don't know what to do with
>>>>> it
>>>>> on
>>>>> the dance floor. I usually go with a friend and just go sighted
>>>>> guide.
>>>>> I
>>>>> hate loosing a bit of independence but what ells can you do. If I go
>>>>> with
>>>>> other blind friends then I usually bring my cane but I always feel
>>>>> silly
>>>>> with it at the club. As far as phone numbers... I think having
>>>>> someone
>>>>> ells program it in to your phone is fine if you can not do it
>>>>> yourself.
>>>>> But
>>>>> my phone is not very accessible and I can do it. I just hit o.k. and
>>>>> it
>>>>> brings up a menu the first thing on the menu is add contact. I hit
>>>>> O.K.
>>>>> again, and then you can type in the number then down arrow and type in
>>>>> the
>>>>> name. Then hit o.k. again and their it is. Another option is to have
>>>>> a
>>>>> bizness card with your info, so you can give the new person your
>>>>> number.
>>>>> This is probably not so necessary as pretty much every one has cell
>>>>> phones
>>>>> now but it is a thought. The slate and stylist is a good idea to if
>>>>> you
>>>>> can
>>>>> get a hold of one of those ninny slates. But you have to be careful
>>>>> with
>>>>> this option, because you could get stabbed with the stylist if you
>>>>> move
>>>>> funny or if your pants are tight.
>>
>>
>>>>> ----- Original Message -----
>>>>> From: "Beth" <thebluesisloose at gmail.com>
>>>>> To: "National Association of Blind Students mailing list"
>>>>> <nabs-l at nfbnet.org>
>>>>> Sent: Friday, January 01, 2010 4:24 PM
>>>>> Subject: Re: [nabs-l] phone numbers at night clubs
>>
>>
>>>>>> Hmmmmm. Interesting subject. I would've taken the notetaker just
>>>>>> because I'm pretty touchy feely about my information. The numbers
>>>>>> are
>>>>>> not programmable by a blind person in my cell phone, so a note taker
>>>>>> is a good option.
>>>>>> Beth
>>
>>>>>> On 1/1/10, Kevin Wassmer <commanderlumpy2003 at earthlink.net> wrote:
>>>>>>> Hello folks. It's been a long time sense I have bought up a
>>>>>>> discussion
>>>>>>> on
>>>>>>> here. First of all, I will say I am doing fine. I have a job at
>>>>>>> Verizon
>>>>>>> Wireless working at a call center. It is challenging. How it is
>>>>>>> rewarding. I
>>>>>>> am glad to finely get off of social security soon. Or as I call it
>>>>>>> socialist
>>>>>>> insecurity. But that's another story.
>>
>>>>>>> I want to bring up a topic. I use to go to night
>>>>>>> clubs
>>>>>>> back
>>>>>>> in the day. I did not want to bring my Braille Note with me because
>>>>>>> the
>>>>>>> thought back then of bringing my note taker sounded strange. But I
>>>>>>> would
>>>>>>> always have a problem if I met someone and wanted to get their
>>>>>>> number.
>>>>>>> This
>>>>>>> was because the music was so loud that it was hard to communicate. I
>>>>>>> use
>>>>>>> to
>>>>>>> have people program numbers in to my cell phone at nosy places like
>>>>>>> that.
>>
>>>>>>> My
>>>>>>> question to you all is this. Being blind, would you have taken your
>>>>>>> note
>>>>>>> taker to the night club? The more I think about it, the more I
>>>>>>> believe
>>>>>>> a
>>>>>>> Slate and Styles would have been a great option for some like the
>>>>>>> night
>>>>>>> club
>>>>>>> sidereal. What would you have done?
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