[nabs-l] When a loved one goes sighted

Sat Apr 23 01:37:44 UTC 2011

Jedi:

How so?  What conveniences are inherently associated with being blind?  Yes,
we can function in the dark but so can anyone else who does it for a while.
Ask any marine who's had to field-strip, clean and put back together his/her
weapon in thirty seconds in the dark!

Also, this whole analysis has some logical flaws.  Some of us (including
you) say that we wouldn't want to be sighted, either because being blind is
who we are or because we presume we would have to make adjustments.  But
Arielle's Magic Pill would, presumably, automagically make all those
adjustments for us so the operative question would be:  "If you didn't have
to do anything outside of sucking down a pill to become sighted with all its
attributes and knowledge outside of learning some skills like reading and
driving, would you take the pill?"  In that sense, my answer would be yes,
if only because the world is structured for the sighted.

And the only permanent thing is change and I contend that our identities are
constantly changing and that if we truly believe in NFB philosophy, we
wouldn't single blindness out as somehow inherently different from other
characteristics.  Hence, to my way of thinking, as long as there were no
great inconveniences other than learning a few skills to gaining sight, it
would be rather dense of us not to take the chance.

But it ain'ta a-gonna happen in my lifetime, especially as my brain has
already been rewired.

Mike

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Subject: Re: [nabs-l] When a loved one goes sighted

Well, my gut reaction would be to say no only because becoming blind 
usually means that there's some kind of injury taking place or some 
kind of illness causing it. But to deconstruct that narrative, is 
injury required to become blind? If it were a magic pill, no. The 
scenario would be the same as the magic sight pill except that 
blindness is considered by society as a bad thing and sight a good 
thing; and I'm just as guilty of that perception because I'm a part of 
society. More than that, I'm prone to the notion that sight makes one 
fundamentally more functional than a blind person. It is true that our 
world is structured for people who can see and there are some 
conveniences associated with sight, but there are conveniences 
associated with being blind and there's nothing stopping us from 
rearranging our society to suit everyone regardless of personal 
characteristics except our lack of imagination and willingness to do 
so. To apply some further deconstruction here, injury may be required 
to restore sight to a blind person. So logically and with negative 
blindness attitudes put aside, giving someone blindness is the same as 
giving someone sight. In both cases, the individual will have to 
relearn the new system of being and will have to get used to the change 
in functioning and any perceived changes in identity.

Respectfully,
Jedi

Original message:
> Here's just another interesting idea to bounce around. If it is reasonable
> to turn down the opportunity to see, even if it's a "magic pill" scenario
> like in Arielle's research, do we feel it would be equally acceptable for
a
> sighted person to choose to make themselves blind, because, for what ever
> reason, they feel they'd be happiest and most themselves as blind people?

> On Fri, Apr 22, 2011 at 3:16 PM, Jedi <loneblindjedi at samobile.net> wrote:

>> For me, blindness is a part of who I am. it has shaped my life in a
number
>> of ways ranging from the friendships and relationships I've had to the
>> career I've chosen. Though this may not be true for everyone, it's
certainly
>> true for me and I'd feel like I've lost an important part of who I am,
and
>> that loss would far outweigh any gain I receive through sight.

>> What scares me the most about medicine and sightedness is the possibility
>> that governments will require all of us to undergo such procedures rather
>> than allowing us the ability to be blind in a sighted world. In other
words,
>> the government or the world at large would think it's much easier and
more
>> reasonable to cure us rather than make a world that's usable for everyone
>> regardless of characteristics.

>> Respectfully,
>> Jedi

>> Original message:

>>  Jorge and Homberto,
>>>  I feel the same way.  I'm very curious to see what sight is like, I
>>> wonder about it sometimes.  I'd even go as far as saying I sometimes
>>> would like to see...but if the option were available, the tedium of
>>> relearning everything, not to mention the risk of the surgery for
>>> something I don't really need, more than balance out any wish I have
>>> to see.  But, should a blind friend choose differently and receive
>>> sight, I would totally understand, respect and support that decision.
>>> And it wouldn't change the friendship on my end, although it would
>>> spark some interesting conversations.
>>>  Just my thoughts,
>>> Kirt

>>  On 4/20/11, Jorge Paez <computertechjorgepaez at gmail.com> wrote:

>>>> Hombertu,
>>>> I agree.
>>>> I personally wouldn't choose to be sighted for one simple reason.
>>>> I've learned everything without sight.
>>>> If I regained sight I'd have to relearn everything.
>>>> Sure I had sight but lost it when I was so young I can't remember,
>>>> so really I can say I've been blind all my life,
>>>> and sight would just make it too difficult.

>>  Jorge

>>  On Apr 20, 2011, at 8:55 PM, humberto wrote:

>>  First of all, If I was to become sighted, I would not do it. I myself
>>>>> wouldn't want to become sighted because of 2 reasons:
>>>>> 1.  since I am blind since birth, I will feel so weird being sighted;
>>>>> just
>>>>> like a sighted person  had been born with sight and feeling weird when
>>>>> they become blind. The world would be so different and I cannot even
>>>>> explain how different since I've never ever been sighted, and don't
want
>>>>> to be.
>>>>> 2.  I am blind, I am the way I am and I still want to be blind since I
>>>>> am
>>>>> born blind. Blindness is just an ordinary thing for me. Even my mom
has
>>>>> gotten me to pray and get me to ask doctors if one day I will "see"
but
>>>>> that was when I was little, and looking back, I am so * GUILTY * that
my
>>>>> mom did this and told me that I will see soon in a quite convincing
way
>>>>> and now I think, and since coming to the United States and attending
NFB
>>>>> related camps and meetings such as the NFB youth Slam, I see my own
>>>>> philosophy of blindness, which is that blindness is something ordinary
>>>>> and
>>>>> normal and nothing to be neglected or regretted about.
>>>>> Just my 20 dollars for what it's worth, and, great question.

>>  ----- Original Message -----
>>>>>> From: Jamie Principato <blackbyrdfly at gmail.com
>>>>>> To: National Association of Blind Students mailing list

>>>>> <nabs-l at nfbnet.org

>>>>>> Date sent: Wed, 20 Apr 2011 04:56:20 -0400
>>>>>> Subject: [nabs-l] When a loved one goes sighted

>>  Hi, all.

>>  I was thinking recently about all of those "what to do what a

>>>>> loved one goes

>>>>>> blind" articles and pamphlets I've seen, and how often I hear

>>>>> people talk

>>>>>> about the reactions of friends and family and their community

>>>>> when they lost

>>>>>> their vision. I think there have even been comments on this list

>>>>> about

>>>>>> sighted friends for some reason thinking they have to treat us

>>>>> differently,

>>>>>> or can't relate to us as well because we're blind.

>>  My question is this. How do you think the blind would respond in

>>>>> similar

>>>>>> situations, say, if a friend among a netork of fellow blind

>>>>> students

>>>>>> suddenly went sighted? As medical technology advances rapidly, it

>>>>> is

>>>>>> becoming more and more possible to correct a number of causes of

>>>>> both

>>>>>> congenital and later onset blindness. I know there are different

>>>>> opinions on

>>>>>> matters like this in other disability groups, and the question

>>>>> really got me

>>>>>> thinking.

>>  I'd love to hear peoples' thoughts!

>>  -Jamie
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