[nabs-l] Question about moving out of your parents house

Joshua Lester jlester8462 at students.pccua.edu
Fri Dec 16 14:48:51 UTC 2011


As for me, it would depend on why the parents object to him seeing her.
If this is a Christian family, and the girl isn't a Christian, I'd be
on the side of the parents, and say that you'd have to honor their
wishes, or move out.
The Bible is plain about being unequally yoked with unbelievers, but
that's a subject for a diferent list.
Blessings, Joshua

On 12/16/11, frandi.galindo at gmail.com <frandi.galindo at gmail.com> wrote:
> I say go for it.  Your parents can't say who you can see or who you cant.
> Those days are long gone.  Just tell them that its about time you flew the
> coop, and that you would like to venture out on your own.  A person has to
> start somewhere and moving out is a start.  Hope this helps
>
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> Yeah it really doesn't sound like such a great idea… Are you financially
> independent? Do you have a job? Are you just planning on moving out after
> graduation but you still want your parents to pay for everything?
> On Dec 15, 2011, at 7:33 PM, Nimer M. Jaber, IC³ wrote:
>
>> Yeah, I have an idea. Don't do it.
>>
>> OK, so you didn't ask whether you should do it or not, so if you
>> decide to do it anyway, you should just tell your parents straight
>> out. You're an adult and have a right to make whatever decisions about
>> your living arrangements that you want. Doing this on December 20th,
>> five days before Christmas, is really bad timing. If you insist on
>> going through with this, then you should tell them ASAP. Like that
>> means today. This will get them time to adjust to the idea.
>>
>> OK, hope that helps somewhat, but as you might have guessed I'm
>> really, really against this idea!
>>
>> On 15.12.2011, Koby Cox <kobycox at gmail.com> wrote:
>>> Hello All,
>>> I'm totally blind and am 19 years old I currently have a girlfriend
>>> whose 22 years of age. She's legally blind and has cadaracts. I'll be
>>> graduating highschool on December 20,2011. I'm thinking about moving in
>>> with her on that day after I get out of school. However, I'm not sure
>>> how I should explain this to my parents sense they don't want us seeing
>>> one another. Any ideas?
>>> Each one of you right back soon,
>>> Koby.
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