[nabs-l] Question for you all

[Ashley Bramlett]

Koby,
This is hard to answer without more details. What do you want? Is she blind?
When you say you were asked to come see her, what exactly does this mean? 
Come for a weekend visit, come move in with her?
Does this mean she expects you to move to have a serious relationship?

I am guessing that you two are far apart and thus have not seen each other 
yet in person after reconnecting.
So, it depends on what you want. Ask yourself the questions Brandon 
suggested.
Keep in mind that traveling a long distance to see someone gets to be 
expensive when you add up transit costs and food and perhaps lodging, unless 
you stay with her.

My advice would be not to have a long distance relationship. I just feel 
there are many cons to it. You cannot bond and share things together like 
you would when you see each other face to face. But if you want the 
relationship and the girl is reasonably nearby, then you could pursue it. 
Also consider your interests and goals before commiting.

HTH,
Ashley

-----Original Message----- 
From: Koby
Sent: Wednesday, September 05, 2012 10:36 PM
To: National Association of Blind Students mailing list
Subject: [nabs-l] Question for you all

Hello all,
I reconnected with this girl that I've known for years and she asked me If 
we could be boy friend and girl friend and I said yes and then she asked me 
when I'm going to come see her and we have only been together sense last 
Saturday. What should I tell her?
Koby
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