[nabs-l] condoms and Sexual Health

Mon Sep 10 15:28:47 UTC 2012

You would be a good place to sell and buy condoms? At the NFB convention... Perhaps Nabs should sell condoms at the NABS table. We can even braille them so the perso can know what kind of condoms they have. lol

Anmol

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--- On Sun, 9/9/12, Carly Mihalakis <carlymih at comcast.net> wrote:

> From: Carly Mihalakis <carlymih at comcast.net>
> Subject: Re: [nabs-l] condoms and Sexual Health
> To: "National Association of Blind Students mailing list" <nabs-l at nfbnet.org>, "National Association of Blind Students mailing list" <nabs-l at nfbnet.org>
> Date: Sunday, September 9, 2012, 10:54 PM
> Hi, Brandon,
> 
> I went into a place in Denver to  buy a dildo yes, on
> the bigger, ribbed side to use in the old fashioned bath tub
> I had at the time, to get myself off with the faucet.
> Traditionally, I need something in my ass, to cum. If I
> remember, the folks in their wer very cool, look at the
> blind girl going to by herself a dildo! Don't worry! If
> you're relaxed, and cool about what you're doing so will be
> the bookstore, personnel. Let us know how goes it,
> okay?  At 04:52 PM 9/8/2012, SA Mobile wrote:
> > Those are the best places to get stuff as the staff are
> professional and are trained to make customers feel at ease.
> Just make sure the shop is of good repute.
> > 
> > Respectfully,
> > Jedi
> > 
> > Sent from my iPhone
> > 
> > On 08/09/2012, at 12:36 PM, "Brandon Keith Biggs"
> <brandonkeithbiggs at gmail.com>
> wrote:
> > 
> > > Hello,
> > > Thank goodness my father was a nurse and when I
> turned 18, he said addio to being in with me at the doctor.
> I do find it amusing though that some doctors are actually
> really uncomfortable touching me because I'm blind... That
> only happened after my dad started leaving the room.
> > > Thank you Arielle for those websites. I don't feel
> that condoms are something I want to buy from a website I've
> never heard of before unless someone I know has gotten or
> knows that site is trust worthy.
> > > I was told that flavored condoms were only to be
> used in oral intercourse. The same is not for lube I
> presume?
> > > Also, has anyone ever gone into a sex store? How
> was it as a blind shopper? Even from sighted people I hear
> the experience is often not pleasant.
> > > Thanks,
> > >
> > > Brandon Keith Biggs
> > > -----Original Message----- From: Arielle
> Silverman
> > > Sent: Saturday, September 08, 2012 10:00 AM
> > > To: nabs-l at nfbnet.org
> > > Subject: [nabs-l] condoms and Sexual Health
> > >
> > > Hi all,
> > > I know the recent discussions about sex and dating
> are kind of in a
> > > gray area as to whether or not they're on-topic
> for this list, since
> > > most of the issues Koby brought up are not really
> unique to blindness.
> > > So if the moderators or Dave feel this is getting
> too far afield, I
> > > will happily respect your judgment. However, I
> also think that
> > > Brandon's question about where to get condoms is a
> legitimate one and
> > > that there might be other blind people out here,
> including teenagers,
> > > who have similar concerns about how to get
> condoms, birth control or
> > > sexual health information without a lot of
> awkwardness or
> > > embarrassment. It can be particularly difficult if
> you have to depend
> > > on someone else (especially parents) for
> transportation which can make
> > > going to a clinic or drugstore difficult.
> > > There are a few places to buy condoms online,
> including
> > > www.condomania.com
> > > www.undercovercondoms.com
> > > and
> > > www.condomdepot.com
> > > Believe it or not, they also have some condom
> choices at
> > > www.amazon.com
> > > If you go to your health center on campus for any
> reason, it shouldn't
> > > be a problem  to ask a doctor or nurse there
> about condoms.
> > > I cannot answer the questions about when to begin
> having sex with a
> > > partner because that is a highly individual
> decision. However, I feel
> > > it important that anyone who is considering having
> sex for the first
> > > time ensure you understand what all of your
> options are for preventing
> > > pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases, the
> advantages and
> > > disadvantages of each option, and the proper way
> to use condoms  and
> > > birth control. There are  a couple different
> websites with this kind
> > > of information:
> > > www.plannedparenthood.org
> > > (includes live chat with a sexual health educator)
> or
> > > www.scarleteen.com
> > > This issue is particularly close to my heart at
> the moment because my
> > > boyfriend's sister just had an unintended
> pregnancy at a very
> > > inopportune time (while still in college, with a
> guy she had only
> > > known for a few months) and was apparently taking
> birth control pills,
> > > but had not been taking them consistently. While I
> don't believe that
> > > sex  should be feared, it is something that
> takes some responsibility,
> > > planning and foresight to ensure it is enjoyable
> while minimizing the
> > > risks. Also, while I won't go into details here,
> there are other ways
> > > to be physically intimate with someone that are
> less risky, which
> > > these online forums will talk about.
> > > I also want to bring up  an issue that is
> somewhat relevant to sexual
> > > health, which I experienced and I think that some
> of you might also be
> > > struggling with. This is the issue of having your
> parents drive you to
> > > doctors' appointments and then having them want to
> sit in or even
> > > participate in your appointments. Since I attended
> college in my home
> > > city, my mother always wanted to drive me to my
> doctors' appointments
> > > and would then want to come in and chat with the
> doctor while he/she
> > > was examining me. This was partly because my
> parents and I saw many of
> > > the same doctors and she often thought it was a
> good opportunity to
> > > ask the doctor a quick question about her own
> health while she was
> > > there, or because she was curious to see what the
> doctor recommended
> > > to me about a particular issue. I eventually
> realized that while it
> > > wasn't ill-intentioned, it was a violation of my
> privacy as an adult
> > > patient and I asked her to wait in the waiting
> room while I was seeing
> > > the doctor. I didn't actually take this stand
> until I was 21 and in
> > > hindsight I wish I had done  it much earlier.
> By the time you are 18,
> > > unless you have a serious cognitive disability,
> you have a right to
> > > privacy of your medical information and it is
> important to establish a
> > > good doctor-patient relationship without a third
> person interfering.
> > > This is especially true when it comes to sexual
> health and by the time
> > > you are 18 or even 16, you will want to start
> discussing your sexual
> > > activities or questions with your doctors without
> your parents being
> > > around. You might also want to consider getting a
> driver or even
> > > taking the bus to medical appointments to avoid
> this problem.
> > > On a related note, by the time you are in high
> school, you should know
> > > the names of all medications you take on  a
> regular basis and any
> > > chronic medical conditions you may have. If you
> ever have to go to the
> > > emergency room, this kind  of information may
> be requested of you.
> > > Best,
> > > Arielle
> > >
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