[nabs-l] Wanted to share my experience living at Friedman Place, a supportive living community for blind adults in Chicago
Sam Nelson
samnelson1 at verizon.net
Wed Apr 10 00:47:55 UTC 2013
Hi Justin,
Ok, I'll be glad to help you with this! I didn't know how to make videos
either until I got a new laptop with a webcam. Now I love it! It's like Sam
TV LOL!
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From: nabs-l [mailto:nabs-l-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of justin williams
Sent: Monday, April 08, 2013 7:42 PM
To: 'National Association of Blind Students mailing list'
Subject: Re: [nabs-l] Wanted to share my experience living at Friedman
Place, a supportive living community for blind adults in Chicago
I don't know how to make you tube videos. After the semester, I got get
with you on that one.
-----Original Message-----
From: nabs-l [mailto:nabs-l-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Sam Nelson
Sent: Tuesday, April 09, 2013 7:49 PM
To: 'National Association of Blind Students mailing list'
Subject: Re: [nabs-l] Wanted to share my experience living at Friedman
Place, a supportive living community for blind adults in Chicago
Hi Suzanne,
I've been blind since birth. I was born with ROP.
That program you went to sounds like it was good for you.
I'm glad.
Sam
-----Original Message-----
From: nabs-l [mailto:nabs-l-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Suzanne Germano
Sent: Tuesday, April 09, 2013 10:23 AM
To: National Association of Blind Students mailing list
Subject: Re: [nabs-l] Wanted to share my experience living at Friedman
Place, a supportive living community for blind adults in Chicago
Sam, I was just wondering if you are newly blind or congenital or somewhere
in between? I have been elgally blind sicne birth and San Diego City School
District offered summer school called daily living skills for blind and
visually impaired. I started going when I was in first grade. My regular
school year was mainstream. Anyway, the program taught cooking we each went
to the store, bought the items needed and then cooked whatever recipe it was
that week. We were also taught housekeeping, personal grooming, and a
variety of other things to be independent. Some children needed to be taught
more than others based on how independent they were at home and how their
parents encouraged independence. We also went on numerous field trips to be
exposed to all kinds of things. We even flew to Los Angeles and took the
train home to experience both kinds of travel. There were addition things
like sewing...
Many of the children who had never been allowed to cook or anything at home
became extremely proficient in food preparation and cooking.
this was back in the 1970s I am not sure what is offered now if anything.
Suzanne
On Tue, Apr 9, 2013 at 6:03 AM, Sam Nelson <samnelson1 at verizon.net> wrote:
> Hi Gloria,
> I agree thank you The place in Maine does sound good. Too bad it's full!
> Maybe one day another will be built, or there will be openings.
> Sam
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: nabs-l [mailto:nabs-l-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Gloria G
> Sent: Tuesday, April 09, 2013 7:47 AM
> To: National Association of Blind Students mailing list
> Subject: Re: [nabs-l] Wanted to share my experience living at Friedman
> Place, a supportive living community for blind adults in Chicago
>
> Please remember that each of us have different needs and perspectives.
> What works for one does not always work for another. In saying this, I
> think respect should be given to those who's views may be different
> from yours, and no one should force their beliefs on another person.
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: "Joshua Lester" <JLester8462 at pccua.edu>
> To: "National Association of Blind Students mailing list"
> <nabs-l at nfbnet.org>
> Sent: Tuesday, April 09, 2013 7:39 AM
> Subject: Re: [nabs-l] Wanted to share my experience living at Friedman
> Place, a supportive living community for blind adults in Chicago
>
>
> > I'd like the ones in Maine better, because they give you the option
> > to cook for yourself, or eat in the dining room.
> > They have more NFB-centered views!
> > Blessings, Joshua
> > ________________________________________
> > From: nabs-l [nabs-l-bounces at nfbnet.org] on behalf of Hope Paulos
> > [hope.paulos at gmail.com]
> > Sent: Tuesday, April 09, 2013 7:19 AM
> > To: National Association of Blind Students mailing list
> > Subject: Re: [nabs-l] Wanted to share my experience living at Friedman
> > Place, a supportive living community for blind adults in Chicago
> >
> > Hello Sam! I just watch one of your videos. I'm from Maine, Mount
> > Desert Island to be exact, and I know that there is a similar
> > facility called iris Park Apartments in Portland Maine. This is a
> > subsidize housing for individuals who are blind or visually
> > impaired. Assistance is given with shopping, nursing care, if need
> > be orientation and mobility services, and people can eat either in
> > the dining room or in their own apartments. A full kitchen is
> > offered in
each apartment.
> > Vision rehabilitation services are also provided if need be. I'm
> > quite surprised that nobody from Maine mentioned this to you.
> > Sincerely,
> > Hope Paulos
> >
> > Sent from my iPhone
> >
> > On Apr 9, 2013, at 7:50 AM, "Sam Nelson" <samnelson1 at verizon.net> wrote:
> >
> >> Hi Mark and everyone,
> >> Thank you for sending this. Yes I am aware of the training centers
> >> that Joshua and others (when I sent info on this to a different
> >> list of blind
> >> students) told me about. It's wonderful that so many of you have
> >> found them to be so helpful and it's worked for you. I have looked
> >> at their websites and read about the NFB philosophy and at this
> >> moment, it's just not for me.
> >>
> >> I do appreciate your thoughts Joshua! I want to be clear that to
> >> my knowledge neither the staff here nor anyone else sees this as a
> >> "charity case," kind of thing. For many that live here, there is a
> >> real sense of family, and we give back in our own way to the
> >> community as much as we get from it, with our own unique skills
> >> talents and personalitys.
> >> Yes, several of the residents here do have other disabilities in
> >> addition to being blind, but some don't. And honestly, I don't see
> >> how that really matters. For example, a very good friend of mine,
> >> moved here in I believe November. He is visually impaired, and has
> >> CP. But no one really dwells on that. He's amazing at computers,
> >> extremely intelligent and with a great sense of humor, and very
> >> motivated and incouraging people to advocate with and for others
> >> with disabilities. That's what sticks in my mind, about him not
> >> that he has CP in addition to being blind. (though I do sometimes
> >> tease him that he should get one of those service monkeys LOL!)
> >> Thanks again Mark for your kind words. And everyone for your
perspective.
> >> I
> >> hope to get to know you all better.
> >> Sam (short for Samantha, that's ok (smile))
> >>
> >> -----Original Message-----
> >> From: nabs-l [mailto:nabs-l-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Mark J.
> >> Cadigan
> >> Sent: Tuesday, April 09, 2013 6:09 AM
> >> To: National Association of Blind Students mailing list
> >> Subject: Re: [nabs-l] Wanted to share my experience living at
> >> Friedman Place, a supportive living community for blind adults in
> >> Chicago
> >>
> >> Hi all,
> >>
> >>
> >>
> >> I'm certain Sam knows about the wonderful training available at the
> >> three NFB training centers, however, that's not what he is trying
> >> to
> tell
> us.
> >> Sam
> >> is just telling us about a solution he has found that works for him.
> >> This solution is not for everyone, but according to Sam it's his
> >> best option at the moment. We don't know Sam's situation, and can't
> >> speak for him, so I'm just asking everybody to be supportive of Sam
> >> and welcome him to the list, instead of haranguing him for not
> >> being so called "independent enough."
> >>
> >>
> >>
> >> Thanks,
> >>
> >> Mark
> >>
> >>
> >>
> >>
> >>
> >> ----- Original Message -----
> >> From: "Sam Nelson" <samnelson1 at verizon.net>
> >> To: <nabs-l at nfbnet.org>
> >> Sent: Tuesday, April 09, 2013 6:43 AM
> >> Subject: [nabs-l] Wanted to share my experience living at Friedman
> >> Place, a supportive living community for blind adults in Chicago
> >>
> >>
> >>> Hi Everyone,
> >>>
> >>> First I apologize if some of you have read about this already from
> >>> me, as
> >>> I've posted it to the Massachusetts and IL student's mailing lists.
> I
> >>> just really want to let everyone I can know about the wonderful
> >>> place I call home, in case othersare in a similar situation to me
> >>> and could see it as an option for either short or long-term living.
> >>>
> >>> I'm24 years old and totally blind. I'm originally from MA, and
> >>> moved this past June to Friedman Place, a residential community
> >>> for blind adults ages 22-elderly in Chicago.
> >>>
> >>> Friedman Place is one of two supportive living communities in the
> >>> country, the other being Mary Bryant in Springfield.
> >>>
> >>> Since moving to Friedman my life has dramatically changed in a
> >>> positive way. Here everyone has their own apartment, yet there is
> >>> staff available 24/7if needed. Laundry and housekeeping services
> >>> are optional. There are microwaves in our apartments, but beyond
> >>> that we can't cook for ourselves as we eat in the dining room.
> >>>
> >>> Certified Nursing assistants help with daily things such as
> >>> medication reminders, doing our nails, going for walks, or just
> >>> hanging out and talking with us. There are a variety of activities
> >>> provided including:
> bingo,
> >>> other card games, a movement class, line dancing, a support group,
> >>> e exercise classes, and others. I feel as more younger people move
> >>> to the facility, the types of activitys will reflect that.
> >>>
> >>> The nursing services are available daily, though not 24 hours.
> >>> This is not a nursing home, so people with severe medical issues
> >>> probably wouldn't be a good fit. I think the best fit for Friedman
> >>> is someone who feels they want or need to live in a community
> >>> environment, with a caring group of peers, and security and
> >>> support from staff. This could be someone who's
> >>> transitioning from a school for the blind or really any school and
> >>> trying
> >>> to figure out what they want to do after. It could be someone who
> >>> just wants to get out of their parent's house, for whatever reason
> >>> doesn't have or want
> >>> to live with relatives other friends, or want a roommate. It could
> be
> >>> someone who has mild emotional/ cognitive challenges, and so would
> >>> would do
> >>> well in an environment where there was independence but also a
> feeling
> >>> of
> >>> support, and where they couldn't isolate as easily and fall
> >>> through the cracks in a way they could if living alone or just
> >>> with a roommate. Or, someone could want to move here purely for
> >>> security reasons, as many low-income disability housing apartments
> >>> are in really
> >> bad neighborhoods.
> >>>
> >>> Staff are very client centered, in that residents plan how they
> >>> want their lives to go. It's a great place to come and have a
> >>> solid homebase to grow from. There are many oppurtunities in the
> >>> city for volunteer or payed work, education, and socialization.
> >>> Each resident is assigned a care advocate, who they meet with
> >>> regularly to discuss issues going on either at Friedman and also
> >>> talking about what they'd like to do out in the community. I feel
> >>> the social worker in particular, is a very caring, friendly person
> >>> who's very knowledgable about resources in the community.
> >>>
> >>>
> >>>
> >>> I also want to be clear that this is not a foster care, group
> >>> home, or nursing home situation. As long as residents sign in
> >>> and out, for safety reasons of course, they can come and go as
> >>> they please. They can have guests over til midnight without the
> >>> guest having to get a background check. If they want guests to
> >>> spend the night, all the person needs to do is fill out a quick
> >>> background check form for safety.
> >>>
> >>> I feel that with the mix of older and younger residents, it really
> >>> is like a family. I'm a sensitive person who in the past has
> >>> isolated a lot. Here I feel I have a purpose and have solid
> >>> friendships for the first time in my life.
> >>>
> >>> There are only two other people in their 20s currently at
> >>> Friedman, I'm really hoping we can get more. The cost of living
> >>> here is covered by medicade, as well as a portion of one's social
> >>> security check.
> >>>
> >>> There's no requirement on how long you need to stay. Some people
> >>> stay for six months, and consider it a stepping stone to living
> >>> completely on one's own. . Others have been here for years and
> >>> consider it home. It's all up to the person.
> >>>
> >>> I just know that if I had known at 15 or 16 that there was a safe
> >>> supportive place I could go when I was 22, I would have been way
> >>> less stressed about the future.
> >>>
> >>> At the end of this message I'll post the links to my videos to
> >>> learn more.
> >>>
> >>> Lastly, in addition to letting others know of my positive
> >>> experience here at Friedman, my second mission is to advocate for
> >>> similar facilities to be opened in other states. Doing the
> >>> research I have and hearing from many people, it's obvious that
> >>> the need is there, particularly for those from
> >>> 18
> >>> to 22, of which there seems to be very little services. I wish the age
> >>> requirement were 18, but right now it isn't. (Don't give up if
> you're
> >>> in
> >>> that age group and interested in Friedman! Just be patient, and
> >>> maybe soon things will change for the better!) So * if any of you
> >>> want to discuss this other project I'd really appreciate it.
> >>>
> >>> Thanks for reading, and I look forward to getting to know more of
you.
> >>>
> >>>
> >>>
> >>> Sam
> >>>
> >>> Video links:
> >>>
> >>> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IG4SWYVxqA4
> >>>
> >>> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bQTBKEnPup8
> >>>
> >>>
> >>>
> >>>
> >>>
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