[nabs-l] What do I say?

Sandra Gayer sandragayer7 at gmail.com
Tue Dec 3 23:37:02 UTC 2013


Hello Lavar,
Try having a conversation with your girlfriend's mother about issues
you have with each other. You could start by saying that this is an
opportunity for you both to share what you dislike about each other's
behaviour, without any interuptions. You could use a timer where you
speak for two minutes each and keep swapping. No insults, just things
you dislike about each other's behaviour, what you'd like to be
different etc.

Very best wishes,
Sandra.

On 12/3/13, Lillie Pennington <lilliepennington at fuse.net> wrote:
> If your girlfriend is completely blind then does her mother let her do
> anything?
>
> Sent from my iPhone
>
>> On Dec 3, 2013, at 12:38 PM, "I. C. Bray" <i.c.bray at win.net> wrote:
>>
>> Agreed!
>>
>> Letting her know that you've been doing fine all theese months without her
>>
>> passive-agressive attempt at parenting should do the trick.
>> Granted, it might shock her and make her bitter, but sometimes clueless
>> people need to be put back into their proper place.
>>
>> I. C. Bray
>>
>>
>>
>> ----- Original Message -----
>> From: "Carly Mihalakis" <carlymih at comcast.net>
>> To: "National Association of Blind Students mailing list"
>> <nabs-l at nfbnet.org>; "List" <nabs-l at nfbnet.org>
>> Sent: Monday, December 02, 2013 11:48 PM
>> Subject: Re: [nabs-l] What do I say?
>>
>>
>> :
>> : Hi, Lavar,
>> :
>> : I second what Lilie said, just lay it out. Tell her a little bit
>> : about origins of your personal struggle for independence and self
>> : sufficiency, maybe even say that, inspite of folk trying to be
>> : helpful, you know what works best for you and could she please step
>> aside?
>> : Please call me! 408-209-3239
>> :
>> : /2013, Lavar Phillips wrote:
>> : >Hi everyone
>> : >Since I was 20 years old I have lived on my own and I have gotten so
>> used
>> : >to doing things my way. So last year I moved in with my girlfriend and
>>
>> her
>> : >mom . It was great we all got along  then her mom  went away to
>> California
>> : >and my girlfriend and I were living great. Now  her mom is back for 3
>> : >months and she kinda restricts what I can do  even tho I can
>> cook,clean,
>> : >laundry and shopping . We also argue and I can't stand it  How do I
>> tell
>> : >her nicely that I don't need another mom I have one. Like she questions
>>
>> all
>> : >my actions doesn't let me do things the way I used  to and when I don't
>>
>> do
>> : >anything she yells at me. Am I wrong for just wanting her gone I just
>> want
>> : >things back to normal.
>> : >
>> : >Lavar J Phillips
>> : >5003 48 Street Woodside New York 11377
>> : >Cell # (917) 858 3368
>> : >Twitter lavar1988
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