[nabs-l] Socializing in Noisy Parties

[Carly Mihalakis]

Good afternoon, Rahul,

         I, too, don't like parties or loud dancing environments, 
however should you end up at one, it hopefully is easy to make the 
most of it. First of all, as for loud music impeding our ability to 
communicate, you can, if you're at the event with someone whom you 
know well, might try speaking directly into their ear.

And, as for dancing, in my experience, dancing itself  is all about 
being able to capture a closeness, as well as stimulation of your 
senses. What does the chick's body feel like? How is the texture of 
her blouse? What does she smell like? Can you tell how big are her 
tits? It's an opportunity to allow your body to be in sync with 
another person's. Think of it as making love in a standing position. 
Also, it helps if your mood, possibly your sensibilities  are a 
little lubed up with some Boo's. "At least for me. Just shake your 
hips, and maybe avoid believing that there exists some kind of 
prescription, one might find On-line for dancing. You can shake your 
hips to the beat of the music, shake your ass?
Hope it is helpful! Let us know, won't you?

Car
11:00 AM 8/31/2014, Rahul Bajaj via nabs-l wrote:
>Hi all,
>
>I hope this message finds you well. I often struggle to 
>efficaciously socialize in noisy parties. This is primarily because, 
>when the music is ridiculously loud, you practically have to shout 
>in order  to communicate with anyone. This makes it difficult to 
>strike up meaningful conversations with people. Moreover, as I am 
>sure most of you would agree, it is very difficult for us to 
>contribute substantively in a party when the most important amongst 
>the four senses that we rely on i.e. the sense of sound is 
>significantly impaired. In addition, I cannot dance at all. I don't 
>even know some basic steps that can come to my rescue when I 
>absolutely have to dance. Are there any good tutorials online 
>containing instructions about dancing without making a fool of 
>yourself that blind people can follow?
>I look forward to reading your views on this intriguing subject.
>
>Best,
>Rahul
>
>
>
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