[nabs-l] When NFB philosophy doesn't seem to work... advice?

[Carly Mihalakis]

Oh my god, Ian,

I am speechless! based on your other posts, I had you pigeonholed as 
a real tight-ass! I can't belive, then, what mine eyes do see!
Way to go, Ian, the loose-ass! Keep it up and, if you wanna wrap a 
bit, off-line, you know where to find me.
Car
carlymih at comcast.net


I am so excited!
for today, Car 04:30 AM 12/28/2013, I. C. Bray wrote:
>Dave, I'll tell you mine, if you tell me yours? ( smiley )
>
>I am, of course only being fun & trying to relax the conversation.
>
>To everyone,
>
>Regardless of whatever fetishes you have, sexuality and intimacy, are
>definitely separate.
>Personality is key to Chemistry between people.
>I don't care how "HOT" or a person is, if you can't talk to them be genuine
>and share humor, then you aren't going to make it in the bedroom or
>relationship... unless of course, the relationship is ONLY about sex.
>
>If SEX really  is the only basis of the relationship, then fetishes should
>come out early, otherwise, you have to sneak them in... slowly.
>
>Speaking from experience?  YES I AM.  I try not to make my personal &
>private life this public, but it sounds like there is an open forum here
>with people who want perspective... I have some to share... you all are
>welcome to it.
>
>My best friend is a two-degreed Psycology Graduate who tought sex edd and
>does tons of comunity outreach.
>I have other friends who are Psychiatric doctors.   This subject is a
>progressive one and it often doesn't get the benefit of being discussed
>without shame, or embarrassment.
>
>The thing that has my neck hair really raising is the borderline personality
>trait of not respecting boundaries, and the mumbling to one's self.
>Sexuality, as we all know is key to some personal identity.  It creates
>films like Psycho, and Blue Velvet and
>The Graduate and even Risky Business.
>
>advice:
>Someone professional should be notified regarding this person in the hopes
>that as a professional, they can investigate and prevent any escallation.
>I think blocking the number is, at this point, not a bad idea.
>For those of you who have fetishes, I think they are healthy and once you
>get over the initial uniqueness  and fear of shame or embarrassment, you
>should let your freak flag fly.
>We all have our turn-ons and offs.  I do too!  Find a website that is based
>upon your intrests & fetishes  and make friends is what I'll tell you to do.
>Diversity is the seasoning and spice of life.  Sometimes it will  come at a
>cost, but it is the only life you have-- you should live it.
>
>Gawd I love open and friendly conversations regarding progressive
>subjects... I should have been a Hippie.  LOL!
>
>Respectfully,
>Ian  C. Bray
>Louisville, KY.
>
>
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