[nabs-l] Bullying

[Arielle Silverman]

I agree. You don't need to base your reactions on what your friend
thinks. It should be about what you think and how the girl's behavior
made you feel. If you didn't even notice the shoving until your friend
pointed it out to you, then perhaps its not a big deal. But if you did
feel her shove you and it made you feel uncomfortable, then maybe it's
worth discussing with the school counselor or another adult. Or you
may choose not to worry about it unless it happens again, which it
sounds like probably won't.
Arielle

On 2/22/14, Mikayla Gephart <mikgephart at icloud.com> wrote:
> In the state of New Jersey (Where I live), this is not considered bullying,
> and this girl is known to be like this.
>
> Sent from my iPad
>
> On Feb 22, 2014, at 10:51 AM, Ryan Silveira <ryan.l.silveira at gmail.com>
> wrote:
>
>> How long ago did it happen?  You should report it to your assistant
>> principal or someone like that.  Have a friend go with you if you feel you
>> need it.
>>
>>
>> On Feb 22, 2014, at 10:49 AM, Mikayla Gephart <mikgephart at icloud.com>
>> wrote:
>>
>>> She has only bullied me once.
>>>
>>> Sent from my iPad
>>>
>>> On Feb 22, 2014, at 10:37 AM, Ryan Silveira <ryan.l.silveira at gmail.com>
>>> wrote:
>>>
>>>> Hi Mikayla,
>>>>
>>>> How long has this been happening?  Was it just this one incident or have
>>>> there been several?
>>>>
>>>> Ryan L. Silveira
>>>>
>>>>
>>>> On Feb 22, 2014, at 10:17 AM, Mikayla Gephart <mikgephart at icloud.com>
>>>> wrote:
>>>>
>>>>> Hi,
>>>>>  In this post, I am going to poor out my heart. This morning, I told my
>>>>> mom, and I haven't told any one else.
>>>>>  A couple month ago, a really close friend said that another girl said
>>>>> that she shoved me in the hallway. My first class is Social Studies,
>>>>> and my homeroom is right across from Social Studies. The girl is in my
>>>>> homeroom. I walk very slow when going from Homeroom to Social Studies,
>>>>> and the girl must have wanted me to walk faster, so she shoved me.
>>>>> Yesterday, my friend told me that she doesn't think the girl who shoved
>>>>> me has a respect for people, much less a respect for people with
>>>>> disabilities. For the longest time, I have not told anyone.
>>>>> Mikayla
>>>>>
>>>>> Sent from my iPad
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