[nagdu] an update on my friend

[Laurel]

It doesn't matter now. The damage is done. She unsubscribed from the
GDUI list. I guess you could say that in this case, the "bad guys"
meaning the people who were being hurtful, won. /sad face/
Well, all I can do is be her friend. Other than that, I'm gonna wash
my hands of this and move on. Of course we can keep talking about it,
but aside from this list I'm not going to say anything about it to
anyone anymore. Some people were writing me off list (not off this
list) and villifying me too for helping her. Anyway, oh well, like I
said, the damage is done and I can't repair that.
Laurel and Stockard

On 4/11/12, Marsha Drenth <marsha.drenth at gmail.com> wrote:
> That group list does have a moderator, they do the same thing as I do here.
>
> And yes people tend to forget that there are actual real living, breathing
> people behind the words.
>
> Marsha
>
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: nagdu-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:nagdu-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf
> Of Lyn Gwizdak
> Sent: Wednesday, April 11, 2012 6:47 PM
> To: NAGDU Mailing List,the National Association of Guide Dog Users
> Subject: Re: [nagdu] an update on my friend
>
> I'm surprised that the GDUI List doesn't have a moderator.  Nobody should be
>
> treated bad like that woman who had a dog from Southeastern, the one who
> people swore at and called her bad names.  Nobody deserves that.
>
> People forget that real live people are behind the words typed on a screen
> and we have to remember our humanity to each other.
>
> Lyn and Landon
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: "Laurel" <laurel.stockard at gmail.com>
> To: "NAGDU Mailing List,the National Association of Guide Dog Users"
> <nagdu at nfbnet.org>
> Sent: Wednesday, April 11, 2012 1:51 PM
> Subject: [nagdu] an update on my friend
>
>
>>I have an update on my friend.
>>
>> She's still trying to figure out where to place her guide. I was
>> disturbed to get a message on the phone saying that she's unsubscribed
>> from the GDUI list, that some of you might be on, and that she doesn't
>> wanna join this one anymore. In fact, she's given up on getting a
>> guide all together. Some people, namely from another list, not at all
>> from here, have said some very cruel and hurtful things to her either
>> list wide or privately and just put sault in her wounds. Other
>> southeastern grads have ganged up against her too. She's really
>> hurting and is really broken hearted, and I hurt for her. I'm sad that
>> because of other people's hurtful spiteful comments it's causing her
>> to just retreat and give up. I wanna repeat, nothing bad has been said
>> to her from anybody on this particular list, it's all another list
>> that we're part of. She called GDB and canceled her application. I'm
>> just so sad right now, I feel like there's noting I can do to help her
>> and I wish I could ease the pain somehow. I wish people would put
>> themselves in her shoes and think before they make personal attacks
>> and hurtful comments to or about her. I'm just sad, and I had to share
>> with somebody. Please pray for my friend.
>> Laurel and Stockard
>>
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