[nagdu] Downtime in class

Tue Sep 18 18:13:12 UTC 2012

If you get the dog, when you get home, try to gently, but firmly remind your mother that you are an adult, ahrness the dog, pick up your purse, fanny pack, or whatever you are using, and just go.  She will either stay mad wiht you or get over it

Vanessa Lowery, LGSW
Adult and Community Services Division
Adult Services Screening Unit
410-853-3550
VLowery at dhr.state.md.us

>>> Sarah <coastergirl92 at gmail.com> 9/18/2012 1:53 PM >>>
I have suffered from depession for many years and I live in a 
very rural area with no sidewalks and there are no really cool 
places to go.  The only places to go are real common like 
Walmart, K-Mart, Jack-in-the-box and Target.  The closinc 
amusement park is 2 hours away.  I'm unemployed and my mom still 
protdtive about letting me go out by myself.  She said that when 
I get the dog at first I won't be allowed to walk anywhere 
without her with the dog.  That makes me sad and mad at the same 
time.  I'm just thinking, what's the point? What if it's wrong 
for me to get a dog?

 ----- Original Message -----
From: Cindy Ray <cindyray at gmail.com 
To: "NAGDU Mailing List,the National Association of Guide Dog 
Users" <nagdu at nfbnet.org 
Date sent: Tue, 18 Sep 2012 12:42:21 -0500
Subject: Re: [nagdu] Downtime in class

What do you mean you feel too tired.  I simply have no reason to 
go much since I have no public transportation, there is nowhere 
close to here to go, and I currently am unemployed.  I take cabs 
where I go, so that's not big.  The dogs, like us, should be 
exercised.  It keeps their bodies and training in optimum 
condition, and their energy is used then.  Some dogs need it more 
than others.  Mine is getting a little older, so he doesn't as 
much perhaps, or maybe he does more.  Don't worry about it.  I 
just feel that for me it is wrong to get another dog if I am not 
getting out more.  There are a lot of people with dogs who are 
doing exactly what I am doing, I think, so it isn't a big deal.  
I know you are going to love working your new dog.

Cindy

On Sep 18, 2012, at 12:15 PM, Sarah wrote:

 Dang it now I'm worried.  I really have no desire to go 
anywhere.  I just fel too tired

 ----- Original Message -----
 From: Cindy Ray <cindyray at gmail.com 
 To: "NAGDU Mailing List,the National Association of Guide Dog 
Users" <nagdu at nfbnet.org 
 Date sent: Tue, 18 Sep 2012 11:51:55 -0500
 Subject: Re: [nagdu] Downtime in class

 No, I don't do that.  I should, but because I am currently not 
going much of anywhere, I've gotten out of the habit.  I kind of 
wish I did, and maybe I'll start.  That's probably one of the 
reasons I won't get any dogs after this one.  I don't think he's 
getting a fair shake.  I hope I don't change my mind.

 CL

 On Sep 18, 2012, at 11:47 AM, Sarah wrote:

 Cool thanks.  How often do you walk your dog? Do
 you walk 3-5 miles every day?
 ----- Original Message -----
 From: Cindy Ray <cindyray at gmail.com 
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 Date sent: Tue, 18 Sep 2012 06:27:39 -0500
 Subject: Re: [nagdu] Downtime in class

 Ah, you'll be fine.  It is always exciting before you go for the 
dog.  I think you are going to have a fine time of it.

 Cindy

 On Sep 17, 2012, at 11:10 PM, Sarah wrote:

 That's exciting! I'm still kind of worried, but I'll do it.

 ----- Original Message -----
 From: Cindy Ray <cindyray at gmail.com 
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 Date sent: Mon, 17 Sep 2012 21:45:16 -0500
 Subject: Re: [nagdu] Downtime in class

 His name is Fisher.  Let's see.  I think they brought him to my 
room.  We walked around the room a lot.  He sniffed me and we 
cuddled.  At our school, they had us go out on their leisure path 
with the harness and an instructor attched to him, too, with the 
leash.  Then later we took them out to relieve and have dinner.  
He mostly tried to keep him close and see what toys he liked, 
though I went slow with this.  Some dogs, when you first get 
them, whine a lot because they hear familiar voices as others are 
being given dogs by the same instructor.  Some are restless the 
first night or so when they are with you; I've never had a lot of 
trouble with that with any of the dogs.

 CL

 On Sep 17, 2012, at 6:39 PM, Sarah wrote:

 What's his name? What was it like when you first met him?

 ----- Original Message -----
 From: Cindy Ray <cindyray at gmail.com 
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 Date sent: Mon, 17 Sep 2012 18:20:17 -0500
 Subject: Re: [nagdu] Downtime in class

 I think they can sense  your moods.  I think they definitely 
know the difference between stressed and calm.  I have a lab and 
golden cross.  He is six.

 CL

 On Sep 17, 2012, at 6:17 PM, Sarah wrote:

 that's awesome! I am so excited to have a dog.  Can dogs sense 
how you are feel, can they sense your moods? What kind of dog do 
you have?

 ----- Original Message -----
 From: Cindy Ray <cindyray at gmail.com 
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 Date sent: Mon, 17 Sep 2012 18:12:22 -0500
 Subject: Re: [nagdu] Downtime in class

 \Hi, Sarah, I am Cindy.  You know, it depends on the dog.  I am 
a firm believer in spending a lot of time in the process of 
bonding with my dog, especially the first few days.  If the 
person who trained you is your trainer, they will look to that 
person for a while, but you will start to see a switch over in a 
few days.  When you take that dog home, I think the bonding 
increases because now it has left all it knows behind except you, 
so it trusts you.  You will have work to do to become a solid 
team, but your dog and you will have already begun a strong 
bonding that will only get stronger.  I think the key is a lot of 
attention, especially at first and mostly from you, corrections 
when you have to, and lots of praise when the dog does something 
right and well.

 CL

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