[nagdu] Nowhere to go?

Cindy Ray cindyray at gmail.com
Wed Sep 19 01:49:14 UTC 2012


But none of this walking is going to be by yourself. You are going to be alone, and neither you nor the dog will become dependent on one another if you have always someone there to tell you what to do and how to do it. I've seen this.

Cindy

On Sep 18, 2012, at 8:20 PM, Sarah wrote:

> my mom would most likely hold the dog because I live two hours away from the park and that park is huge there's more walking than there is riding so the dog would get plenty of work when we go there.  He or she would get worked every day going on walks and obedience sessions every day, plus the long shopping trips we go on on Fridays.
> 
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: "Larry D.  Keeler" <lkeeler at comcast.net
> To: "NAGDU Mailing List,the National Association of Guide Dog Users" <nagdu at nfbnet.org
> Date sent: Tue, 18 Sep 2012 20:38:53 -0400
> Subject: Re: [nagdu] Nowhere to go?
> 
> But, the dogs can't go on the coasters so you would have to leave them home
> or have a trusted friend hold the dog for you!
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: "Sarah" <coastergirl92 at gmail.com
> To: "NAGDU Mailing List,the National Association of Guide Dog Users"
> <nagdu at nfbnet.org
> Sent: Tuesday, September 18, 2012 5:39 PM
> Subject: Re: [nagdu] Nowhere to go?
> 
> 
> Not sure what I would study in college.  I didn't learn anything
> in high school all I did was sit at my desk because they told me
> to just put my head on my desk because I had no braille work.  So
> I really have no education besides what I know about roller
> coasters and dogs.
> 
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: "Vanessa Lowery" <vlowery at dhr.state.md.us
> To: "the National Association of Guide Dog Users NAGDU Mailing
> List" <nagdu at nfbnet.org
> Date sent: Tue, 18 Sep 2012 16:20:20 -0400
> Subject: Re: [nagdu] Nowhere to go?
> 
> Sarah, life does nto revolve around amusement parks.  What are
> your goals in life?  Job prospects, college?  Something other
> than amusement parks.
> 
> 
> 
> Vanessa Lowery, LGSW
> Adult and Community Services Division
> Adult Services Screening Unit
> 410-853-3550
> VLowery at dhr.state.md.us
> 
> 
> Sarah <coastergirl92 at gmail.com> 9/18/2012 3:57 PM
> i'm never doing it again.  I'd rather do a solo skydive than ever
> considering any more independent training centers.  Besides I
> hate being away from home and at training centers you don't get
> to have any fun there's no amusement park trips.
> 
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: "Julie J." <julielj at neb.rr.com
> To: "NAGDU Mailing List,the National Association of Guide Dog
> Users" <nagdu at nfbnet.org
> Date sent: Tue, 18 Sep 2012 14:53:34 -0500
> Subject: Re: [nagdu] Nowhere to go?
> 
> I'm sorry you had such a horrible experience.  Please know that
> not all
> training centers are like that.  If you want to give it another
> try,
> there are lots of people who can assist you.  I'm sure people on
> this
> list would be happy to share their experiences with residential
> training.  It's not going to work though, if you aren't ready or
> wanting
> to take that step yet.  When you are ready all you have to do is
> ask and
> there will be support for you.
> 
> Julie
> On 9/18/2012 1:22 PM, Sarah wrote:
> i just came home from a six-month hellish experience at an
> independent
> living program.  I got mobility training but still have no
> confidence
> when traveling with a cane.  I was down in Los Angeles for 6
> months.
> I thought it would make me want to be independent but all it did
> was
> make me more afraid.
> 
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: "Julie J." <julielj at neb.rr.com
> To: "NAGDU Mailing List,the National Association of Guide Dog
> Users"
> <nagdu at nfbnet.org
> Date sent: Tue, 18 Sep 2012 13:16:56 -0500
> Subject: Re: [nagdu] Nowhere to go?
> 
> Sarah,
> 
> Might I suggest going away to a residential program to learn
> some
> blindness skills?   It would give you the opportunity to live on
> your
> own, gain life skills, be independent from your family, give you
> lots of
> options for your future and provide an opportunity to have new
> experiences.  There is always time to get a dog later, or some
> residential programs will work the dog in.
> 
> A guide dog can do a lot of really great things, but it will
> never be
> able to balance your checkbook, cook dinner, stand up for your
> rights,
> match your clothes or punch the time clock for you.
> 
> All my best to you,
> Julie
> 
> 
> On 9/18/2012 1:08 PM, Sarah wrote:
> I want to just get a pet but sty family all want me to have a
> guide
> dog because I've been talking about it since I was 7.  But now
> that
> I'm 20, I just feel too tired and I don't have that get up and
> go like
> I used to.  I kind of just feel like sleeping all day because I
> live
> so far away from Magic Mountain.  I've been everywhere up in
> this
> desert lots of times and we only go shopping once a week.
> 
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: "Tracy Carcione" <carcione at access.net
> To: "NAGDU Mailing List,the National Association of Guide Dog
> Users"
> <nagdu at nfbnet.org
> Date sent: Tue, 18 Sep 2012 14:04:27 -0400
> Subject: [nagdu] Nowhere to go?
> 
> Hi Sarah.
> I wonder why you want a dog, if you feel you have nowhere to go?
> 
> I am old enough to see the glimmer of retirement in my
> future--not soon,
> but not impossibly far off, either.  But I think that even after
> I
> retire,
> I'll have places to go.  I'll still have the usual trips around
> town--the
> grocery, diner, pharmacy, shopping...though those won't be every
> day.  I
> hope to do a bit of travelling.  And to get out and walk,
> preferably
> every
> day, just to keep myself fit.  I've had 6 guide dogs now, and
> every
> one of
> them has done best when they've gotten regular work.  Ben, my
> current
> dog,
> doesn't require miles and miles a day, and can take one day off
> a week
> with no problem, but he still gets squirrely if I don't work him
> for any
> length of time.
> I think my dogs will still get enough work, once I'm retired,
> but it does
> concern me a bit.  If I felt I really had nowhere to go, or no
> desire
> to go
> anywhere, I'd just get myself a pet.  But, being somewhat prone
> to cabin
> fever, I don't see that happening any time soon.
> 
> Tracy
> 
> Dang it now I'm worried.  I really have no desire to go
> anywhere.
> I just fel too tired
> 
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: Cindy Ray <cindyray at gmail.com
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> Users" <nagdu at nfbnet.org
> Date sent: Tue, 18 Sep 2012 11:51:55 -0500
> Subject: Re: [nagdu] Downtime in class
> 
> No, I don't do that.  I should, but because I am currently not
> going much of anywhere, I've gotten out of the habit.  I kind of
> wish I did, and maybe I'll start.  That's probably one of the
> reasons I won't get any dogs after this one.  I don't think he's
> getting a fair shake.  I hope I don't change my mind.
> 
> CL
> 
> On Sep 18, 2012, at 11:47 AM, Sarah wrote:
> 
> Cool thanks.  How often do you walk your dog? Do
> you walk 3-5 miles every day?
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: Cindy Ray <cindyray at gmail.com
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> Date sent: Tue, 18 Sep 2012 06:27:39 -0500
> Subject: Re: [nagdu] Downtime in class
> 
> Ah, you'll be fine.  It is always exciting before you go for
> the
> dog.  I think you are going to have a fine time of it.
> 
> Cindy
> 
> On Sep 17, 2012, at 11:10 PM, Sarah wrote:
> 
> That's exciting! I'm still kind of worried, but I'll do it.
> 
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: Cindy Ray <cindyray at gmail.com
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> Users" <nagdu at nfbnet.org
> Date sent: Mon, 17 Sep 2012 21:45:16 -0500
> Subject: Re: [nagdu] Downtime in class
> 
> His name is Fisher.  Let's see.  I think they brought him to my
> room.  We walked around the room a lot.  He sniffed me and we
> cuddled.  At our school, they had us go out on their leisure
> path
> with the harness and an instructor attched to him, too, with the
> leash.  Then later we took them out to relieve and have dinner.
> He mostly tried to keep him close and see what toys he liked,
> though I went slow with this.  Some dogs, when you first get
> them, whine a lot because they hear familiar voices as others
> are
> being given dogs by the same instructor.  Some are restless the
> first night or so when they are with you; I've never had a lot
> of
> trouble with that with any of the dogs.
> 
> CL
> 
> On Sep 17, 2012, at 6:39 PM, Sarah wrote:
> 
> What's his name? What was it like when you first met him?
> 
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: Cindy Ray <cindyray at gmail.com
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> Users" <nagdu at nfbnet.org
> Date sent: Mon, 17 Sep 2012 18:20:17 -0500
> Subject: Re: [nagdu] Downtime in class
> 
> I think they can sense  your moods.  I think they definitely
> know the difference between stressed and calm.  I have a lab and
> golden cross.  He is six.
> 
> CL
> 
> On Sep 17, 2012, at 6:17 PM, Sarah wrote:
> 
> that's awesome! I am so excited to have a dog.  Can dogs sense
> how you are feel, can they sense your moods? What kind of dog do
> you have?
> 
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: Cindy Ray <cindyray at gmail.com
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> Date sent: Mon, 17 Sep 2012 18:12:22 -0500
> Subject: Re: [nagdu] Downtime in class
> 
> \Hi, Sarah, I am Cindy.  You know, it depends on the dog.  I am
> a firm believer in spending a lot of time in the process of
> bonding with my dog, especially the first few days.  If the
> person who trained you is your trainer, they will look to that
> person for a while, but you will start to see a switch over in a
> few days.  When you take that dog home, I think the bonding
> increases because now it has left all it knows behind except
> you,
> so it trusts you.  You will have work to do to become a solid
> team, but your dog and you will have already begun a strong
> bonding that will only get stronger.  I think the key is a lot
> of
> attention, especially at first and mostly from you, corrections
> when you have to, and lots of praise when the dog does something
> right and well.
> 
> CL
> 
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