[nagdu] How does your dog help you?

Wed Aug 27 01:24:47 UTC 2014

Well, let's see. My dogs have helped me to walk faster and more
confident, helped me to hold my head upwhile walking, find dropped
objects yes even pills before the children got to it (does
anyone still teach fetch?) helped me to stay on my feet, alert me that
someone may be approaching me or the house even before I hear it, check to
see if I'm ready to go across the street or down stairs, found the way
out of department stores after I've taken to many turns, have helped
me conquer busy streets that I prolly wouldn't attempt first with my
cane, have found trash cans, the huge bathroom stall, elevators,
crosswalk poles and elevator buttons and door handles, and bathroom
sinks without having to touch all over it all, up and down stairs
unknown to me in unfamiliar enviornments and empty seats in a crowded
meeting room or on a bus or in class, have helped me to strike up
conversations with people and make friends sometimes have helped to
keep certain people at a distance they have
been therapy, loving companionship, a soft pillow to lie on on the
floor, company when I lived alone, a friend to my children, comfort in
troubled times, comforting to others I've been saved from silent cars
and from falling down elevator shafts, someone to lean on, have been the
demonstration in school lessons,  have provided areas in other life
areas through taking care of them just like children, have a sidepiece
LOL, have taught
me to stay calm at unexpected emergency moments, helped me to walk
straight, provided me with warmth and laughter and stories to tell. Oh
yeah, and a living outfit too. Haha!

Love yall much,

Congrats to all who just received new dogs and to those of you going into class!
Danielle

On 8/26/14, Sofia Gallo via nagdu <nagdu at nfbnet.org> wrote:
> I will never forget the day I got lost on campus and my dog took me to
> a building near by that we had identified as a landmark.
>
> Obviously it is good to have good O&M skills and try not to get lost,
> but when it does happen in a relatively familiar place, it was
> definitely a huge help.
>
> Sofia
>
> On 8/26/14, Larry D Keeler via nagdu <nagdu at nfbnet.org> wrote:
>> Well Dan, dogs certainly do that. But also they provide companionship,
>> alert
>>
>> you to others who might be trying to sneak up on you, ad percieved
>> protection in bad neighborhoods and alert us to folks at our doors. Those
>> things are not emphasized but they are usually there. No, I'm not talking
>> about dog aggression or exsessive barking or anything like that for those
>> who might think so. For example, Holly wags or pulls harder when family
>> members or friends are about. She will also let me know by moving closer
>> to
>>
>> me or other body language that someone strange is about. A couple of
>> barks
>> tell me someone is at the door or more disturbing, at my window. And, in
>> some neighborhoods folks see Holly and just leave me alone. Finding
>> things
>> such as dorrs, elevators and bus stops and light poles for crossing the
>> street are also a big help.
>> ----- Original Message -----
>> From: "Dan Weiner via nagdu" <nagdu at nfbnet.org>
>> To: "'Amber M'" <thetraveler87 at gmail.com>; "'NAGDU Mailing List,the
>> National
>>
>> Association of Guide Dog Users'" <nagdu at nfbnet.org>
>> Sent: Tuesday, August 26, 2014 7:00 PM
>> Subject: Re: [nagdu] How does your dog help you?
>>
>>
>>> Hello to all.
>>> Well I thought this would be a fun question for the list.
>>> I was talking by Skype with a Russian partially-sighted lady who speaks
>>> good
>>> English and she asked me how my dog helped me and why can't I do the
>>> same
>>> things with a cane.
>>>
>>> I gave her an answer which I don't think convinced her very much, not
>>> that
>>>
>>> I
>>> really want to convince but it made me think that that would be fun to
>>> see
>>> how people on the list answer that question.
>>> I told her I would ask on the list and see what people say.
>>> I said that my dog takes me around obstacles, stops at steps and curbs,
>>> finds things for me, helps me keep walking in a straight line and
>>> generally
>>> I felt made me safer and more efficient.
>>> I said that when it's working out well with the dog it is the closest
>>> feeling that I can come across to walking as a sighted person since I
>>> remember that a little bit from being akid, though I will say the
>>> memories
>>> are fading--lol
>>>
>>> I also explained intelligent disobedience.
>>>
>>> So if you all have nothing better to do, right answers  to that question
>>> and
>>> maybe we will all learn a thing or two about each other and our
>>> experience.
>>> I also wrote that since I only hear out of one ear that I veer terribly
>>> and
>>> I  walk straighter with a dog who keeps me on the straight and narrow.
>>>
>>> I suppose I must like it after all, I've been doing the dog thing as a
>>> friend of mine calls it for twenty years--lol
>>>
>>>
>>> Yours,
>>> Dan Weiner'
>>>
>>> dcwein at dcwein.cnc.net
>>> -----Original Message-----
>>> From: nagdu [mailto:nagdu-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Amber M via
>>> nagdu
>>> Sent: Tuesday, August 26, 2014 3:19 PM
>>> To: Valerie Gibson; NAGDU Mailing List,the National Association of Guide
>>> Dog
>>> Users
>>> Subject: How does your dog help you?
>>>
>>> Hi Valerie and all,
>>> I would like to say a few things here, because, like Nicole, I chose not
>>> to
>>> give certain information, a to avoid extra information cluttering my
>>> questions, and be because I did not initially think that that
>>> information
>>> was relevant.
>>> When I first talked with the breeder, and even now, we are not sure and
>>> were
>>> not sure whether or not I was going to actually get to keep her. Right
>>> now,
>>> my husband and I are still discussing whether or not he thinks it's
>>> feasible
>>> for us to take this on.
>>> Also, in respect to my work schedule and it being compatible with me
>>> training, unfortunately, I do not get to choose my work schedule. And,
>>> if
>>>
>>> I
>>> waited until I had the "right schedule quote, I wouldn't get to train at
>>> all. I normally only work 40 hours. When I did meet with this breeder, I
>>> had
>>> no idea whether or not I was going to get to keep a puppy, and even if
>>> there
>>> would be the right puppy. I had already signed up for these hours, and I
>>> was
>>> not able to back out of them. The policy for overtime states that if you
>>> do
>>> offer to work it, you must do that regardless, so I was not in a
>>> position
>>>
>>> to
>>> cancel. Had I known for sure that I was going to get to keep a puppy,
>>> even
>>> for a short amount of time, I would not have taken those hours.
>>> Now, I am spending the mornings with her, and taking her for walks, and
>>> playing with her, before working in the afternoon.
>>> In fact, the other evening, after I got off, at midnight, I will add, we
>>> went for a walk that lasted probably about an hour and a half. I did not
>>> even get back and get us back in bed until 130.
>>> So my commitment to this, is not really a question. Working with her the
>>> same kind of hours somebody else, who isn't working, or who is in
>>> school,
>>> but isn't in class as many hours as I am actually working my job, is not
>>> feasible. But, working with her in general, and being able to devote my
>>> free
>>> time to her, is very feasible.
>>> She is very eager to learn, and so I mentioned a few things that I am
>>> wondering about, or worried about, there are many things that we have
>>> worked
>>> on and have been pretty successful with, that I did not mention. So it
>>> is
>>> not as though we have not spent any time together or done anything
>>> productive yet.
>>> Amber
>>>
>>> Sent from my iPhone
>>>
>>>> On Aug 26, 2014, at 1:16 PM, Valerie Gibson via nagdu
>>>> <nagdu at nfbnet.org>
>>> wrote:
>>>>
>>>> Hi,
>>>>
>>>> Personally i would have planned my puppy around my schedule, not the
>>>> other
>>> way around.  Since you'd already signed up for hours, it might have been
>>> best to wait until another litter is born.  Excitement to start training
>>> is
>>> understandable, but since you're dealing with a young pup that will be a
>>> service dog one day, socialization and all the puppy requirements from
>>> you
>>> will have to be more structured than if it were a family pet.
>>>>
>>>> I'm not saying you can't do it now, but only that this seems to have
>>>> been
>>> rushed into.
>>>>
>>>> I had a golden oppertunity to get a puppy from a litter before Zion's.
>>>> I
>>> didn't though, because I knew that I couldn't devote the amount of time
>>> needed to him at that time.  When I did get him, it was still a bit of
>>> work
>>> to deal with him and school, but I got him at a time where i could
>>> schedule
>>> my work around him. If I'd not been able to do that, I wouldn't have
>>> gotten
>>> the puppy.
>>>>
>>>> So, that's my bit on that.
>>>>
>>>> Anyway, what's done is done. Let's move on.
>>>>
>>>> As ar as the whining goes. clickers really only work for barking, at
>>>> least
>>> in my experience.  Understand that your dog is very young still and
>>> might
>>>
>>> be
>>> scared of being taken away from her littermates.  I think the best thing
>>> to
>>> do with young puppies is ignore them when they start whining.
>>>> It teaches them that scarey things are going to happen, and they need
>>>> to
>>> cope with it.  If you're constantly giing her attention, she is, in the
>>> end,
>>> getting what she wants.
>>>>
>>>> Once she realizes that whining is getting no response from you, she
>>>> will
>>> stop.  This will happen slowly and obviously not over night, but it
>>> needs
>>>
>>> to
>>> be conistant.  In a pack, dogs will ignore a dog that's seeking
>>> undeserved
>>> atttention, unless that dog puts the pack in danger.  When the dog
>>> quiets
>>> down for 10 to 20 minutes, then go and, very calmly, say hi.  One thing
>>> to
>>> remember is your aditude must be the complete opposite as her's in this
>>> case. so if she's excited or scared, you need to dish out equal, or
>>> more,
>>> calmness and tranquility.  I hope this make sense, but how you react
>>> nonverbally will send all kinds of messages to your dog, even if its not
>>> message you want to send.
>>>>
>>>> Hope this helps.
>>>>
>>>> Valerie
>>>>> On Aug 26, 2014, at 8:14 AM, Amber M via nagdu <nagdu at nfbnet.org>
>>>>> wrote:
>>>>>
>>>>> Hi Deanna,
>>>>> Yes, she is a poodle puppy. I am trying not to use corrections. And
>>>>> honestly, the whining is not nearly as bad as it was when we first
>>>>> started. This morning I was able to make breakfast without much
>>>>> noise. :-) Thanks, Amber
>>>>>
>>>>> Sent from my iPhone
>>>>>
>>>>>> On Aug 26, 2014, at 9:55 AM, Deanna Lewis <DLewis at clovernook.org>
>>>>>> wrote:
>>>>>>
>>>>>> Hi Amber,
>>>>>> Good to hear from you. Is the puppy a poodle? How old is she?
>>>>>> I think it's a good idea to let her whine a bit while she is in her
>>> crate. Try to ignore her as much as possible.  Pascal used to whine
>>> while
>>>
>>> he
>>> was in his crate. A technique a trainer taught me was to put the leash
>>> on
>>> your dog while they are in their crate. If the dog is quiet, praise
>>> them.
>>> Then, if the dog does whine, give a small correction.  The biggest
>>> downside
>>> is that you have to be right next to the crate. This worked wonders on
>>> Pascal, so hope it can help you too.
>>>>>> Deanna and Pascal
>>>>>>
>>>>>> -----Original Message-----
>>>>>> From: nagdu [mailto:nagdu-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Amber M
>>>>>> via nagdu
>>>>>> Sent: Tuesday, August 26, 2014 9:40 AM
>>>>>> To: Cindy Ray; NAGDU Mailing List, the National Association of Guide
>>>>>> Dog Users
>>>>>> Cc: Tracy Carcione
>>>>>> Subject: Re: [nagdu] An update on the owner training situation
>>>>>>
>>>>>> Hi Cindy,
>>>>>> As I told Tracy, I normally will not be working that many hours. I
>>>>>> took
>>> on those hours before I knew I would find a puppy. I had planned to meet
>>> with the breeder, but she had not said whether she planned to bring
>>> puppies
>>> with her or whether we were just going to meet and talk. So, then she
>>> said
>>> she would bring some, but I had already signed up for those hours. With
>>> my
>>> job, we are required to work hours that we sign up for. So I was kind of
>>> put
>>> in a impossible situation.
>>>>>> Amber
>>>>>>
>>>>>> Sent from my iPhone
>>>>>>
>>>>>>> On Aug 26, 2014, at 8:52 AM, Cindy Ray via nagdu <nagdu at nfbnet.org>
>>> wrote:
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> I think I'd have to agree. How are you actually going to have the
>>>>>>> time
>>> for this training thing. If I were working 80 hours a week, I would
>>> wonder
>>> how you get any rest at all. That's two regular weeks of work in one.
>>> YIKES!
>>> I would think letting her whine while you are doing dishes, using the
>>> restroom, etc. would be fine. If you answer her when she whines, then
>>> she
>>> knows that will work for her. That's just my common sense talking, not
>>> really based on knowledge.
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> Cindy
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> On Aug 26, 2014, at 7:32 AM, Tracy Carcione via nagdu
>>> <nagdu at nfbnet.org> wrote:
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> I don't wish to be discouraging, but, if you're working 80 hours a
>>> week, do you have the time required for puppy-training?  I understand it
>>> can
>>> be quite time-intensive.  Maybe you would be wise to wait until you're
>>> working a bit less?
>>>>>>>> Tracy
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> ----- Original Message ----- From: "Amber M via nagdu"
>>>>>>>> <nagdu at nfbnet.org>
>>>>>>>> To: <nagdu at nfbnet.org>
>>>>>>>> Sent: Tuesday, August 26, 2014 8:22 AM
>>>>>>>> Subject: [nagdu] An update on the owner training situation
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>> Hi all,
>>>>>>>>> I am sorry I have not written recently, but there has been a lot
>>> going on. I worked 82 hours last week, and since I wrote last, have met
>>> with
>>> both a trainer and a breeder. The breeder that I'm met with happened to
>>> have
>>> three puppies that she thought might be good for the task. She brought
>>> them
>>> and I met with them, and picked one that I really liked. She has allowed
>>> me
>>> to keep her for a couple of weeks to see how things go.
>>>>>>>>> I have a few questions.
>>>>>>>>> One-when you are taking a puppy that is only three months old out
>>>>>>>>> to
>>> do business, how can you keep them from eating sticks and mulch that
>>> might
>>> be bad for them and still let them do what they have to do? I have
>>> multiple
>>> times taken her out to do business and found her with a stick in her
>>> mouth.
>>> I know that she is going to need to chew on things. I can't keep her
>>> away
>>> from it, because these are scattered around the grass where I live. It
>>> is
>>> not that I am deliberately taking her near a place where that is easy to
>>> get
>>> to.
>>>>>>>>> Two-when I am not able to be with her, I have been putting her in
>>>>>>>>> her
>>> crate. I have made it clear that this is not a punishment. I never yell,
>>> never push her roughly, or do anything that I think would make it a bad
>>> experience. She has eaten in there several times, and I am doing this to
>>> reinforce that being in her crate actually equals a good thing. But my
>>> question has to do with her whining. I have tried clicking in treating
>>> for
>>> quiet, and then walking a little further away, or staying the same
>>> distance
>>> away, but letting the time be a little longer, but ultimately, I do not
>>> have
>>> the time to sit there for a long extended period, and she can't stay
>>> focused
>>> on the clicker for that amount of time anyway. So I am just wondering if
>>> I
>>> am wrong for having to let her wine a little sometimes because I have to
>>> go
>>> to the restroom or because I have to cook dinner or because I have to
>>> actually do the dishes etc.?
>>>>>>>>> Thanks,
>>>>>>>>> Amber
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>> Sent from my iPhone
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