[NAGDU] something that happened to me today

Wed Mar 30 15:30:49 UTC 2016

Yes Abby, I know how frustrating that can be. The problem I usually
have with people is them opening doors for me but not actually
thinking when they do so. Often times, I have people behind me who
reach in front of me when I'm standing right in front of the door and
end up hitting Thai in the face because he doesn't have the time or
space to move out of the way. Now, he stops a foot or so back from
certain doors that open outward because he understandably doesn't want
to be hit by the door. Also, people usually only open the door part
way and then act like Thai is being ridiculous when he doesn't want to
go through. Um, my dog isn't going to just walk through an opening
that isn't wide enough for both of us without stopping to show it to
me. Then add to that the people who think my dog should push the
button to open the door for me like the wheel chair assistance dog on
campus does, because apparently finding me the door I have no problem
opening myself or even showing me the button I can push isn't good
enough for a guide dog.

Danielle and Thai

On 3/30/16, larry d keeler via NAGDU <nagdu at nfbnet.org> wrote:
> Holly actually is really good at that! I tell her to find pole. She does
> and
> puts her nose on the button. I should teach her how to press the thing!
> But,
> I usually don't fuss if someone else presses it. A couple of times, I have
> just told someone to hold on and watch. They can be amazed that Holly finds
> the button for me!
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: NAGDU [mailto:nagdu-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Cindy Ray via
> NAGDU
> Sent: Wednesday, March 30, 2016 7:06 AM
> To: 'NAGDU Mailing List, the National Association of Guide Dog Users'
> Cc: Cindy Ray
> Subject: Re: [NAGDU] something that happened to me today
>
> I understand how you are feeling, but maybe for a while you need to find
> buttons daily so it is cemented into the pup's brain. People don't get
> "button" commands, and so you can't completely fault that. I understand the
> frustration though.
> Cindy Lou Ray
>
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: NAGDU [mailto:nagdu-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Abby Bolling via
> NAGDU
> Sent: Tuesday, March 29, 2016 6:29 PM
> To: NAGDU Mailing List, the National Association of Guide Dog Users
> <nagdu at nfbnet.org>
> Cc: Abby Bolling <violingirl30794 at gmail.com>
> Subject: [NAGDU] something that happened to me today
>
> Hi all!
> Well, I had an interesting day today! And here is the rant I put on FB
> because I've started using FB like a blog... (I really need to just get a
> blog and get it over with...) Anyway!
>
> **Begin FB Post**
>
> My dog should know the command "Find the button" by now. But she doesn't!
> Why?
> Because people keep coming up behind me and pushing it for her when she is
> no where near it. I understand people trying to help, but the person who
> did
> this today, you didn't help, you actually just undid about three weeks of
> target training that we as a team were working on. Help is always
> appreciated, don't get me wrong, but ASK!!!
> Think of the situation this way. You have a three-year-old child who has
> just thrown a temper tantrum in the grocery store. You get up to the check
> out and the child wants a candy bar. You tell him/her no because they
> mis-behaved. What would you do as a parent if the casheer just reached over
> and handed your child a candy bar after you told them no?
> In essence, that is what this person just did to me and my dog. I want her
> to find the button, that is why I told her "Button" but in this person
> pushing the button for me when I was no where near it taught Cricket that
> it
> is ok to ignore the command "button" and instead that she can go to the
> "door." Which is not acceptable behavior. I have taught her "button" for a
> reason, and now I have to re-teach her "button." and I am a student! I
> don't
> have time to re-teach my dog commands because people won't let her do her
> job!
>
> ** end of post**
>
> After my class, Cricket and I walked around the Student Union for about a
> half an hour finding buttons for her to target. She finally got it, but
> let's hope that the training will stick until Thursday when I can get back
> on campus. She's a smart girl, so I hope and pray that it will...
> But, I still don't get humanity.
>
> --
> Abigail M. Bolling
> Wright State University-2018: Rehabilitation Services
> Phone: (513) 512-3456
> Email: bolling.8 at wright.edu
> Abilities United: Secretary
> Ohio Association of Guide Dog Users, a chapter of the National Federation
> of
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> heart, and just let the music play." (Julie Anderson-Diamond) "Dance like
> no
> one is watching, love like you'll never be hurt, sing like no one is
> listening, and live like it's Heaven on earth." (William Purkey) The
> National Federation of the Blind knows that blindness is not the
> characteristic that defines you or your future. Every day we raise the
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> between blind people and our dreams. You can live the life you want;
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