[NAGDU] New member, and newbie questions!

[Cindy Ray]

I don’t think it is recommended tha you share a dog in tht way. I tried it once and my husband’s dog wouldn’t  go with me. Then after I had had a dog but she didn’t work for me, I tried it again and he worked fine. We did this because I felt discouraaged because the dog hadn’t worked out. It was a thrill, but that was the only time I did it.   
Cindy Lou Ray
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> On Sep 22, 2023, at 4:46 PM, Al Sten-Clanton via NAGDU <nagdu at nfbnet.org> wrote:
> 
> Greetings!  Welcome from me to this list.
> 
> 
> You ask, "
> 
> Since I'm the one getting a guide dog, can she ever take the dog out in a harness?"  I'm pretty sure the answer is no.  Since the dog has learned and continues to learn to work with you, it probably will be a problem for the dog responding well to your wife.  I let a close friend work my first dog for a few minutes in a convention hotel.  My friend didn't know what she was doing, even though she'd been around me for a few years, and my poor dog sure didn't know what to do with my friend.
> 
> Having said that, I would not be shocked if it worked for somebody from time to time.  But my wife is in some ways almost as close to my fifth dog as I am, but there's no way she could use him in harness.
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> That's my perspective, anyway, for what it's worth.
> 
> Best!
> Al
> 
>> On 9/22/23 16:43, Parham Doustdar via NAGDU wrote:
>> Hi all,
>> My name is Parham. I'm originally from Iran, and I've moved to Amsterdam as an expat and recently become a citizen.
>> I'm here because I don't speak much Dutch, and the information I can find online on guide dogs is very limited. So I thought I'd join this list and talk to some real people having real guide dogs! :-)
>> I had some starting questions if you don't mind.
>> First, I and my wife are both blind. What would your advice be to a blind couple? Should we, or should we not, walk with the guide dog together? Since I'm the one getting a guide dog, can she ever take the dog out in a harness? Would the person with a cane be walking behind? Any other points?
>> Secondly, we love experiencing new things. That's why we'll regularly go on new routes. We have very few "regular" routes, so most of the time we'll be using GPS software and going on a route we might never go on again. How does this affect a guide dog? Is that even something that a guide dog user should be doing? Most of the accounts I can find online, including in Allison's book Paws That Change My Life, is from people who have routes they frequent.
>> And lastly, I know this comes up often, so sorry for opening what might be a can of worms, but what was the experience of a highly skilled cane user switching to a guide dog? I am completely blind and can go almost anywhere with a cane, but I'm trying to (1) increase my speed, and (2) go out more confidently in windy and rainy weather, which is too frequent in NL for my liking, LOL! I'm curious what people with good cane skills found on the other side of the switch.
>> Thanks a lot for all opinions in advance!
>> Best,
>> Parham
>> Sent from my iPhone
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