[nfb-db] couple learning to communicate

[Scott Davert]

Hi Tracey.
I think that technology could serve as a secondary means of
communication in this regard, but that, yes, some effort should be
made to not rely on that technology to communicate. When I was
developing the ability to finger spell, both myself and someone else
who is deaf-blind utilized a braille lite to type back and forth until
such time that I was able to be without it. I guess what I'm saying
here is that while I agree that both should pursue learning a
different communication system, in the mean time, utilizing technology
already available certainly can not hurt things.

Scott

On 8/25/11, Tracie Inman <tracieinman at yahoo.com> wrote:
> In regard to the couple communicating with one person totally blind and not
> knowing how to communicate with his girlfriend and the other not knowing
> Braille.  Do any of you use sign language...Maurice and Janice and David I
> do not recall any of you three using sign language at the National
> Convention in Orlando.
>   First of all, it is inappropriate to suggest a computer considering the
> two are persuing a romantic relationship.  While computers are great to
> communicate when you are apart - they are NOT a viable means of
> communication for a couple (nor are they appropriate).  I have been married
> for 20 years and I'm a sign language user who only recently learned to hear
> with the help of two Cochlear Implants.  The most important thing for this
> couple would be for the gentleman to get the resources which would assist
> him with learning tactile communication.  My first suggestion is going to be
> that he contact his local Deaf Service center to provide him with the
> resources to find out where sign language is taught in his area. Then he can
> request private lessons with a teacher knowledgeable in tactile signing.
> www.rid.org can provide information on local sign language interpreting
> agencies and interpreters who would know the local resources.  In addition,
> the
>  couple should contact HKNC to locate the name of their regional
> representative and schedule an appointment.  The information provided by
> HKNC could prove very valuable to helping the couple. Perhaps the lady could
> benefit from an evaluation at HKNC to assist her with learning new skills
> (braille, independent living, etc).  HKNC would also assist the couple with
> their communication issues.
>   I hope this helps.  - Tracie Inman, Board Member
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> Tracie Inman
> tracieinman at yahoo.com
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