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Delcenia Brown delcenia at prodigy.net
Fri Mar 21 01:57:14 UTC 2014


Hi Cheri, 

I agree, we never know the impact we can have.    My background is around clerical. I have done Accounting Assistant for five years, Billing Clerk for one year, Clerical Support for one year, Administrative Assistant for two years and a host of other position. I have an Associates in Business and a Certificate in Accounting. At the time I post the question I was trying to see if Call Center would work. This is not what I want to do. Others try to stick us to certain positions and I never would settle for this. however, I thought it might open the door for something else. As my hearing get worst it becomes challenging to obtain a position that entail being on the phone. 

Nice to know some one else from sunny Florida.  We use to visit Florida once a year when my sister lived in Florida.  One year she had sent me a postcard in the winter with three teddy bears sitting with sun glasses on the beach.
warnly,
Delcenia
From: Cherifields at aol.com 
Sent: Thursday, March 20, 2014 8:24 PM
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Hey Delcenia, I enjoyed hearing of your life's story.  
Before now it seemed that I was getting bits and pieces of different list members questions without seeing both conversations or maybe I missed the first ones.  I wasn't particularly interested in small bits and pieces that made little sense unless you were the one it was directed at.  But the stories of each life and how we cope and what our expectations are for the future are very interesting to hear.  And maybe we can have some impact on one another in some way.  
I think you were fortunate to have been able to drive.  It seems like such a necessity today.  I have never been able to drive.
What kind of work are you interested in?  I missed that post of your question.  
I can't blame you for wanting to spend your time visiting your family.  They should be the most important thing in your life.  
I'm from Florida.  I live on an island 3 miles wide and eleven miles long called Amelia Island.  It was named this from the Spanish King Ferdinan after his daughter Amelia.  The biggest city is Fernandina Beach.  
Blessings to you,  Cheri

In a message dated 3/20/2014 12:27:53 P.M. Pacific Daylight Time, delcenia at prodigy.net writes:
  First let me say hello to everyone on this list and happy belated birthday 
  to Trish. To those that do not know me which is most of you. My name is 
  Delcenia and I live outside of Cleveland, ohio area. I am a little new to 
  this list  as of September 2013. Welcome Shadow. I do not normally respond 
  to anything other than the question regarding the voting issues because I do 
  not personally know any of you. After reading the last thread I am compelled 
  to say something.

  I begin to wear one hearing aid at the age of 10 in my right ear.   Maybe 10 
  or 15 years later I needed to wear two hearing aids in both ears. Now I only 
  wear one hearing aid in my left ear. I was diagnose with RP at the age of 
  21.
  Many years later I was told I had Usher Syndrom 2In 2005 I was told I have 
  MS. . I never had balance problems. I drove a car until I was around 28.  I 
  have always excepted whatever condition I was dealt. however, I  never place 
  myself into a category until recently. It was not because I did not accept 
  it, it was I felt like I did not belong because my situation was unique and 
  never heard any one else with similar problems. I say this because until I 
  joined this list I did not know you all exist as far as having similar 
  problems. Darlene I also enjoyed playing cards and once I learned braille 
  from Hadley I could still play just not as fast as I use to.  One of my 
  question is, how did you and others get to go to HK? Now after turning 50 on 
  December 31, 2013 and my situation is getting worse.   I want to continue to 
  take charge of my life.  I also want to work and this has been a challenge. 
  I had place a question on this list back in January 14 and no one responded. 
  Maybe I am using this list the wrong way as far as trying to post a question 
  or comment. At the time I was doing a 3 day assessment to see if call center 
  setting would work.  I had post a question looking for suggestions on how to 
  handle the setting that I had at the time.

  Could some of you when responding or posting say what state you are from so 
  that I  and others would know. Personally, I think this list is a good idea. 
  I have learned a lot from all of you since September 2013.   I hope to meet 
  all of you one day. Unfortunately, it will not be the National Convention 
  this year in orlando. My oldest granddaughter who live in North Carolina 
  turn 10 on July 3 and I want to spend time with her and my husband's family 
  reunion is in Detroit the same week. I will be stretching myself across the 
  border that week.

  Meanwhile, Anna Trotman, I am grateful for the I Can Connect program (ICCP). 
  I am learning to use my IPAD, Iphone and Braille Display.  I can not wait 
  for the training to began again. Meanwhile the internet and Hadley has been 
  a great tool for learning.

  So keep on keeping on everybody and remember with a little determination  we 
  can accomplish a lot.

  Delcenia
  -----Original Message----- 
  From: Darlene Laibl-Crowe
  Sent: Thursday, March 20, 2014 10:51 AM
  To: 'NFB Deaf-Blind Division Mailing List'
  Subject: Re: [nfb-db] About This Group List

  First, Shadow, I want to say 'AWESOME!' about the CI and getting your best
  ear back.  Yes, I understand what you say about one ear being better than
  the other.  Mine is the right ear.  I have heard many positive things from
  CI wearers as I have many friends who have them.  I found out when I began
  to lose more hearing that I was not a good candidate for CI because I could
  still hear with a hearing aid...so for now, I am bi-lateral hearing aid
  user.  One day I might have to become a CI-user but for now I do what I do.


  I got new HAs about three weeks ago and they are great along with the
  Assistive listening Devices I got with them!  Unfortuantely there are some
  areas that need to be worked out and that is the issue of background noises.
  Sigh!  It will get better as I know from experience technology is improving
  all the time!

  I really enjoyed Bernie's class, too!  What did you do your presentation on?
  Mine was called 'Laugh Out Loud' and everyone had a blast.  I recently used
  it for a speech at my local Lion's Club for St Patrick's Day and the
  audience loved it.  Everyone had a great time laughing!  It isn't stand up
  comedy, just pure laughter which is good for the heart, mind, body and soul!

  Did they have the leadership class while you were there?  I took that class
  because I wanted to know the 'right' way to advocate for myself.  We learned
  a lot in that class and it has helped me tremendously with all I do.

  Well, gotta go, take care of yourself!
  (smile)
  Darlene

  -----Original Message-----
  From: nfb-db [mailto:nfb-db-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Shadow Wolf
  Sent: Thursday, March 20, 2014 10:37 AM
  To: NFB Deaf-Blind Division Mailing List
  Subject: Re: [nfb-db] About This Group List

  Hi Darlene,
  Nice to meet you. I was at HKNC for 11 months. I took full advantage of the
  training they offered there. I took up whatever classes they offered besides
  just learning Braille, Technology, ASL-TSL-Haptic Signs and Independent
  Living. I even took Sr. Bernie's presentation class last fall prior to her
  retirement last Dec. after 34 or 35 years she worked there. It was a great
  learning experience.

  I first started wearing hearing aids in both ears at 6 years old. I lost my
  hearing as a toddler. I was told I had RP during my early teens once I was
  diagnosed. But I was still driving up until I was 24. Then later on, around
  in 2010. I was told I had Usher's type-2. I was confused about that, because
  Usher's also affects balance. Whereas I do not have balance issues.  In
  fact, I think most people with Usher's type-2 do not have balance issues.
  On New Year's eve 2000, I was involved in a really bad car accident.
  Although I was not a driver but a passenger. I suffered head trauma where I
  also suffered an ear fracture in left side. I lost my hearing in that ear 2
  days later. For 9 and half years I was hearing with only 1 ear, a hearing
  aid. My left ear was my better ear then. If you are a right hand person,
  writing with a right hand, it was like losing your right hand and trying to
  write with your left hand. Same with my hearing after that accident. I had
  communication issues and kept to myself during most of that time. Until one
  day in fall 2009, I got lucky and became a candidate in my state to receive
  a Cochlear Implant. After all is said and done. After 3 months of my brain
  trying to adjust to my CI and hearing in my left ear again. My left ear
  where my CI is, became the better ear once again. I now understand people
  best with my CI. It is loud and clear. The CI boosted my communication
  skills and gave me a great deal of confidence. I am now happy that I
  received the CI and I hold no regrets about it. It is medically amazing that
  the CI can restore your hearing if someone suffered dramatic hearing loss
  from an ear fracture. I admit I was skeptical at first when I first sat down
  with CI specialists prior to my surgery. I didn't think it was gonna work.
  But I was wrong. The CI did work for me.

  --S.W.

  On 3/20/2014 4:49 AM, Darlene Laibl-Crowe wrote:
  > Good morning, Shadow!
  >
  > Welcome to the NFB DB Division.  I, too, have RP and am HOH.  I wear
  > bi-lateral hearing haids.  But I did not grow up knowing that I had
  > RP.  I found out as an adult at the age of 28 and had to give up
  > driving.  I was able to see to read print and see people's faces to
  > read lips to accommodate for what I could hear for about 22 years after I
  was diagnosed with RP.
  > That means when I turned 50 almost 6 years ago, I struggled with what
  > to do as I could not longer see to do things that I kept doing as a
  > sighted person.
  >
  > Since I grew up wearing hearing aids, I never considered myself a 'deaf'
  > person and can remember someone telling me 'oh, you're deaf' when I
  > told them I wore hearing aids.  I quickly responded and told them 'oh,
  > no, I can hear something'.
  >
  > So six years ago when I began to struggle with vision loss, I finally
  > met many who were dealing with similar issues and I recognized that I
  > was Deaf-Blind.  Once I was able to define this, I soon went to Helen
  > Keller National Center (January 2011 -- September 2011) where I
  > learned much about my specific needs.  HKNC is a great place to learn
  > all you can about resources and gives a great sense of confidence.
  >
  > Since returning home, I have continued to learn and made great progress.
  > How long were you at HKNC?  Also, if you are home, are you learning
  > Braille through Hadley's?
  >
  > That was how I completed my Braille...through Hadley School for the Blind.
  > The Braille teacher at HKNC was very good and so glad I got the
  > beginnings of it there and the teacher at Hadley was also very good.
  > I use Braille in my everyday life but I am not that fluent because I
  > have not made myself sit and read as I should.  Need to get myself
  > back on track there.  I use Braille in business meetings, identifying
  > things in my home and I also use it often when playing cards.  My
  > family loves to play canasta and I missed playing it.  Now I can play
  > it again!  (smile)  My sister (who is sighted) and I always play
  > partners against our spouses and we win the majority of the time!
  >
  > Take your time learning Braille.  It can be daunting as times but very
  > rewarding when it is completed.
  >
  > Anyway, This list is a good source for information and sharing.  I do
  > have a question...you state that you have been Deaf-Blind all your
  > life.  When did you find out about your RP?
  >
  > Have a Thrilling Thursday!!
  >
  > (smile)
  > Darlene
  >
  >
  >
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