<html><head><meta http-equiv="content-type" content="text/html; charset=utf-8"></head><body dir="auto"><div>April,</div><div>I don't have an answer for the doctor forms part of your post. I do want to responde to your post about your denial of your hearing and vision loss. </div><div>The loss of any sense can be hard, some of us deal with it in different ways. When a person deals with the loss of two senses, it is doubly hard. Its a griving process, and denial is one of those stages. </div><div>In my experience, taking action, getting involved, meeting others, learning, helps the process along. The reason I say this is, again in my experience, over the last two years I have lost 80percent of my hearing. I was blind all of my life. I swing back and forth from being absolutely frustrated to sad to acceptance. Getting involved, learning new skills, talking to others, asking questions, taking action, all give your mind, body and soul something else to work on. And even if that means one or two days you have to force the issue, of just getting out of bed, or getting out of the house, or making a call, or learning a new skill. Of course a counselor who is trained in mental health and the adjustment of disability, can also help. </div><div>Your not the only onw in denial, in lossing your vision or your hearing. I know many other deafblind persons who struggle with this on a daily basis, some shut themselves into a house, others do something about, and then a majority of us, are some where in the middle. </div><div>I wish I had some great words of wisdom, its a one day at time thing. </div><div>I am sure if you keeping on posting about this, you will find that your not alone. Which can help that denial too. </div><div><br></div><div>Here is my disclaimer, I am not a counselor, but a social worker. So my advice above is not official. </div><div><br></div><div><br><br>Marsha drenth <div>Sent with my IPhone </div></div><div><br>On Oct 29, 2013, at 3:23 PM, April Brown <<a href="mailto:aprilbrownwrite@gmail.com">aprilbrownwrite@gmail.com</a>> wrote:<br><br></div><blockquote type="cite"><div>
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<font size="+1">Hello,<br>
<br>
Until a year ago, I mostly ignored my low hearing. I've worn
a hearing aid for years. A year ago, my vision suddenly failed
drastically. Obviously, it was never good to begin with either,
and I never did learn to read lips. I still don't have an official
diagnosis or prognosis.<br>
<br>
Both of these issues have caused me issues in the past. Even
as my vision fails, and my eye hurts constantly, I still
comprehend better by seeing and reading. I intend to learn
Braille in January. (Novemeber is a busy month for writers, and
December is busy with in laws).<br>
<br>
Many, many years ago, in college, I attempted to take a sign
language course. I didn't learn a thing. All I ever saw was
motion, and nothing that made sense. At the time, I blamed it on
the stress of my life. Now, I'm not so sure it was just stress.
Still, I wish I had learned!<br>
<br>
In the meantime, and in the future, how do I convince doctors, and
other professionals, that an email is better than trying to
comprehend a phone conversation?<br>
<br>
To go along with another thread or two, a few times I asked for
help on a blind list I had the "I can call you and talk you though
it" response. Which is great, except, I don't really comprehend
well on the phone, even from people I know. Especially if there
is any background sound. I do appreciate the sentiment. <br>
<br>
I'm still very new in this situation, and yes, I'm partially still
in denial, I'm sure.<br>
<br>
Thanks,<br>
<br>
April Brown<br>
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