[NFB-Talk] It is with a heavy heart that I send this to you

[Kaye Baker]

Mike, I am sorry for your loss. I want to say thought that this truly is a
beautiful message. Many of us can take a lesson from it.

Best

K

 

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Subject: [NFB-Talk] It is with a heavy heart that I send this to you

 

Hello,

 

In April 1972 I attended my first meeting of the Orange County chapter of
the National Federation of the Blind. It was an adventure, and I chose by
attending to explore this new and for me different world. Through the
federation I have been involved in many adventures and am certain there will
be more. In 1976 I began an 18-month assignment from Dr. Jernigan to help
Dr. Ray Kurzweil bring his dream of a reading machine for blind people to
fruition.

 

I think my greatest adventure was not, however, directly related to the NFB.
Oh, a Federationist started me down an unexpected road when, in January of
1982, he introduced me to a woman, Karen Ashurst. Little did I know that day
what would happen. Suffice it to say that Karen and I were married on
November 27, 1982.

 

Karen and I began to share not only NFB adventures but many others as well.
Probably many of you are familiar with what must be the most significant
one, I escaped from Tower One of the World 
Trade Center on September 11, 2001. In 2011, Thunder Dog; the story of a
blind man, his guide dog and the triumph of trust was published. If you did
not know Karen directly, but if you read Thunder dog you did get to meet and
know her.

 

Yesterday, November 12 2022, just 15 days before we would have celebrated
our 40th wedding anniversary, Karen passed away. Her passing was somewhat
expected, but not so soon. She discovered a wound, probably from a pressure
sore, in late July. Yes, a pressure sore as Karen is a paraplegic and has
been in a wheelchair her entire life. As I love to say, she reads, and I
push. Anyway, the sore eventually required her to go to the hospital in late
July.

 

She returned home on August 28 with a healing wound, but with an extremely
diminished appetite and a great deal of pain. Karen has suffered from
Rheumatoid Arthritis since January of 2017. She has been receiving infusions
of medications to diminish the RA, but those infusions seriously lower her
immune system. She had to stop the infusions in August while in the
hospital. This was because lowering her immune system further could result
in more wound infections. The other side of the coin is that it caused Karen
excruciating pain. Over the past three months the pain took its toll as her
appetite diminished and she couldn't even swallow much food.

 

This past Monday, we put her back in the hospital. Over this week her
strength and stamina dropped precipitously. Yesterday, at the suggestion of
her doctors with agreement from Karen's sister, a retired CCU and ICU nurse,
we stopped life support.

 

Now, we move on. I write this long message as I know many of you had some
contact and knowledge of Karen. I want everyone to know fully about her,
what happened to her and what happens now. I intend to continue to be active
where I can. I will not stop moving forward as that would be an insult to
Karen and all our 40-year marriage meant to both of us. I will continue to
travel and speak. I will continue my work with accessiBe. I will work as I
can to support the NFB. Most of all, I will have and treasure 40 years of
memories with Karen. Life goes on and it is what I intend to do as well.

 

God bless you, Karen. You always are and will be at the forefront of my mind
and heart. For all of us here on Earth, let's continue to move forward and
grow until the entire world understands and believes that "disability" does
not mean inability, but rather such is just a characteristic.

 

Thanks for reading. If you knew Karen and are saddened by this message,
don't be. Instead renew your conviction for equality for all of us. I know
Karen today is, as Dr. tenBroek would say, "Within The Grace of God".

 

Best Regards,

 

 

Michael Hingson

 

The Michael Hingson Group, INC.

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Michael Hingson, President

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