[Nfbmo] Fw: [Missouri-l] Infant is returned to blind couple afterstate placesher in protective custody
dewey.bradley at att.net
Wed Jul 21 15:00:46 UTC 2010
Well as a blind pairent what do you think about this?
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> placesher in protective custody
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> Infant is returned to blind couple after state places her in protective
> By LEE HILL KAVANAUGH
> The Kansas City Star
> Fifty-seven days after she was born, Mikaela Sinnett was home for the
> first time Tuesday with her parents, Erika Johnson and Blake Sinnett of
> Independence. State officials had worried they were unable to care for
> DAVID EULITT | The Kansas City Sta
> Fifty-seven days after she was born, Mikaela Sinnett was home for the
> first time
> Tuesday with her parents, Erika Johnson and Blake Sinnett of Independence.
> officials had worried they were unable to care for her.
> A folding cane used by Blake Sinnett rested in the baby carrier used to
> carry home his daughter.
> On Tuesday, Blake Sinnett, guided by his mother, Jenne Sinnett, carried
> his 2-month-old daughter, Mikaela Sinnett. Behind them was Mikaela's
> mother, Erika Johnson.
> Erika Johnson will never be able to see her baby, Mikaela.
> But for 57 days she couldn't keep her newborn close, smell her baby's
> breath, feel
> her downy hair.
> The state took away her 2-day-old infant into protective custody - because
> and Mikaela's father are both blind.
> No allegations of abuse, just a fear that the new parents would be unable
> to care
> for the child.
> On Tuesday, Johnson still couldn't stop crying, although Mikaela was back
> in her
> "We never got the chance to be parents," she said. "We had to prove that
> we could."
> Tuesday, she and Blake Sinnett knew their baby was finally coming home to
> their Independence
> apartment, but an adjudication hearing was scheduled for the afternoon on
> the state would stay involved in the rearing of the baby. Then from a
> morning phone
> call to their attorney, they learned that the state was dismissing their
> "Every minute that has passed that this family wasn't together is a
> tragedy. A legal
> tragedy and a moral one, too," said Amy Coopman, their attorney. "How do
> you get
> 57 days back?"
> Arleasha Mays, a spokeswoman for the Missouri Department of Social
> Services, said
> privacy laws prohibited her from speaking about specific cases. But she
> added, "The
> only time we recommend a child be removed is if it's in imminent danger."
> Johnson said she knew the system eventually would realize its horrible
> mistake, but
> she often was consumed with sadness. Sinnett tried his best to keep
> Johnson hopeful.
> For almost two months she and Sinnett could visit their baby only two or
> three times
> a week, for just an hour at a time, with a foster parent monitoring.
> "I'm a forgiving person," Johnson said, but she's resentful that people
> assumed she
> was incapable.
> "Disability does not equal inability," she said.
> Representatives of the sightless community agreed that people were
> well-meaning but
> blinded by ignorance.
> Mikaela was born May 21 at Centerpoint Medical Center of Independence. The
> let Sinnett "see" her birth by feeling the crowning of her head.
> For Johnson, hearing Mikaela's whimpers was a thrill. The little human
> inside her
> all these months, the one who hiccupped and burped, who kicked and moved,
> at night, was now a real person whom she loved more than anything else
> she'd ever
> In her overnight bag was Mikaela's special homecoming outfit, a green
> romper from
> Johnson's mother, with matching bottoms and a baby bow.
> Questions arose within hours of Mikaela's birth, after Johnson's clumsy
> first attempts
> at breast-feeding - something many new mothers experience.
> A lactation nurse noticed that Mikaela's nostrils were covered by
> Johnson's breast.
> Johnson felt that something was wrong and switched her baby to her other
> side, but
> not before Mikaela turned blue.
> That's when the concerned nurse wrote on a chart: "The child is without
> proper custody,
> support or care due to both of parents being blind and they do not have
> training to assist them."
> Her words set into motion the state mechanisms intended to protect
> children from
> physical or sexual abuse, unsanitary conditions, neglect or absence of
> basic needs
> being met.
> Centerpoint said it could not comment because of patient privacy laws, but
> Gene Hallinan said, "We put the welfare of our patients as our top
> A social worker from the state came by Johnson's hospital room and asked
> her questions:
> How could she take her baby's temperature? Johnson answered: with our
> talking thermometer.
> How will you take her to a doctor if she gets sick? Johnson's reply: If it
> were an
> emergency, they'd call an ambulance. For a regular doctor's appointment,
> they'd call
> a cab or ride a bus.
> But it wasn't enough for the social worker, who told Johnson she would
> need 24-hour
> care by a sighted person at their apartment.
> Johnson said they couldn't afford it, didn't need it.
> "I needed help as a new parent, but not as a blind parent," Johnson said.
> She recalled the social worker saying: " 'Look, because you guys are
> blind, I don't
> feel like you can adequately take care of her.' And she left."
> The day of Johnson's discharge, another social worker delivered the news
> to the couple
> that Mikaela was not going home with them. The parents returned the next
> day to visit
> Mikaela before she left the hospital, but they were barred from holding
> "All we could do was touch her arm or leg," Johnson said.
> The couple began making calls. Gary Wunder, president of the National
> of the Blind of Missouri, had trouble believing it at first.
> "I needed to verify their whole story," he recalled. "We had to do due
> . I found the couple to be intelligent and responsible.
> "We knew this was an outrage that had taken place."
> He notified Kansas City chapter president Shelia Wright, who visited the
> Hearing about the empty crib, the baby clothes, Wright recalled, "I felt
> as helpless
> as I've ever felt in my life.
> "I hurt so bad for them. This is unforgivable."
> They rallied other associations for the blind nationwide. More than 100
> people at
> a national convention in Dallas volunteered to travel to Kansas City to
> protest and
> testify, both as blind parents and as the sighted children of blind
> parents. (Mikaela
> has normal sight.)
> They also hired Coopman, who watched the young couple with their baby girl
> on Tuesday.
> "I'm sorry," she said, wiping tears. "But this should not have happened."
> Johnson kept a journal that Coopman is keeping closed for now. She
> indicates that
> legal action will be taken.
> "Whether a couple is visually impaired or deaf or in a wheelchair, the
> state should
> not keep them from their children," she said.
> Now breast-feeding is a lost option. And the beautiful newborn clothes
> hanging in
> the closet went unworn, because their baby was growing bigger in the arms
> of someone
> The couple said they had tried to prove themselves to the sighted
> community since
> their early years. Sinnett rode his bicycle on the street with the help of
> a safety
> gadget. Johnson graduated from high school with honors. But all the
> challenges they've
> endured over the years shrink compared to the responsibility of caring for
> 10 pounds
> of squirming baby girl.
> Johnson cuddled Mikaela. Gave her a bottle. Patted her back until she
> burped. Mikaela
> gave a tiny smile.
> In their 24 years, the couple said, they've both endured prejudice from
> others. They
> don't want any other blind parent to suffer the same obstacle they did.
> Fifty-seven days are too precious to lose.
> The Star's Laura Bauer contributed to this report. To reach Lee Hill
> Kavanaugh, call
> 816-234-4420 or send e-mail to
> lkavanaugh at kcstar.com
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