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From: Norma Crosby <ncrosby at nfbtx.org>
Date: Wed, 16 Dec 2020 12:08:13 -0600
Subject: [NFBT] Fwd: Open Letter of Apology from President Riccobono
To: "<member at nfbtx.org>" <member at nfbtx.org>

Federation Family,

Below my signature is an open letter from our president and our national
board. Some of you may understand the context and others may not. I can
tell you that it was a difficult letter to have to write because it deals
with a terrible subject that none of us like having to address because we
all wish it weren't necessary. The letter contains an apology for the way
our organization has dealt with sexual abuse and misconduct in our ranks in
the past. This discussion has come about because there have been some very
disturbing allegations made on social media during the past 10 days or so.
The allegations mostly deal with misconduct that has occurred at the three
training centers associated with our organization. I never sugar coat
things to you guys, and I won't now. Some of the allegations are relatively
minor, but some involve abuses that can only be described as terrible. I
have been watching the discussion, and I'll say that I was surprised by
most of the allegations, but as with other organizations, I am aware that
things like this happen within the Federation. That does not mean they are
acceptable, and I can tell you that our current board has been working hard
to try and address the general concerns raised in the recent social media
posts. They need to be addressed, and I am glad that we are working on the
situation. Many of the abuses chronicled on social media deal with past
abuses, but that does not make them less critical to address so that they
don't continue to occur.

The posts I have seen are important because they give us a glimpse into a
history that we don't want to see repeated in the future. Some perpetrators
have gotten away with serial abuses, and we must not allow that to occur
ever again. I promise you that, as your current president and as a member
of the national board, I will press for the reform we need to establish a
safe and loving environment for anyone who wishes to participate in our
conferences, programs, and other activities. That is how it should be.

Our affiliate is working hard to try and avoid situations like those
experienced in other spaces. We are in the process of updating our rules
for participating in our youth programs in order to make sure we never
encounter these issues. We have been fortunate in that this has not been a
major issue during my presidency. That doesn't mean we need to become
complacent or to assume it can never happen. So, our team is beginning the
process of making updates intended to strengthen the safeguards that have
been established in the past.

Finally, before you read the letter below, let me assure you that my door
is always open, and I promise that I will listen to complaints and try to
find an equitable solution to them. Once we have drafted plans to update
our policies for both minors and adults, I will share them with you, and
our team will listen to suggestions that you may have for improving our
work.

If you need to discuss anything related to this topic, please feel free to
call my direct line. To reach me directly, you can dial our main number and
when the automated system picks up, dial 100.

Best regards,

Norma Crosby, President
National Federation of the Blind of Texas
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From: National Federation of the Blind <webmaster at nfb.org>
Date: Wed, Dec 16, 2020 at 11:15 AM
Subject: Open Letter of Apology from President Riccobono
To: Norma Crosby <ncrosby at nfbtx.org>

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Open Letter of Apology from President Riccobono

Content warning: the following letter addresses sensitive topics regarding
sexual misconduct and violence.

Dear Fellow Federationists:

Many NFB members, former members, and people within our blindness community
are hurting. For some, the pain comes from their lived experience of being
abused or violated by one of our members and/or made to feel like no one
else was listening or came to their defense at a Federation event or
training program. For others, what they feel is empathy for survivors who
were harmed by participating in the National Federation of the Blind,
recognizing that we have not done enough within our movement and
systemically within our community. We are deeply sorry that this is true
and apologize for where we have failed. As the elected President of this
movement, I carry the responsibility of this pain. I am profoundly sorry
that anyone has been harmed by experiences in our movement. As a husband,
father of three children, and leader who tries to live by a strong set of
ethical values, I hurt for the survivors, and I deeply regret that I have
made mistakes along the way. At each opportunity that I have to sit with my
young children, I am directly reminded how fragile the balances are in our
lives and how much our actions can have a lasting impact on others. I live
with the regret and sorrow for the mistakes I personally made in dealing
with inappropriate behavior in the past. Sometimes my mistakes have only
been illuminated later through the honest reflection of a friend or the
vulnerable sharing of someone who has been harmed. How do you adequately
write a letter to apologize for that? How do you spread this sentiment to
an entire movement of people including those who have left our
organization? How do we, collectively, create an adequate action plan to
promote healing, prevent future incidents, and continue our development of
a culture that is welcoming, safe, and eliminates the barriers to bringing
concerns forward for resolution? This letter attempts to explore those
questions, but this is merely a single moment in these needed conversations.

Our hearts break for the survivors of abuse and sexual misconduct who have
bravely shared incidents that have happened within our organization over
the decades. During the past couple of weeks, a number of courageous
individuals have shared painful stories about their experiences on social
media and in individual conversations. We thank those brave survivors for
sharing their stories because we recognize how difficult that is and how
each story creates a unique set of emotions and challenges. We deeply
regret that over our eighty years we have not handled each situation
appropriately or been able to heal the pain that such incidents create. We
do not reject these feelings of pain. In fact, we want to find and
establish better ways to hear them and continuously eliminate the actions
that caused them. We have no intention of debating the circumstances of any
instance. Instead we acknowledge that if a survivor was left feeling the
situation went unaddressed, then we have failed. The membership demands we
do better. I, as President, demand this of myself and expect it from our
movement. We will do better. In addition to calling upon all Federationists
to listen better, honestly reflect upon your own biases, and to actively
align our actions to our words, I call upon you not to dismiss those who
cannot believe that our intentions are sincere or those who have had the
courage to come forward. It is our individual and collective action,
positively focused on making things better that will create belief. That is
what has been true for us since 1940, and it will continue to be true for
us going forward.

Let us get down to the hard facts. Words appear to mean nothing without
actions, so below I’ve outlined six steps that we are committing to in the
near future. Before I list them, please understand that these are initial
steps, and we are committed to exploring and implementing whatever
policies, programs, trainings, or resources necessary beyond these steps to
appropriately address these horrible situations.
Improvements to Reporting of Incidents

We are currently thoroughly reviewing the pathways for reporting incidents
and how those paths are handled. We are open to revamping all of the
reporting mechanisms we have. We are in discussion with outside consultants
who are expected to do a complete review of our processes with a
specialized emphasize on sexual misconduct and harassment. We will rebuild
all of our procedures if needed. We expect our revised processes to involve
a third-party entity, but since we do not yet know how that will turn into
actionable efforts within our organization, we cannot be specific about
that process. Our hope is to be more transparent about our partnership and
timelines for action during the first quarter of 2021. We hear you about
the uncomfortable position some people feel is created by the current
reporting system when a person must report through members they will later
need to deal with personally. Regardless of the reporting mechanisms we
maintain and create, we must be very clear on one point: Every elected
leader of this organization must be prepared to take concerns seriously and
to act upon information they are given as quickly and thoroughly as
possible. Furthermore, the safety of blind youth who are under our
supervision is our highest priority, and any incident that is discovered
must be dealt with immediately.
Open Meeting and Supporting Survivors

We are committing to hold an open meeting or series of listening sessions
to discuss these issues and solicit feedback on what support and resources
victims and survivors need. We have not yet detailed what the open meeting
and conversations will be. Because we do not want to unintentionally
contribute to further pain among survivors, we want blind people with lived
experiences and our consultants to guide that process. In the meantime, we
continue to answer calls and emails from Federation members seeking clarity
about these issues and offering solutions that we will carefully weigh as
our learning continues. We are grateful to those of you who have reached
out directly offering your personal experiences as a guide to future
development. The members of the Federation are expected to shape what we
do, and your readiness to bring solutions makes a big difference. Our goal
is to provide support and healing to victims and survivors.
Enhancing the Code of Conduct Work

Prior to recent events and the stories that have emerged, we were in the
process of considering and implementing several enhancements surrounding
our code of conduct and its related procedures and programs. We have now
paused those efforts. Why? Because we are listening. We have done horribly
at messaging and sharing our internal procedures and our plans for
effectively administering our organization's code of conduct. I say paused
because we want to carefully evaluate where we are and our next steps
guided by the expertise of anti-sexual-violence experts from outside our
movement. If we must completely reset, that is what we will do. For now,
our code and existing procedures are in place to set expectations within
our organization. We will carefully evaluate current grievances to ensure
that they continue to be safely and swiftly investigated even while our
procedures are under review.
Illuminating Expectations

You may already know, but the board made its annual revisions to the code
and procedures process on December 5, 2020. When we went to post the
revisions, we realized that the FAQ we planned to post after the December
2019 review did not happen. No excuses, that was a pretty big dropped ball.
That document is intended to answer questions like what happens when a
grievance is filed, how is information kept confidential, and what
communications can a filing party expect? Overall, we have failed to
communicate broadly the procedures we have been using. For example, we
allow for advocates to participate with parties who are involved with code
of conduct investigations. Moreover, these FAQs will also be informed and
expanded based upon questions that continue to be raised. They will also
evolve as we implement additional avenues for raising concerns and for
training members of the organization. We take ownership for the
misinformation that is now circulating. Please keep those questions and
suggestions coming.
Continuous Training

Training on issues around misconduct and abuse is something we have only
skimmed the surface of in the recent past. We have done a minimal amount of
training for affiliate presidents and workshops at our national convention.
We were not satisfied that our training was sustainable, so we have been
seeking other partners. That has been unreasonably slow. No excuse, we
understand. We are going to be putting together training with the specific
goal of preventing misconduct and abuse at Federation events and to
strengthen the level of comfort with reporting. We have also hired an
individual to assist in a number of areas including coordinating
training—that person only started on November 30, which is why we had not
yet introduced her to the membership.
Consistency across NFB Training Centers

A lack in consistency in practices across the three training centers that
are affiliated with the National Federation of the Blind has been raised as
a concern. It is worth noting that only BLIND Incorporated, the Colorado
Center for the Blind, and the Louisiana Center for the Blind have made the
specific partnership commitments necessary to be formally and officially
affiliated with the organized blind movement. On a regular basis, I have
been meeting with our training center directors with the specific goal of
better aligning our practices and policies. There is more work to do there.
We expect these centers to fully commit to our code of conduct practices
and set the highest standard of professional practice in all programs.
During the most recent revisions of our code of conduct, we discussed the
topic of consistency in handling and reporting concerns at our centers. We
will be conducting a full review and implementing consistent training for
the personnel at each of our centers. I stand with those who have been
harmed by any employee, contractor, or volunteer at one of our centers, and
I am prepared to help eliminate ineffective practices and urge the
termination of those employees and contractors (as well as the exclusion of
volunteers) who violate our policies in this area.

Let me also add that our training centers have made a great difference in
raising the standard of training for blind people in this nation and all
around the world. As a graduate of one of our centers, I share that pride
for the training I received but also the pain that even one person coming
through one of our centers would have had a harmful experience. The
employees at our centers are some of the most dedicated and thoughtful
folks I know, and they are committed to the safety and wellbeing of program
participants. However, that does not excuse harmful incidents that have
happened in our training programs. I know our centers are committed to
doing better. I know the executive directors and boards of each of these
training centers will be prioritizing the advancement of these
conversations. Most importantly, I know they feel your pain in a very deep
and personal way.

Again, these are immediate actions and commitments. This is not a complete
roadmap for the years to come, but it outlines some of the forthcoming
actions we are focusing on. We know that we need to examine more ways to
support our members such as mental health resources and the expertise of
crisis professionals. Members of the Federation have a right to demand
information about what is being done, and Federation leaders are expected
to share that information. When we committed to the code of conduct in
2018, we made a commitment to a much-needed journey. Our commitment has not
wavered even if we have not been outwardly demonstrating a commitment that
you can trust. As leaders, we will continue to work to earn your trust and
we will remain committed to continuous improvement and an open dialogue for
organizational change. We are committed to finding ways to heal that pain,
while preventing any future pain that results from unacceptable behavior.
We are going to need the ideas and support of the members of this movement
to do that in a meaningful and effective manner, so all are welcomed.

You continue to be our wise teachers. You who have shared your personal
experiences and who have dared to open yourselves continue to guide us. In
the National Federation of the Blind, we value diversity, we strive to be
fully inclusive, and we want to be the safe space for all blind people.
Every blind person in this nation deserves what this movement has to offer,
and we recognize we have work to do so that every blind person feels like
there is a place here for everyone. We are going to get there together. We
apologize that we have not yet made it all the way, but we pledge that the
commitment is deep and it is real. We are not done with our changes.

With love and commitment, we are #MarchingTogether.

— Mark Riccobono, President
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The National Federation of the Blind Board of Directors shown below
requested that the President write an open letter regarding our
commitments. By signing below, each of us affirms our support and
commitment to the content of the letter above. Anybody with concerns
regarding the content of this letter, the commitments that have been
expressed, or potential incidents that may have happened at Federation
events are welcome to contact any of the individuals endorsing this
statement.

Pam Allen, First Vice President and Board Chair, pallen at louisianacenter.org
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