[nfbwatlk] question about wearing sunglasses

Tue Feb 12 03:25:12 UTC 2013

Hi,
I am not worrying about it; just wondering about the pros and cons for it.
Thanks
Lauren

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----- Original Message ----- 
From: "Mike Freeman" <k7uij at panix.com>
To: "'NFB of Washington Talk Mailing List'" <nfbwatlk at nfbnet.org>
Sent: Monday, February 11, 2013 7:06 PM
Subject: Re: [nfbwatlk] question about wearing sunglasses

>I don't know why people worry about this so much. Dr. Jernigan's eyes never
> opened that widely, either.
>
> To me, the only reason for wearing dark glasses is if the face has been
> severely disfigured.
>
> Mike
>
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: nfbwatlk [mailto:nfbwatlk-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Debby
> Phillips
> Sent: Monday, February 11, 2013 3:16 PM
> To: NFB of Washington Talk Mailing List
> Subject: Re: [nfbwatlk] question about wearing sunglasses
>
> I find this interesting because I have problems with my eyes being half 
> open
> sometimes too.  I have wondered if there is some sort of physical therapy
> that would help with this but thought it might sound silly.  It is very 
> hard
> to always think about whether my eyes are opened or closed or not so your
> question has definitely struck a note with me.    Peace,  Debby
>
> Sent from my iPhone
>
> On Feb 11, 2013, at 1:56 PM, merribeth.manning at comcast.net wrote:
>
>>
>>
>> As a partial, with no iris, I wear my sunglasses when it is to bright;
> even if it is indoors sometimes.
>>
>> Most of the time I don't wear them inside.
>>
>> My step-dad Ray would wear them when he was in public.  I never asked him
> why.
>>
>> I think it is probably a personal preference .
>>
>> I have grown up in the NFB and it seems like most totals don't wear them;
> but there are a few.
>>
>> Beth Manning
>>
>>
>>
>> ----- Original Message -----
>>
>>
>>
>>
>> From: "Bennett Prows (HHS/OCR)" <Bennett.Prows at HHS.GOV>
>> To: " NFB of Washington Talk Mailing List" < nfbwatlk @ nfbnet .org>
>> Sent: Monday, February 11, 2013 12:10:06 PM
>> Subject: Re: [ nfbwatlk ] question about wearing sunglasses
>>
>> Nicely put, Marci.
>>
>> My folks used to have me wear glasses with clear lens in them. They 
>> didn't
> like the stereotypes associated with sun glasses, but I'm sure they wanted
> me to have attention drawn to my eyes.. When I was a kid, they told me the
> glasses would protect my remaining light perception in the eyes from 
> things
> I could run into like bushes, etc.
>>
>> AS an adult, I took them off for many years. When I wanted a different
> look some years ago, I got some new clear lens glasses, and got more grief
> from blind folks than sighted about my wanting to look good with the
> cosmetic glasses. ... Nevertheless, I only wear them now as part of a
> costume.
>>
>> -----Original Message----- 
>> From: nfbwatlk [ mailto : nfbwatlk -bounces@ nfbnet .org] On Behalf Of
> mjc59 at q.com
>> Sent: Monday, February 11, 2013 12:02 PM
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>> Subject: Re: [ nfbwatlk ] question about wearing sunglasses
>>
>> I have some movement in my eyes, so even though i can see people I don't
> make eye contact. For me, I would feel like wearing sunglasses would be
> hiding behind something and also catering to sighted people's stereotypes
> about blindness; that my eyes are somehow ugly and must not be seen by
> others. I believe that the way I carry myself and speak to others conveys
> who I am. Sighted people who are that hung up about eye contact will 
> always
> find something to be uncomfortable about being around a blind person. I
> bought a T-shirt at state convention that sums in up, at least for me. It
> has the eye chart numbers in 2 columns on either side, and the words in 
> the
> middle say (in smaller and smaller print as you look farther down) "I am 
> who
> I am. Your approval is not needed"
>>
>> When a sighted person does bring up the issue of eye contact I am not
> rude. I just say something like "Yes, my eyes do look different." I might
> tell them that I know someone is nearby because I can hear them moving or
> their breathing. Then I move the conversation to another subject.
>>
>> Well, that's my perspective on the matter. You are a beautiful person,
> Lauren and as Dr. Jernigan always said; It is respectable to be blind. I
> hope we get to see each other again sometime.
>>
>> Marci
>>
>> ----- Original Message ----- 
>> From: "Kaye Kipp" <kkipp123@ gmail .com>
>> To: " NFB of Washington Talk Mailing List" < nfbwatlk @ nfbnet .org>
>> Sent: Monday, February 11, 2013 6:19:28 AM
>> Subject: Re: [ nfbwatlk ] question about wearing sunglasses
>>
>> Well, I have the same issue with my eyes.  They're usually half closed,
> but
>> I don't want to wear sunglasses.
>>
>> Kaye
>> ----- Original Message ----- 
>> From: "Lauren Merryfield " <lauren1@ catliness .com>
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>> Cc: " NFB of California List" <nfbc-info@ nfbnet .org>
>> Sent: Monday, February 11, 2013 2:39 AM
>> Subject: [ nfbwatlk ] question about wearing sunglasses
>>
>>
>>> Hi,
>>> I know this may seem odd, but it would be interesting, and possibly
>>> helpful, to get some feedback about the pros and cons of blind people
>>> wearing sunglasses.  I know that a long time ago, Dr. Jernigan wrote a
>>> piece about it but I haven't been able to locate it.
>>>
>>> In my case, my original eyes were very weird--the right one was enlarged
>>> and purplish in color.  My left one was small and sunken in.  Kids used
> to
>>> comment on them or ask me about them.  As an adult, I wore sunglasses.
>>>
>>> I eventually had both of my eyes removed due to very painful glaucoma.
> So
>>> then I had pretty, blue eyes.  I had the unusual opportunity of choosing
>>> my eye color.  So I figured that meant I didn't need to wear sunglasses
>>> anymore.  I also felt kind of like I was hiding behind the sunglasses.
>>>
>>> But most of the time, my eyes are half-opened or half-closed, whichever
>>> way one wants to think about it--like the glass being half full or half
>>> empty.  Some people assume I am asleep, unapproachable, or withdrawn
>>> because my eyes are not wide opened.
>>>
>>> So now I am wondering if I ought to wear sunglasses again.  I could try
> it
>>> just to see if sighted people respond better to me or not.
>>>
>>> I know I do not have good eye contact and that seems to bother some
>>> sighted people.
>>>
>>> Well, there's some food for thought.  Yeah, I know, I always get back to
>>> the subject of food, hahaha .
>>> Thanks
>>> Lauren
>>>
>>> advice from my cats: "meow when you feel like it."
>>> The most basic of all human needs is the need to understand and be
>>> understood. The best way to understand people is to listen to them.
>>> -- Ralph Nichols
>>> Visit us at catliness .com
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