[OAGDU] {Spam?} RE: FW: [NAGDU] Rev. Blake & Southeastern Guide Dogs in her Own words
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Absolutely. A due process system would be good. As of now, I suspect the only remedy is to try and sue the school for the return of the dog. That would be very prohibitive and difficult for many folks as a practical matter, let alone the chances of legal success there…
T.J.
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I think we can agree on much more than we disagree on. I never want to see any service dog mistreated. We all depend on our guide dogs for so much and they give so much to us. I think there needs to be some type of due process when a guide dog is being removed from a handler. It should happen veryquickly.
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Subject: Re: [OAGDU] FW: [NAGDU] Rev. Blake & Southeastern Guide Dogs in her Own words
I would like to offer a different perspective. I am a puppy raiser, not a trainer. Stories like the one described are especially heartbreaking and for me. As a puppy raiser, I have spent hundreds of hours, sleepless nights and thousands of dollars on expenses while raising these pups. This is done without any compensation. I have also spent many hours fundraising at events to support my school. Raising a puppy is very difficult and requires dedication and a commitment to the goal of raising a dog to be matched with a blind handler. Often, my only motivation to keep on doing it was watching graduation videos on YouTube. We go into raising knowing that the puppy is not ours and can be taken away from us if we don’t fulfill our obligations to the school. We know at the end of 18 months, we will give the dog back to the school knowing that we may never see the dog again. We all shed many tears and experience terrible loneliness because the dog that we loved so deeply and was by our side 24/7 has left our side. The school’s mission is to provide a dog free of charge to a blind or visually impaired person so that they can achieve a level of independence that could not otherwise have. The raisers and donor’s to the schools do not get anything except the satisfaction of knowing that they are helping make a difference in someone else’s life. Everyone involved knows that the school will have some type of follow up to assure that the match is going well and the handler and dog are doing well. When the handler receives their dog, the expectation is that the school’s guidelines for the care of the dog will be met. These guidelines have been established based on veterinary guidelines and the experience of the schools. When the handlers get the dog free of charge, they agree to this. We don’t know all of the details of this story, we only see the heartbreak and anger of the woman. I don’t think that we should assume anything from either side or “try” this case as judge and jury based on limited facts. Perhaps as was said in another person's comment that if a person wants to have full ownership of a fully trained dog, they could purchase a dog that was privately trained.
On Wed, Mar 10, 2021 at 1:59 PM Angels Desk via OAGDU <oagdu at nfbnet.org <mailto:oagdu at nfbnet.org> > wrote:
The idea a Dog Guide must not carry more than five pounds over a weight limit without being deprived of its handler seems rather ridiculous to me. How does the school know how much a Dog Guide weighs, in the first place. Must reports be sent the school stating such particulars?. I don’t own a Dog Guide now; though I have been a Dog Guide handler in the past. Why can’t a person seeking to own his dog outright, find a school which allows this to happen Following training? I am wondering, also: Is it possible to pay for your dog guides training yourself? With the condition the guide dog would be owned by its handler? Thus avoiding the ownership question altogether. I would be willing, to purchase my own guide, myself. If that were an option. Accepting charity always exacts a price upon those accepting the charity. Usually, the cost involves some sort of humiliation. A further question I have is: Can appeals be made to those supporting the South eastern school to have their support of the school forfit: Should such horrific practices in which was engaged by it continue?
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Subject: Re: [OAGDU] FW: [NAGDU] Rev. Blake & Southeastern Guide Dogs in her Own words
I have never had any problems with Leader Dogs and have received 5 guide dogs from them but I know other people who say they have had problems. I believe they have some justification to for their issues.
Many people say we are the customers. I don't believe we are the customers. The people and organizations who provide the money are the customers and we and our dogs are the product. I know those words sound harsh and I don't mean it to sound like that. Customers are the people a company must keep happy and that is usually the people who provide the money.
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Subject: Re: [OAGDU] FW: [NAGDU] Rev. Blake & Southeastern Guide Dogs in her Own words
I don't think contracts are signed under duress. You do have ownership when you leave Southeastern. I believe the weight and misstreatment are the only reasons they can take them back. I can remember a time not too long ago when schools were being asked to do more about abuse of these precious animals. I'm not saying that's what happened here. But there are things that don't make sense based on my knowledge of the school.
I don't think assuming one side is right is a good way to start an investigation. We should gather all the facts. Then we can make decisions.
> On Mar 9, 2021, at 6:42 PM, Marianne Denning via OAGDU <oagdu at nfbnet.org <mailto:oagdu at nfbnet.org> > wrote:
>
> T.J.
>
> I believe that as an organization the advocates for people who are
> blind we should assume she is telling the truth and begin the
> investigation from that perspective. I, like you, have never had a
> problem with the 5 dogs I received from Leader Dogs. A couple of my
> dogs did put on too much weight as they aged but I never had a dog
> taken for that or any other reason. I believe the important piece is
> ownership of the dog. If ownership is transferred then we can make
> decisions. I am not even sure the school has the right to remove a dog
> even if you sign the contract. Isn't that being forced to sign under duress?
>
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> in her Own words
>
> Marianne,
>
> Thank you for sharing this. I saw a reference to an issue with
> Southeastern over the weekend, and wondered what had happened.
>
> I am without words at this point. I have received several dogs from
> Southeastern and found them to be nothing but caring toward dogs and
> handlers alike. The person referred to as Dianne is Deanne Miller.
> She used to be by graduate services rep, and I went on a juno walk
> with her before receiving Dusty, my current guide. She has always
> been pleasant and informative to me.
>
> I'm not sure when this person received her dog, but there is a weight
> control plan that is part of the contracts now. As I remember, they
> will work with you to develop a weight management plan if they get over weight.
> I remember them telling us that 5 pounds over was the point we should
> reach out to them for assistance. I recall a provision stating if
> they were over
> 15 pounds over, that would be grounds for removal of the dog. But it
> was stressed that the school would work with us to keep the dog's
> weight under control. The often repeated phrase was, "these dogs are
> like finely trained athletes." Indeed, Southeastern has invested a
> great deal in doggy fitness including treadmills, and a new dog aquatic area they are building.
>
> I would have to look at the contract again to see what would happen if
> there were multiple violations with the dog being five pounds over
> weight. It seems they should have continued working with her.
>
> The reps always call to schedule visits. I've never had a "surprise"
> visit as described in Ms. Blake's account. And I find it very
> difficult to believe that Southeastern would sell these dogs. I sympathize with Ms.
> Blake's situation, but we need to get information from both sides
> before jumping to conclusions. My apologies for the long E-Mail, but
> I thought it was important to share my perspective as a fellow Southeastern graduate.
> All the best,
> T.J.
>
>
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> Subject: [OAGDU] FW: [NAGDU] Rev. Blake & Southeastern Guide Dogs in
> her Own words
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> Here is a letter written by the person who most recently had her dog
> removed. This has caused a lot of discussion in the NFB guide dog community.
>
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> Subject: [NAGDU] Rev. Blake & Southeastern Guide Dogs in her Own words
>
> Dear All,
>
>
>
> Please read Rev. susan Blake's account of what happened to
> her in her own words. I have not edited the following in any way!
>
>
>
> Marion Gwizdala
>
>
>
> On Thursday, March 4, 2021 about 12 30 PM a car drove into my
> driveway. I recognized the painted logos of Southeast Guide Dog
> Schoo. A woman emerged from the car . She called herself Diane Miller. I had never met her before.
> She said she had called while on her way from Tavares. There was no
> call on my phone from her This was my first encounter with her. I
> had not seen my usual representative since Nov/Dec of 2019. I had
> received a call mid January from Diane announcing herself as the new
> rep, but I did not see that call or listened to it until March 5th.
> Being visually impaired, sometimes I don't see an entry. There has
> not been any other contact with the school in all that time. I asked
> Diane where the other rep was and she said "she isn't with our company anymor".
>
>
>
> Diane was dressed in the usual uniform of SEGDS, tan slacks and jacket
> and blue jersey. She had no ID, forms or paperwork. or contracts
> With her that I could see. . with her. She presented me with
> nothing. I never thought a thing about asking for ID, Why shouldn't I
> trust SEGDS who always said they "care for the handlers and dogs".
>
>
>
> I brought Didi out and had her in the harness while she went to her
> car and was making a phone call. , I asked if she wanted to see her
> walk, and she said "NO", I said "all the .trainer/reps want to see them walk and work."
> She said nothing.
>
>
>
> Diane said, about Didi, she seems to be overweight by 4 lbs". I
> looked at her and said "she has lost weight, and now is at a good
> weight. I feed her a vegetarian kibble, Pur Vita, frutis and vegetables".
>
>
>
> She said "she was concerned she is not eating well. Did you know about
> our program where you can get a bag of food each month and the Trifexus".
>
> I said " I had learned a little about it from Rachel Weeks when they
> were setting it up but done nothing about it. I said a lot of foods
> are not good for the dogs and cause cancer. She said our food is from
> Wisconsin called Fromm and we have salmon and potato and another fish flavor." I did not
> make much of a comment.
>
>
>
> I said "I do not believe in Trifexus, it is like a pesticide and I didn't .
> want it".
>
> She said "I probably agaree but those items will help you out. I feel
> she is being neglected. " I said "no she isn't!"
>
>
>
> She said " she has a stye on her eye and her eyes are cloudy."
>
> I said "we're taking care of that with warm cloths and and this comes
> and goes" .
>
>
>
> Diane asked " have you had the dog's eyes tested"?
>
>
>
>
>
> I said "no because I doubted if t here was any where around here to
> have that done."
>
>
>
> She said there were vets that gave some free shots and lower prices.
> She took her phone and started reading locations; Bushness., Boynton.
> I said "I can't get any where!"
>
>
>
> She then asked " do you have rides?"
>
> I said " no , only the para transit bus, with Lake County Connections."
>
> She finally said there was such a vet, I do not know the name, in Eustis .
>
> I said "I could get there if I arranged a ride." She seemed not to be
> aware of barriers fffor the blind!
>
>
>
> Dianne never finishing that story or the one about the special food
> and medication program from SEGDS.
>
>
>
> She just continued to say , at least 8 times or more, "you breached
> the contract, I'm taking the dog."
>
>
>
> She asked if I was up to date with her shots.
>
>
>
> I said she may be a little late but I wasn' t makiing trips out due to
> Covid. I said Didi and I were walking less at this time and I'd get
> it taken care of. She is proably due.
>
>
>
>
>
> I said that two months ago we went to a new vet that was less
> expensive, Lake Vetinary Clinic of 19 A. She was treated for an ear
> infection, and the vet weighed her she was 75 lbs. She said she looked
> good and was ok with the weight. Vet Nancy Smith said "when Didi felt
> better, we could attend to any other needs and shots. Let's wait a bit."
>
>
>
> I was planning to go on the 5th , the next day, of March to get more
> Nexus for the the flee control and make an appointment for follow up
> care and shots etc. I was going to call the paratransit bus later on
> the afternoon of the 4th , for the 5th. But now that Didi is gone... no need for that.
>
> Diane askesd what vet I went to and I said Animal Wellness with Dr.
> Trac y Wilson. She looked up the number and called and asksed when the
> last time I had been there. I don't know who Diane talked to she went
> to the car to call. She said 2018 when she returned. Then she looked
> up address for the new vet but did not call them. See info above for Lake Veteinary Clinic.
>
>
>
> During the visit, Diane seemed very disinterested in the dog or
> interacting with her. She seemed cold, robotic and emotionless. Her
> mantra was " You breached the contracct and I'm taking the dog".
>
>
>
> When she got real emphatic, I burst into tears and shouted "NO, you
> can't take her!" I began to sob. I She said, you have the other dog.!
> knelt on the driveway, huged Didi, she gave me two wet kisses and I
> said good bye. I didn't know what to do, I was in pure shock,. I felt
> threatened, shocked, intimidated, and I didn't know what to do..I was
> so scared to resist. This couldn't be happening. This is a terrible nightmare!
>
>
>
>
>
> Diane detached the lead from the harness, and handed it to me.
>
>
>
> I said "if you are taking her, what good will the leash do me"? She
> took it, reattached it to the harness and tugged on Didi and said come
> we're going to the car. She said, "she obviously loves you." I said
> "of course she does" .
>
>
>
> She asked me if I wanted another dog, and I shook my head no.
>
>
>
> I said through tears, "will I see her again"? and she said "No"!
>
>
>
> I couldn't even watch the car leave and I turned my back to the
> driveway while she left.
>
>
>
> I was sobbing so hard. I have cried a river of tears. I am so sad. I am
> angry. I feel lost without my guide. I want my Didi girl back!!!!!!!
>
>
>
> This was premeditated and . pre planned and well rehearsed for this
> unnannounced visit. Great training!
>
>
>
> Two days later, after many calls to agencies, asking for help, I was
> told that the older dogs are " taken only with excuses that the
> handler's broke the contract for a weight reason usually, and is
> taken away. and sold for 5 thousand dollars to off set the cost of the original guide dog teams.
>
>
>
> I had had Didi since graduation in May of 2013. I have had her for
> almost eight years! I love her with my whole heart. She 9.5 years old
> and has made such a difference in my life. I am heartbroken, I want my
> dog back!!!! We bonded at first sight! I've had her longer than SEGDS
> and know her. She is smart, loyal and protective! Already my home is
> empty, she isn't here for me, even guiding me in the house in the
> dark! Oh I miss her and love her, no one could ever love her like I do!
>
>
>
> I reflect on that incident. It happened so quickly.
>
> This just wasn't a random visit, it was a pre calculated purposeful
> visit, so well rehearsed with the phrase, you breach the contract,
> .I'm taking the dog. They have taken advantage of a blind person,
> with low vision, vulnerable and alone! They probably had their eyes on Didi, the prize, for a
> long time! How many have they done this to?
>
>
>
> What could I have done differently?
>
> I should have run into the hosue with Didi, slammed and locked the
> door and refused to surrender the dog. I just could think, I was so
> scared! I had no one to help me!
>
>
>
> The Police were contacted, they said it was a civil contract matter and they
> could do nothing.
>
>
>
> I should have called the police while Diane was there, I didn't have
> my phone in my hands, and gotten her throw off my property.
> Intimidation wsa the name of their game!
>
>
>
> I am a Diabetic with high blood pressure. This excessive stress is not
> good for me. My blood sugars have ben up, I have no appetitie and can't sleep.
> I have cried so much my eye with sight is swollen and it's ahrd to
> see. This unfortunate incident has taken its toll on me. How is effecting Didi???
>
>
>
> My guide, my guide dog, my seeing eye dog dog has been stolen from
> me. I have been robbed of independence,mobility especially.
>
>
>
> Didi , a guide dog is not a pet, but a way to retain independence and
> freedom, safe mobility and helps to keep confidence and dignity. This
> was robbed from me. Doesn't the bible say, t " thou shall not steal"?
> I don't feel as protected and safe now. Something precious beyond
> any amount of money has been forcibly taken from me. This gift of independence, that
> SEGDS gave me, should never have been taken away from me.
>
>
>
>
>
> The SEGDS rep came unannounced. I had no knowledge she was .coming.
>
> They gave me no chance to do any changes or resolve any issues, or d
> vet care. They could have said, have it done, we'll be back in a week.
> Yes, the last rep said she was overweight, and helped me help her
> lose weight, but she never said, if you don't get the weight down,
> we'll take the dog. The seems to be no recourse or due process or
> compassion for the people or dog involved.
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
> 1 feel I have lost my protection, safety, security and unconditional
> love from this guide dog who has taken care of me so well. She isn't here.
> She's not here to greet me, be under my table on her bed and her chin
> isn't on my foot under the computer. Her smiley bright eyes and wagging tail
> aren't here for me. I feel so lost and alone. I can't think or function.
> I keep thinking what must she be thinking. The uncertaintly, being
> scared and where is my mom who takes such good care of me???!!!!
>
>
>
> On Thursday, afternoon I had found the number and also a referrel from
> the mobility instructor from New Vision for Independence, to contact
> the National Guide Dog Users Groujp and this is how I found Marion
> Grizdala who has been so helpful to me and he asked me to help speak
> out about this issue. He said at least three dogs have been taken and
> clients treated this way in the last year. I was shocked. I was over
> whelmed when he said the dogs are sold for 5K. I also found out that
> giving is down for SEGDS from
> 2019 giving rates. I guess they must have found this money raising
> effort to offset lower donation levels, but look at the price dogs and
> handlers are paying!
>
>
>
> Didi, don't forget me, I'll never for get you! We are working to bring
> you home where you belong. The angels are watching over you!
>
>
>
> Love, you mom,,,, Susan Blake
>
>
>
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