[Ohio-talk] What I Want!

[Suzanne Turner]

Hello, I am so delighted that you all are getting something out of it.  We are very proud!
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From: Ohio-talk [mailto:ohio-talk-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Kaiti Shelton
Sent: Thursday, March 07, 2013 2:28 PM
To: 'NFB of Ohio Announcement and Discussion List'
Subject: Re: [Ohio-talk] What I Want!

Hello,

I really enjoyed the poem too.  I haven't had much trouble with my actual doctors, but this really reminded me of all the medical students and residents who have looked at my eyes and just talked to my doctor about the diagnosis.  I think I've only had one or two who actually asked what grade I was in, if I liked school, basically made simple pleasantries with me.  I can even remember a particular occasion when one student asked exactly what I could see, and then was kind of caught off guard when my doctor said that he would have to ask me about that instead of him.  I think doctors need to be reminded that we're not lab rats for them to look at and prod, and we don't need other people to speak for or be spoken to for us.

Kaiti Shelton
University of Dayton---2016
Music Therapy Major, Psychology Minor, Clarinet Secretary, Ohio Association of Blind Students (OABS)-NFB Member of Alpha Phi Omega-Alpha Gamma Xi Chapter



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From: Ohio-talk [mailto:ohio-talk-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Deborah Kendrick
Sent: Thursday, March 07, 2013 1:34 PM
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Subject: Re: [Ohio-talk] What I Want!

Suzanne,
This is lovely -- and so beautifully hits the mark.  I have had some particularly unnerving experiences just lately in medical offices, so it strikes a strong chord indeed.
I wanted one line to read a bit differently, anticipated that it would, in fact.  It is:
You come out from behind your white coat, and I'll come out from behind my diagnosis.
For us, it could so easily say:
You come out from behind your white coat, and I'll come out from behind my white cane.
Thank you for sharing.
Peace,
Deborah

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Subject: [Ohio-talk] What I Want!

Good Morning,

The poem below is a collaboration of CSC employees asked by medical Students to dialogue about our experiences as patients seen by area physicians.  I hope you will find the poem that their Instructor has written based on our experiences and conversation enlightening.

Suzanne


What I Want

by Stats Ky Bey, Dr. Anthony Easley, Stanley Griffin, Alicia Howerton,

Moreed Kamal and Suzanne Turner

When I step into her office, I want my doctor to look at me and see the whole human being that I am.
I want her to talk to me, not the sighted person who drove me here.
And if she pronounces a heavy diagnosis without acknowledging me, I'll ask, "Since you're only talking to him, can I give my sighted friend the cancer instead?
This is my appointment, and I'm paying you to talk to me. So talk to me."

I want all insurance companies to get this under their skin:
I'm a whole world more than a name, number, and dollar amount.
And for all my doctors to remember: I am not my body parts, and not my diagnosis.
So, please, let up on your typing while I'm talking, and turn off your beeper so you can sit still long enough to hear my story.
Look, I'd like to know your story, too.
You come out from behind your white coat, and I'll come out from behind my diagnosis.
Even if I have to pack us both a lunch for my visit with you:
Please. Sit a spell. Make yourself comfortable. Take your time.

And while we're at it, let's gather a full team of human beings to lend me a hand as I stand up from my heavy diagnosis.
Not just medical experts, but those who've been through this, too, folks willing to share the wisdom, wipe the tears, and coach me on how to deal with this new version of who I am.
Edify me. Give me something more than bottles of pills rattling around with side effects worse than the disease.
Do not send me off solo into my anger and grief.
Help me carry this pain. Cry with me.

And once this healing has begun,
I want to walk out from behind my diagnosis and come back into the community.
To be seen the way I look on paper-rich with credentials and experience.
And recognized for having my own kind of vision.
I want everyone to understand: It's a scientific fact that a tree cannot grow strong without a strong wind to challenge it.
When people see me with my cane, I intend for them to behold my whole, entire tree, from the root to the fruit. To look beyond the rough weather I have withstood and focus instead on the way I'm standing, and standing tall.
To listen to what I'm saying and to think, This tree has got it going on.
It's strong, it's blooming, and it's beautiful, from the root to the fruit.


Suzanne Turner, BSW, MPA
Employment Coordinator and Benefit Specialist

Cleveland Sight Center
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Suzanne Turner, BSW, MPA
Employment Coordinator and Benefit Specialist

Cleveland Sight Center
216-791-8118 (main)
216-658-7350 (direct)
216-791-1101 (fax)
sturner at ClevelandSightCenter.org <mailto:sturner at ClevelandSightCenter.org>

Visit our website at www.ClevelandSightCenter.org <http://www.ClevelandSightCenter.org>


1909 East 101st Street
P.O. Box 1988
Cleveland, Ohio  44106-0188

Our Mission: To empower people with vision loss to realize their full potential, and to shape the community's vision of that potential.

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