[Ohio-talk] Airlines and assistance problems

Tue Jun 23 22:18:25 UTC 2015

Megan,

I'm a little confused by your message. The whole issue was that I did ask for help and was given help that wasn't appropriate, and I was not allowed to make my own decisions about the help. I'm not sure where the idea where the idea of me refusing all help for ego is coming from.

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On Jun 23, 2015, at 6:04 PM, Megan Shief via Ohio-talk <ohio-talk at nfbnet.org> wrote:

>> I can't agree more. Is it about safety or ego. I ask for help to get to
> my gat e as i appreciate
> the help that is given by the air lines. I know a woman who claimed to be
> so  independent that she
> made the halter take her all over the place had a cain and din't use it.
> I think in todays society we need to be smart and not foolish.
> So you can get  yourself to the gate, big deal. Yo9u never know what and
> if something is
> placing  you ion danger. Megan and MS. p.
> 
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> 
> Hi all,
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> 
>> After my recent flights I have some questions about airlines and
>> assistance.  I know that there is some debate over how one should be
>> independent in an airport.  Some say that you should not take any
>> assistance at all and should just stop passersby if you need
>> directions.  I personally feel like being independent to me means not
>> bothering other travelers who have their own agendas, and I also would
>> much rather get to my gate and anywhere else I might want to go
>> quickly and efficiently than waste time and have to scramble to find
>> my gate in time. I'm good about not abusing this; for example, in
>> Charleston I had a skycap show me where the restrooms were so I could
>> freshen up a bit, but I then retraced my steps and used my own
>> landmarks to get back to my gate without assistance.  I was able to
>> get lunch and freshen up in under 15 minutes, and I could have taken
>> much longer had I not known when it was more independent of me to ask
>> for help.  That's just how I view it.
>> 
>> Most of the time things went well.  United Airlines was great, and
>> although they brought me a wheelchair they were quick to leave it at
>> the end of the jetway once I said I didn't need it.  American airlines
>> was also pretty good about that, though their expectations of blind
>> people seemed a bit low.  The skycap I had freaked out a bit when I
>> took off down a moving walkway, I guess not thinking it was safe for a
>> blind person to do.  She then got me on a cart which went alongside
>> the moving walkways which I only noticed were still there once we were
>> moving, which seemed odd to me.  Perhaps she assumed I just wanted to
>> get to my gate more quickly, but she didn't ask me if I wanted to
>> continue using the moving walkways or take the cart either.  I also
>> had to assure her I could use the escalator because I didn't want to
>> wait for the elevator, but I could see how that might have also
>> contributed to the problem even though escalators and moving walkways
>> are relatively similar and you use a cane to handle both.  Security at
>> Charlotte had obviously not had much experience working with blind
>> people as well.  The lady working the scanner crossed her arms in an X
>> and tried to grab both of my hands, almost like she was creating a
>> support for me to lean on or something.  I had to assure her I could
>> walk through without assistance and knew the pose to take for the
>> metal detector to scan me already.  Everyone else there was great
>> about using sighted guide in crowded places or just letting me follow
>> on my own when I wanted to.  The weirdest thing by far, however, was
>> that when I landed in Cincinnati the US air people brought a skycap
>> with a wheelchair.  I tried to refuse it like usual, but thy weren't
>> budging like they usually do.  It had been so easy with Delta, United,
>> and American which I had all flown before.  I insisted that there was
>> nothing wrong with my legs and asked if the wheelchair could be left
>> at the end of the jetway like the others on my trip had been.  The
>> employee said he wasn't allowed to escort anyone unless they took the
>> wheelchair.  Faced with the options of arguing through my jetlag for
>> the service I had really requested and meeting my parents who were
>> waiting to take me home as soon as possible, I didn't argue further.
>> I did, however, tell the skycap as we were going that this was very
>> unnecessary and it wasn't what I had requested from the airline, and
>> it was pretty demeaning that I wasn't being given the assistance that
>> was requested or appropriate for me.  I don't believe that he was
>> trying to con me and really do think he was restricted in that way,
>> but it seems ridiculous that US air specifically employs people to do
>> that.  Had I not been jetlagged from 14 hours of travel by that point
>> I would have put up more of a hard stance on the subject, but I didn't
>> have the energy to argue further with him.  He did leave the chair in
>> baggage claim and let me walk to the pick up area outside, but that
>> was probably because he wasn't being watched as closely by other
>> employees there and he also had no way to push the chair and haul my
>> suitcase at the same time in the first place.
>> 
>> I was thinking of writing a letter to US Air or trying to make a phone
>> call to register that this arguing with a customer about needing to
>> take an unneeded wheelchair is not okay.  I was also thinking of
>> writing a letter to Charlotte's airport so the security personelle
>> could be told how to properly work with blind travelers in the TSA
>> line and in the concourse areas.  One thing I'd also like them to
>> change is that in Charlotte they were so focused on getting me to my
>> gate even though I had a 3 hour layover that I didn't get to do the
>> things like stop to buy lunch or freshen up on the way like I had
>> wanted to.  It was okay that I went back for those things, but every
>> other passenger has the opportunity to stop on their way to the gate
>> and I didn't have that.  I do understand that the skycaps have other
>> people to assist, but that doesn't mean I should be cut short or not
>> given the same opportunities as other travelers, from buying what I
>> want for lunch on my way to refusing a wheelchair and walking to
>> baggage claim on my own.
>> 
>> Thoughts?.
>> 
>> --
>> Kaiti Shelton
>> University of Dayton 2016.
>> Music Therapy, Psychology, Philosophy
>> President, Ohio Association of Blind Students
>> Sigma Alpha Iota-Delta Sigma
>> 
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