[Sportsandrec] Looking for ways to navagate Trails in nature.

[Kelly Thornbury]

You know what's funny... If I organize a group outing on the trails I feel ultimately responsible for everyone's safety, even the sighted folks. 

I don't see in itself an issue in the ownership of responsibility, I guess to me it depends on how it's presented. If it's babying or patronizing I have a problem, but if it's pointing out true hazards, interesting scenery, or something like inclement weather I'm pretty okay with it. I would like to think my skills off the beaten path are adequate, but I also wouldn't want to miss a one foot wide bridge over a twenty foot dropoff... Trust me that sucks the fun out of a hike. 

Kel

On Nov 16, 2002, at 9:40 PM, Joe Shaw via Sportsandrec wrote:

> Am I allowed to question his belief in the abilities of blind people while carrying the weight of being responsible for us? I know... that's not popular.
> Joe Shaw
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> Subject: [Sportsandrec] Looking for ways to navagate Trails in nature.
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>> Hi all!
>> Yesterday, I walked to a local but out of the way historical hot spring. I had my sited boyfriend, and two blind ladies with me. To get to this hot spring, you have to walk a half a mile on a trail with a few rugged spots and a lot of tree roots. This was my boyfriend's first time getting a group of blind people down this kind of trail. The trip actually went very well. We all felt good to do the trip because the other ladies haven't traveled in nature in three years. My boyfriend on the other hand didn't get to enjoy the journey as much as the rest of us so I feel bad for him. My boyfriend believes that blind people can do anything we set our minds to,  however, he still feels responsable for  any blind person's safety, well being and transportation.   How can I make the trip more enjoyable for my sited boyfriend who felt the burden of responsibility? I suggested finding another volunteer to assist in navigating the trails. I know that there is a Better way since I did this sort of thing with other groups in the past. Would something like this require another sited volunteer? Him taking  the responsability and doing this sort of thing once or twice a year? Are there techniques out there for this sort of thing?  Is there a way for me to help one of them navagate the tree roots and follow behind while doing so and letting my boyfriend helping all of us through the roughest parts of the trail? Any ideas would be most appriciated Please!!! Thank you!!!
>> Kendra
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