[stylist] question

Thu Mar 26 15:27:43 UTC 2009

Let's not be too hard on parents who honestly think they are doing the best 
for their child.  They are operating under an erroneous premise.  That is 
why word has to get out that blind children have alternatives in learning 
available to them.  Using these alternatives their child can also become the 
best they are capable of.  Judith
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> Here here!  They (the parents) either don't want to teach, or aren't 
> equipped to.
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> From: "Barbara Hammel" <poetlori8 at msn.com>
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>> No. What you really have out there are parents who have no parameters for
>> their children but they waste every teachable moment by ignoring the
>> children because their own life is o so much more important.
>> Barbara
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>> If wisdom's ways you wisely seek, five things observe with care:  of whom
>> you speak, to whom you speak, and how and when and where.
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>> Sent: Wednesday, March 25, 2009 1:53 PM
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>>> Judith:
>>>
>>> Unschooling doesn't result in kids growing up into adults who act like
>>> they
>>> can get anything they want.  Life itself has very clear and fixed
>>> parameters
>>> that my boys go up against every day, as as we all humans do, they cope
>>> with
>>> this reality.
>>>
>>> Because of this, my boys are very reasonable and sensible boys. 
>>> Sometimes
>>> they'd want something that's beyond our budget.  What we do is have them
>>> be
>>> aware of the simple, real truth that we don't have the money.  Then we
>>> sympathize with their desire to get it.  I want some things I can't
>>> afford,
>>> too, so I genuinely empathize.  Then we discuss how we might still get 
>>> it,
>>> by saving, or by saving and looking for an used one instead of new. 
>>> This
>>> is
>>> a great opportunity for them to make choices.  All of my boys have saved
>>> up
>>> for stuff, and they are actually better than Adrean and I are with our 
>>> own
>>> savings.
>>>
>>> Yes, many parents who don't use this complete mindful parenting approach
>>> will surely find they have to set artificial parameters and rules.
>>> Unschooling in part, mixed with the Victorian traditions, doesn't work,
>>> because the premises are totally different.
>>>
>>> What does often contribute to adults acting most irresponsibly comes 
>>> from
>>> traditional schooling.  You look at any college, and you'll notice that
>>> the
>>> freshmans, well, I won't describe in graphic detail what a great 
>>> majority
>>> of
>>> them do.  Much of the real, actual learning they need to do to cope with
>>> real life is delayed until they are out of their parents' houses.  Only
>>> then
>>> do they catch up on all what they feel like they've been deprived of, 
>>> and
>>> they experiment madly and wildly, and it's often only then they begin to
>>> figure out what they want to do in their lives.
>>>
>>> Unschooling is not for everyone, as it is a huge investment and requires 
>>> a
>>> whole shift in everything we do in our lives.  Also, many parents are
>>> unwilling to regard their children as who they really are.  Children are
>>> often viewed as second-class citizens, or chattel.  Many parents, sadly,
>>> treat their friends and guests better than they do their own children.
>>> It's
>>> true.
>>>
>>> No, it doesn't mean we think babies are born fully mature.  But it does
>>> mean
>>> we believe they are born fully human with human feelings and deserving 
>>> of
>>> the same respect as we are.
>>>
>>> I encourage you to Goggle it up.  I am so glad that our Father in Heaven
>>> led
>>> us to this, and this has brought much peace and joy to our family.
>>>
>>> John
>>>
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