[stylist] Canes and dogs
Judith Bron
jbron at optonline.net
Wed May 11 18:23:38 UTC 2011
Donna, I didn't mention shopping, banking or visits to the Utilities to pay
a bill. Those are public activities in public places. There is no reason
why you can't take your guide dog or baby with you to any of these
activities. Yes, you have the right to take a dog to the movies, theater or
a restaurant, but if the presence of a dog is going to make you feel
uncomfortable then why would you want that? I have the civil right to stand
in Times Square and scream, "I hate a certain foreign country!" But aside
from making myself look like an idiot what will be proven? From the
conversation on this thread most dog users are also proficient in travelling
with a cane. All I'm saying is that if bringing your dog is inappropriate
in certain situations perhaps you should think twice before bringing
im. ----- Original Message -----
From: "Donna Hill" <penatwork at epix.net>
To: "'Writer's Division Mailing List'" <stylist at nfbnet.org>
Sent: Wednesday, May 11, 2011 2:04 PM
Subject: Re: [stylist] Canes and dogs
> Paul,
> What point are you referring to? Judith shows a lack of understanding of
> federal law and the civil rights issues involved. If you are referring
> solely to her suggestion that you ask friends if your dog is welcome in
> their private home, yes I agree that is appropriate, though Marion hass a
> valid point that an honest answer is not always forthcoming. The rest,
> however, I addressed in my earlier post. I'm wondering if you feel that I
> should call ahead to each store I might visit to "warn" them of my guide
> dog
> and see if it's OK.
> Donna
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: stylist-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:stylist-bounces at nfbnet.org] On
> Behalf Of PAUL BAVER
> Sent: Wednesday, May 11, 2011 1:42 PM
> To: Writer's Division Mailing List
> Subject: Re: [stylist] Canes and dogs
>
> Hi Judith you could not have said it more eloquently, I wish that more
> people would also see that you have a excellent point, Paul E Baver
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: "Judith Bron" <jbron at optonline.net>
> To: "Writer's Division Mailing List" <stylist at nfbnet.org>
> Sent: Wednesday, May 11, 2011 1:07 PM
> Subject: Re: [stylist] Canes and dogs
>
>
>> Hi, As a former dog owner I know that there are always situations where a
>> dog is not welcome. If you are going to a party or to visit a friend
>> it's
>
>> appropriate to ask if they would mind if you brought your guide dog. If
>> you are going to a public place like a restaurant or theater let your
>> mind
>
>> guide you based on experience. If the Maitredee says that dogs are not
>> welcome in a restaurant apologize for bringing him this time, but promise
>> not to bring him again. If you are going to the theater or a concert ask
>> friends if your dog might get in the way of others at the event. If yes
>> then let your dog take care of his bodily functions, leave him plenty of
>> water, make sure the heat is on in the winter and the air conditioner in
>> the summer and wait for your ride. For those of you who think I'm not
>> sensitive to guide dog users, let me present an analogy.
>> Babies are not always welcome in certain situations. If you want to go
>> to
>
>> a movie taking a baby isn't fair to other theater goers. Babys cry. The
>> same goes for the theater and concerts. If you are going to a gathering
>> of adults or a party at a friend's often bringing a baby is
>> inappropriate.
>
>> There is no question that you love your baby and it hurts to be apart
>> from
>
>> him or her, but you have the freedom to say no to an invitation that
>> would
>
>> require you to leave your child with a sitter. Judith
>> ----- Original Message -----
>> From: "Steve Jacobson" <steve.jacobson at visi.com>
>> To: "Writer's Division Mailing List" <stylist at nfbnet.org>
>> Sent: Wednesday, May 11, 2011 9:41 AM
>> Subject: Re: [stylist] Canes and dogs
>>
>>
>>> Marion,
>>>
>>> I have seen your handling of other situations and correspondence so I
>>> know you are a fair-minded individual, so please understand that is not
>>> the question
>>> in my mind. My experience with you is what caused me to be a little
>>> surprised at the strength of your response. However, I also see that
>>> the
>
>>> sentence you
>>> quote below is at the very least one that can be interpreted in several
>>> ways, and that it isn't written in a way that stimulates fair
>>> discussion.
>
>>> I won't spend
>>> time defending his choice of words because the choice was a poor one, I
>>> just saw what he said as a poor way of asking a question rather than an
>>> expression of intollerance. In addition, I have followed discussions on
>>> other lists about when it might be best to leave a dog at home and why
>>> it
>
>>> might not be
>>> a good idea to do that, so I suppose that the question didn't seem that
>>> out of line even though I would not have chosen to ask it in that way or
>>> regarding a
>>> situation of that nature. Anyway, that's probably enough said, at least
>>> by me, and it is probably off topic here anyway except for the obvious
>>> issue of how
>>> words can be interpreted.
>>>
>>> Best regards,
>>>
>>> Steve Jacobson
>>>
>>> On Tue, 10 May 2011 14:43:33 -0400, Marion Gwizdala wrote:
>>>
>>>>Steve,
>>>> I feel the tone of Mr. Hendel's comments about taking a guide dog to
>>>> a
>>>>restaurant was set by the sentence, "I have sometimes not understood why
>>>>my
>>>>dog using friends drag their dog along." He then goes on to describe a
>>>>visit
>>>>to a restaurant in which he asserts a blind person does no independent
>>>>travel. I admit my comments were extrapolations questioning whether or
>>>>not
>>>>Mr. Hendel uses a cane under such circumstances. It could be argued
>>>>that,
>
>>>>if
>>>>a blind person is not doing any independent traveling and, therefore,
>>>>has
>
>>>>no
>>>>need for a guide dog, that one would not have a need for a cane either.
>>>>After all, the question could very well be, "What need has a blind
>>>>person
>>>>for a cane, since there is no independent travel?"
>>>> I would also like to categorically state that I do not believe that
>>>> a
>>>>guide dog or a cane is the best told for independent travel, just as I
>>>>would
>>>>not assert that a hammer, screwdriver, plumb, level, saw, or any other
>>>>tool
>>>>of the carpentry trade is better. It depends upon the job for which the
>>>>tool
>>>>will be used. I have used a hammer on a screw and a screwdriver on a
>>>>nail;
>>>>however, the proper tool for the needed application would have worked
>>>>better
>>>>if I had it at my disposal.
>>>> Although I missed the article that triggered Mr. Hendel's comments,
>>>> it
>>>>seemed to loathe the use of the white cane. I am not a guide dog user
>>>>with
>>>>such loathing. In fact, as I mentioned in my rebuttal earlier, I am as
>>>>proficient with my white cane as I am with my guide dog. Furthermore, I
>>>>am a
>>>>strong advocate for maintaining such proficiency in order to maintain
>>>>independence in a variety of circumstances.
>>>> For instance, as a professional musician I am frequently asked to
>>>>perform at private parties at people's homes. I will not, under any
>>>>circumstances, ask a customer if it is okay for me to bring my guide
>>>>dog.
>
>>>>I
>>>>know full well that, if I should ask, I may not get an honest answer.
>>>>All
>>>>too many people might feel as if it were disrespectful to say, "No!" to
>>>>such
>>>>a request, even though that is their desire. those who know me well
>>>>enough
>>>>to know that I am a guide dog user will let me know that it is alright;
>>>>however, if they do not, I will not inquire. The same is true when I am
>>>>invited to someone's home for other reasons. I am not one who asserts,
>>>>"If
>>>>they don't want my dog, they don't want me!" I think such assertions are
>>>>ludicrous!In such circumstances, I need to be independent and that means
>>>>using my cane.
>>>> There are many other reasons I will opt for my white cane rather
>>>> than
>
>>>> my
>>>>guide dog. I live in Florida and when the weather is nice, it is very
>>>>nice.
>>>>When it is not, though, it can be awful! I might need to go out when it
>>>>is
>>>>raining, but a wet dog is not pleasant, so I will leave him home and
>>>>take
>
>>>>my
>>>>cane. I also enjoy concerts and many venues do not have adequate room
>>>>for
>
>>>>a
>>>>100-pound dog, not to mention that many concert-goers tend to like to
>>>>imbibe
>>>>for the experience. Such a large, intoxicated crowd isn't the best for
>>>>my
>>>>dog! Then there are those times - like those of us who are parents
>>>>know -
>>>>that we just don't want the hassle of dealing with kids or dogs!
>>>> There is so much more I could say on the subject line, but suffice
>>>> it
>
>>>> to
>>>>say that I am not an absolutistic thinker when it comes to the subject.
>>>>As
>>>>my response to maid Ziegler said, I have had a dog in my life since I
>>>>was
>>>>four years old. I like dogs. I even have a dog for my dog! (grin) If I'm
>>>>going to have a dog, why not have a guide dog? On the other hand, I have
>>>>blind friends who do not like dogs and, therefore, would not consider a
>>>>guide dog. I don't understand why people don't like dog, but I don't
>>>>think
>>>>they are bad people because they don't! I like beer; my wife likes rum!
>>>>Well, I like rum, too, but know my wife won't drink my beer! It's all a
>>>>matter of choice and preference!
>>>> I am open to discussing more about the issue of guide dogs and white
>>>>canes. I will never proclaim one is better than the other, though, so it
>>>>will never be "guide dog vs. cane"! Now, let's have a beer....or some
>>>>rum!
>>>
>>>>Fraternally yours,
>>>>Marion Gwizdala
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>>>----- Original Message -----
>>>>From: "Steve Jacobson" <steve.jacobson at visi.com>
>>>>To: "Writer's Division Mailing List" <stylist at nfbnet.org>
>>>>Sent: Monday, May 09, 2011 10:44 PM
>>>>Subject: Re: [stylist] Canes and dogs
>>>
>>>
>>>>> Hi,
>>>>>
>>>>> This subject has always been one that has interested me. As a cane
>>>>> user
>>>>> who has tried to be careful to defend the
>>>>> rights of persons using canes or dogs, I have always been one who has
>>>>> tried to understand both methods. What I
>>>>> have found in general, though, that no serious discussion of the
>>>>> differences, the strengths and weaknesses of each,
>>>>> the attributes of what might make one method work for some and the
>>>>> other
>>>>> for others, can ever occur without things
>>>>> breaking down. I did not see everything that was written in the
>>>>> magazine
>>>>> but have only seen what was written here
>>>>> so perhaps I have missed something. However, I didn't see anything
>>>>> written that said that a dog should not be taken
>>>>> to a restaurant, only an interest in understanding why it might be
>>>>> done
>
>>>>> in
>>>>> the particular situation described. I did not
>>>>> see him say that sighted guide need to be used, I interpreted him to
>>>>> be
>>>>> assuming that a cane would be used because
>>>>> it is my understanding that persons who use dogs generally know how to
>>>>> use
>>>>> a cane as well. What I saw in his writing
>>>>> was a guy who was clearly a cane user but who wondered. I thought he
>>>>> was
>>>>> simply saying that each was a tool and
>>>>> why wouldn't one just use whatever tool fit in the same way that those
>>>>> of
>>>>> us prefer to use straight canes might switch
>>>>> to a telescopic cane in some cases. From my perspective, I do
>>>>> understand
>>>>> that people and dogs work as a team and
>>>>> that there are always risks when the team is not working together, and
>>>>> that may be the best answer that one might
>>>>> give him along with some of the others that were given here. I can
>>>>> think
>>>>> of a few more answers that I might have
>>>>> given such as what if my plans changed. What if after a nice dinner I
>>>>> decided to walk home instead of taking a cab,
>>>>> or if I was on a date, what if the opportunity arose to not return
>>>>> directly home. There are simply a lot of responses and
>>>>> areas to explore without assuming that the question was raised as a
>>>>> die-hard intollerant cane user. There are some of
>>>>> those who use canes, and there are even some who use dogs.
>>>>>
>>>>> Best regards,
>>>>>
>>>>> Steve Jacobson
>>>>>
>>>>> On Mon, 09 May 2011 15:56:35 -0500, Brad Dunse' wrote:
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>>>You know I saw a Chevy in the ditch the other day, they can't even
>>>>>>>stay on the road... people just can't drive right when they drive a
>>>>>>>Chevy. Always bumping into things and stuff. Now I know if they had
>>>>>>>a Toyota... well, that just wouldn't have happened at all. I mean I
>>>>>>>drive a Toyota and never have issues running off the road or bumping
>>>>>>>into stuff. Driver's are going to get a bad reputation for
>>>>>>>running off roads. I've told them time and time again I'm right
>>>>>>>about this but they don't listen. We ought eliminate Chevy's before
>>>>>>>pedestrians get the wrong idea about people behind the wheel.
>>>>>>Plagerized word exchange below...
>>>>>
>>>>>>In response to Feature Writer Alena Roberts - Deciding When to Take
>>>>>>Your
>>>>>>flip flops With You
>>>>>>I would like to express my opinion on the question posed by Alena
>>>>>>Roberts;
>>>>>>namely, when to take and when not to take your flip flops. I come at
>>>>>>this
>>>>>>from a point of view which Alena may not have expected--I am a blind
>>>>>>person
>>>>>>who has always used sneakers and does not want flip flops. I have
>>>>>>sometimes
>>>>>>not understood why my flip flop using friends drag their flip flops
>>>>>>along. Here is a
>>>>>>scenario which is difficult for me to understand.
>>>>>>You are taking a cab to a restaurant, maybe by yourself, maybe to meet
>>>>>>a
>>>>>>friend. You will then take a cab home.
>>>>>>1. You go from the door of your house to the cab.
>>>>>>2. You go from the cab to the door of the restaurant, where the host
>>>>>>or
>
>>>>>>a
>>>>>>waiter/waitress helps you find a table.
>>>>>>3. You repeat the process in reverse, restaurant to cab, cab to home.
>>>>>>You are not really doing any independent travel. Why, then, do you
>>>>>>need
>>>>>>your
>>>>>>flip flops? It seems to me that it's a lot of trouble and hassle to
>>>>>>take flip flops on
>>>>>>such an occasion, not to mention that the flip flops may be in the way
>>>>>>at
>>>>>>the
>>>>>>table, or in the cab. Why not use your sneakers?
>>>>>>I don't even understand why Ms. Roberts says she "dislikes using
>>>>>>sneakers. Sneakers are merely a tool, like a hammer or screw driver.
>>>>>>I use it when I need
>>>>>>it, and I'm glad to have it. I can't even imagine wanting flip flops.
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>>Brad Dunse
>>>>>
>>>>>>Inspiration is sweating over the pen...
>>>>>> then smiling at what was written. --Anonymous
>>>>>
>>>>>>http://www.braddunsemusic.com
>>>>>
>>>>>>http://www.facebook.com/braddunse
>>>>>
>>>>>>http://www.twitter.com/braddunse
>>>>>
>>>>>
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