[nabs-l] What do I say?

[Lavar Phillips]

Okay things that she does that I can't stand moves things from where I put
them. Not only is that bad for me but for my girlfriend. Also she tells me
how to cook after I tell her I got this over and over. I try to be nice
about it cause you know she all older then me and stuff and my girlfriend's
mom in all. Then for thanksgiving she wanted me to serve everyone and I was
like no. How do I deal with het until she is gone oh yeah she rearrange my
kitchen
Lavar J Phillips
5003 48 Street Woodside New York 11377
Cell # (917) 858 3368
Twitter lavar1988
If your girlfriend is completely blind then does her mother let her do
anything?

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> On Dec 3, 2013, at 12:38 PM, "I. C. Bray" <i.c.bray at win.net> wrote:
>
> Agreed!
>
> Letting her know that you've been doing fine all theese months without her
> passive-agressive attempt at parenting should do the trick.
> Granted, it might shock her and make her bitter, but sometimes clueless
> people need to be put back into their proper place.
>
> I. C. Bray
>
>
>
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: "Carly Mihalakis" <carlymih at comcast.net>
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> Sent: Monday, December 02, 2013 11:48 PM
> Subject: Re: [nabs-l] What do I say?
>
>
> :
> : Hi, Lavar,
> :
> : I second what Lilie said, just lay it out. Tell her a little bit
> : about origins of your personal struggle for independence and self
> : sufficiency, maybe even say that, inspite of folk trying to be
> : helpful, you know what works best for you and could she please step
aside?
> : Please call me! 408-209-3239
> :
> : /2013, Lavar Phillips wrote:
> : >Hi everyone
> : >Since I was 20 years old I have lived on my own and I have gotten so
used
> : >to doing things my way. So last year I moved in with my girlfriend and
> her
> : >mom . It was great we all got along  then her mom  went away to
> California
> : >and my girlfriend and I were living great. Now  her mom is back for 3
> : >months and she kinda restricts what I can do  even tho I can
cook,clean,
> : >laundry and shopping . We also argue and I can't stand it  How do I
tell
> : >her nicely that I don't need another mom I have one. Like she questions
> all
> : >my actions doesn't let me do things the way I used  to and when I don't
> do
> : >anything she yells at me. Am I wrong for just wanting her gone I just
> want
> : >things back to normal.
> : >
> : >Lavar J Phillips
> : >5003 48 Street Woodside New York 11377
> : >Cell # (917) 858 3368
> : >Twitter lavar1988
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