[nabs-l] When NFB philosophy doesn't seem to work... advice?

[Jedi Moerke]

Folks,

While  I am glad that you are willing to discuss your private lives with each other, I am not personally prepared to hear it. Will you please refrain from discussing this on the list? Thank you.

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> On Dec 28, 2013, at 5:30 AM, "I. C. Bray" <i.c.bray at win.net> wrote:
> 
> Dave, I'll tell you mine, if you tell me yours? ( smiley )
> 
> I am, of course only being fun & trying to relax the conversation.
> 
> To everyone,
> 
> Regardless of whatever fetishes you have, sexuality and intimacy, are 
> definitely separate.
> Personality is key to Chemistry between people.
> I don't care how "HOT" or a person is, if you can't talk to them be genuine 
> and share humor, then you aren't going to make it in the bedroom or 
> relationship... unless of course, the relationship is ONLY about sex.
> 
> If SEX really  is the only basis of the relationship, then fetishes should 
> come out early, otherwise, you have to sneak them in... slowly.
> 
> Speaking from experience?  YES I AM.  I try not to make my personal & 
> private life this public, but it sounds like there is an open forum here 
> with people who want perspective... I have some to share... you all are 
> welcome to it.
> 
> My best friend is a two-degreed Psycology Graduate who tought sex edd and 
> does tons of comunity outreach.
> I have other friends who are Psychiatric doctors.   This subject is a 
> progressive one and it often doesn't get the benefit of being discussed 
> without shame, or embarrassment.
> 
> The thing that has my neck hair really raising is the borderline personality 
> trait of not respecting boundaries, and the mumbling to one's self.
> Sexuality, as we all know is key to some personal identity.  It creates 
> films like Psycho, and Blue Velvet and
> The Graduate and even Risky Business.
> 
> advice:
> Someone professional should be notified regarding this person in the hopes 
> that as a professional, they can investigate and prevent any escallation.
> I think blocking the number is, at this point, not a bad idea.
> For those of you who have fetishes, I think they are healthy and once you 
> get over the initial uniqueness  and fear of shame or embarrassment, you 
> should let your freak flag fly.
> We all have our turn-ons and offs.  I do too!  Find a website that is based 
> upon your intrests & fetishes  and make friends is what I'll tell you to do.
> Diversity is the seasoning and spice of life.  Sometimes it will  come at a 
> cost, but it is the only life you have-- you should live it.
> 
> Gawd I love open and friendly conversations regarding progressive 
> subjects... I should have been a Hippie.  LOL!
> 
> Respectfully,
> Ian  C. Bray
> Louisville, KY.
> 
> 
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