[nagdu] Article: Blind womans HEALTHY guide dog is killedand buried alongside her in fulfilment of her dying wish

Tue Apr 9 20:57:21 UTC 2013

It makes me sort of angry!  What gives us the right to terminate our dogs 
existance for
just because we are not going to be with them!  Lots of folks would take 
them even if a school wouldn't! ----- Original Message ----- 
From: "Toni Whaley" <blind_treasurer at verizon.net>
To: "'NAGDU Mailing List, the National Association of Guide Dog Users'" 
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Subject: Re: [nagdu] Article: Blind womans HEALTHY guide dog is killedand 
buried alongside her in fulfilment of her dying wish

> Hello!
>
> This article makes me very sad. I know that I could never make such a
> request. My daughter knows that if I die while Haze is still young enough 
> to
> serve someone else as a guide dog, she is to return her to Seeing Eye;
> otherwise, my daughter can keep the dog. Of course, I know that my 
> daughter
> loves dogs and will give any dog she has in her house the best care.
>
> Toni
>
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> Subject: [nagdu] Article: Blind womans HEALTHY guide dog is killed and
> buried alongside her in fulfilment of her dying wish
>
> Blind womans HEALTHY guide dog is killed and buried alongside her in
> fulfilment of her dying wish The family of a blind woman who killed her
> healthy guide dog so it could be buried alongside her have suffered a hate
> campaign and received death threats, it was revealed today.
> Shelia Stadler, 68, from Terre Haute, Indiana, died of cancer with her
> five-year-old guide dog Toffee by her side last month.
> A few days later later her son Andy had the healthy dog put down so it 
> could
> placed in Mrs Stadler's coffin to fulfil her dying wish.
> But the controversial decision to destroy the dog has provoked a huge
> backlash in the town with Mrs Stadler's son receiving death threats - and
> even suffering abuse from members of his own family.
> Heartbroken: Sheila Stadle apparently couldn't bear to part with her guide
> dog when she died Faithful companion: Healthy five-year old Toffee was
> apparently put to sleep and buried at the request of his owner (file
> picture) 'How could they do it?' Gregory Reilly from the Honey Creek 
> Animal
> Hospital was wrongly implicated as having put the dog down, and believes 
> the
> decision to do so was questionable Gregory Reilly, a veterinary assistant
> with the local Honey Creek Animal Hospital, said: 'It got totally out of
> control. The neighborhood was really angry. People were saying they should
> burn in hell. Terrible things were said.
> 'Mr Stadler told me he had received death threats and a member of his own
> family wrote on a Facebook page that she could not believe he had done 
> it.'
> Mr Reilly was also caught up in the furore after being blamed wrongly for
> putting Toffee down.
> He said: 'We would never euthanise a dog - we simply find them a new home.
> All I did was try to find out whether what the Stadler's did was legal.
> 'It seems very morbid to me but unfortunately as the dog was their 
> property,
> it was perfectly legal.'
> Mrs Stadler died on March 8, and had expressed a wish to her family that 
> she
> should be buried with her beloved labrador Toffee.
> Her son Andrew, a tax accountant, then carried out her instructions after
> saying the dog had shown signs of mourning and 'wandered aimlessly' in the
> days after Mrs Stadler died.
> It is not known when Toffee was euthanized but the story first emerged on
> WTHITV, which stated: 'Shelia Stadler, 68, of Brazil, died March 8 at home
> with her service animal, Toffee, at her side.
> 'Days later, the Stadler family had Toffee, a perfectly healthy 5-year-old
> dog, euthanized, displayed in the coffin at Shelia's visitation, and 
> buried
> with her in Summit Lawn Cemetery right outside Brazil.'
> In mourning: DeBaun Funeral Homes and Crematory's obituary said that 
> Toffee
> had been Sheila's 'constant companion for five years'
> It cited an obituary saying: 'She loved Toffee, her seeing-eye dog and
> constant companion for five years.'
> But when the report provoked a storm of criticism against Mrs Stadler's
> family, station boss Todd Webber withdrew the story from the website and
> refused to comment on the reasons why.
> Mr Reilly said: 'The family and the station have taken a lot of heat on
> this. There was a Facebook page with so much criticism on that they had to
> take it down.'
> The Dogs Trust said:  'There is never any reason to put a healthy dog to
> sleep when it could be happily rehomed.
> 'We hope that this sad story could never be repeated in the UK.
> Guide Dogs UK also made it clear that this case was unacceptable.
> Oliver Barton, regional director, said: 'We would never condone this.
> Whatever happens, we would make sure that the dog was happy and cared for'
> Paying tribute to Mrs Stadler, the DeBaun Funeral Home refused to comment 
> on
> its involvement in displaying the euthanized dog but said that she had 
> been
> a 'dedicated homemaker' whose favourite book was the Bible.
> Mrs Stadler is not the only owner to request such a burial in recent 
> years.
> NBC reported that Tom Tom, a healthy 2-year-old Yorkshire terrier was put
> down so that he could be buried with his owner, Donald Ellis from 
> Arkansas.
> His sister said that she had 'a lot of grief for doing this, but it's what
> my brother wanted.'
> Emily Kinney from Dallas, Texas told NBC that her grandmother asked for 
> her
> Shih-tzu Sam to be buried in her coffin. She said that 'she wanted her 
> best
> friend with her'.
> http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2303841/Blind-woman-s-HEALTHY-guide-
> dog-killed-buried-alongside-fulfilment-dying-wish.html?ito=feeds-newsxml&utm
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