[Nfbf-l] ROSES AND THORNS

[Alan Dicey]

ROSES AND THORNS
A certain man planted a rose and watered it faithfully, and before it 
blossomed, he examined it.  He saw the bud that would soon blossom and also 
the thorns.  And he thought, "How can any beautiful flower come from a plant 
burdened with so many sharp thorns?" Saddened by this thought, he neglected 
to water the rose, and before it was ready to bloom, it died.

So it is with many people.  Within every soul there is a rose.  The God-like 
qualities planted in us at birth grow amid the thorns of our faults.  Many 
of us look at ourselves and see only the thorns, the defects.  We despair, 
thinking that nothing good can possibly come from us.  We neglect to water 
the good within us, and eventually it dies.  We never realize our potential.

Some people do not see the rose within themselves; someone else must show it 
to them.

One of the greatest gifts a person can possess is to be able to reach past 
the thorns and find the rose within others.  This is the characteristic of 
love, to look at a person, and knowing his faults, recognize the nobility in 
his soul, and help him realize that he can overcome his faults.  If we show 
him the rose, he will conquer the thorns.

Our duty in this world is to help others by showing them their roses and not 
their thorns.  Only then can we achieve the love we should feel for each 
other; only then can we bloom in our own garden.

-- Author Unknown

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