[Nfbf-l] 13 Things You May Not Know About Blind People

[Alan Dicey]

Dear Friends,
I found this on a list group I am on, and thought some might use it to send 
to Sighted friends, associates, or other People who could use a bit of 
insight about Blindness.
I know there are many such articles, but since I never saw this one before, 
I thought I should share, as perhaps no one  else has either.
With Best Regards,
God Bless,
Alan
Plantation, Florida

13 Things You May Not Know About Blind People

On a stormy evening when the lights went out and my eyes could not adjust to 
the darkness for a while, I learnt about what it might mean to live with a 
partially distorted vision. Following sounds and relying on touching 
objects, I had a unique experience. Afterwards, I was intrigued to know more 
about how do people with visual impairment live their lives and what do 
their surroundings mean to them.

This post is a result of that pursuit for understanding. Here are thirteen 
things that you may not know about blind people. And these thirteen things 
will go a long way in helping you deal with your awkwardness of interacting 
with people who have visual impairment.

1. They may possess some form of perception, if not their full sight.
Visual impairment does not equate with complete loss of vision. In fact, 
according to the World Health Organization (WHO), 15.88% of people who are 
visually impaired, face total darkness or are blind. The remaining 84.12% 
have partial or residual vision, like color perception, light perception, 
movement or even form perception. They may be able to see in blurs or 
varying degrees of distortion, with literal blind spots in some areas. As 
you can see, there are many ways of having low vision, and it is not a 
binary between sight and darkness.

2. They are not ashamed of having visual impairment.
Many blind people report perceiving their visual impairment as a mere 
physical challenge. By no means do they see it as debilitating or the end of 
their joy. And they don't believe that 'being' blind is their identity. This 
group of people is as powerful, magnificent and capable as anybody else. And 
the onus on making a much needed attitudinal shift lies with the rest of us. 
So, the next time you find yourself thinking "Oh poor thing, s/he is blind", 
check yourself and explore how you can change some deep rooted assumptions 
that play out when interacting with people who have different abilities.

3. They do not always need acute supervision.
Blind people are far more aware of their environment and have more mastery 
than
they are given credit for. They may need inputs just like anyone else, to
familiarize themselves in a new place or learn a new technology. But, 
visually
impaired people by no means are perpetually dependent on others for their
living. I would urge you to approach all visually impaired people with this 
in
mind - If they need assistance, trust that they will ask for it on their 
own.

4. They feel as insulted by overcompensating kindness, as by judgment.
Some visually impaired people I know, often wish that everyone else would 
just
treat them as people, and not as people with a condition. Unsolicited and 
extra
assistance is something that may make them feel small. For example, helping 
them
cross the road and taking them to their destination, when they just ask for
directions. Or buying groceries for them and counting money on their behalf.
Even picking up something they dropped and taking over carrying their stuff, 
are
all considered as overcompensating kindness, which many blind people report 
as
derogatory. Ask if they need help. Accept it if they say no.

5. They are not super-sensory, and may not have heightened senses.
Popular culture depicts that if one of the senses of a person stops working, 
the
others become sharper. This is not necessarily true! Though blind people may
rely more on their other senses, and develop a strong memory or are tuned 
into
auditory cues, they may not always have a sixth sense. However, there is
evidence that suggests blind people use a process called 'echolocation', 
whereby
sound waves are used to determine the location and size of objects within a
particular area. Dr. Gavin Buckingham says, "They will either snap their 
fingers
or click their tongue to bounce sound waves off objects, a skill often
associated with bats, which use echolocation when flying.

6. They enjoy being spoken to with normal language.
You don't have to hold yourself back from using vision oriented language 
with them, like look, see, watch, witness or even viewpoint! They do not 
take offense at such words, and might actually feel awkward if they sense 
you making a conscious effort to avoid such terms. Instead, just let them be 
a part of your experience, as they make you a part of theirs. After all, 
blindness is not a stigma.

7. They are as responsive and engaging with their environment, as any other 
human.
Yes. People with blindness like exploring new places, go to the movies, 
music concerts, try out new restaurants and even indulge in adventure sports 
like racing, snowboarding, trekking, skydiving etc. They as excited or 
hindered by their surroundings, as anybody else. This predisposition 
primarily depends on the personality types of individuals. Some are 
introverted and prefer their alone time or controlled environments. Others 
are extraverted and proactively seek varied experience.

8. They do dream while sleeping.
Their dreams show up just the way they experience daily life- with a rich 
mix of sensory cues. In a Danish study (2014) of 50 blind adults, 18% of the 
blind participants (both congenital and later-onset) reported tasting in at 
least one dream, compared with 7% of sighted participants. Nearly 30% of the 
blind reported smelling in at least one dream. Almost 70% reported a touch 
sensation and 86% hearing. However, the emotions and themes of their dreams 
are known to be similar to that of people with sight.

9. They understand colors in unique ways.
Some individuals who develop blindness later in life, relate to colors just 
like people with sight. For others who haven't experienced color as 
intricately, relate to it through association and building concepts like the 
fire is yellow or the sky is blue. They also associate it with energy forms: 
blue=cold, white=frozen, red=hot. Sometimes she /he can only tell bright 
colors or they might have a hard time telling blue or black or brown apart, 
or pink from white. Whatever is the case, colors have meaning for all people 
and the blind understand the concept.

10. They have more nightmares than sighted people.
This is a result of mental impressions or interpretations of distressing 
situations, because blind people generally report more anxiety in daily life 
than others. They find it challenging to avoid stressors, and hence their 
nightmares are closely tied to reality- falling into a ditch, getting run 
over by a car, running into a tree or getting stalked. Dr. Amani Meaidi who 
has studied this phenomenon closely, says such nightmares don't affect the 
quality of life of blind people, but are a true indicator of the experiences 
they have.

11. Not all of them use a cane.
Since there are varying degrees of visual impairment and blindness, some 
individuals seek assistance in the form of white canes or red tips canes 
which denote degree of impairment. Many others prefer using guide dogs, who 
are trained to help them navigate through curbs, doors or crosswalks. They 
keep an eye on their owner's right shoulder to protect against collisions.

12. They are open to curious inquiries about their situation.
You may not know how to be with people who are blind, or might want to 
understand them better. Thus, it is perfectly fine for you to ask them about 
their lives and how their experiences are. The key here is to be curious, 
have a willingness to learn and appreciate the uniqueness that comes with 
being visually impaired. As said earlier, many blind people don't see their 
situation as limiting, and can offer great insights, if you just ask.

13. Their success also hinges on how you view them.
Psychologists say that success in life, education and jobs of visually 
impaired individuals are directly proportional to the expectations that 
people around have of them, and the degree of positive attitudes they 
encounter. The more capable and able you believe they are, the more they 
will shine. Self-esteem, self-belief and self-image are partially formed 
through social interactions, and it is important that people encounter 
empowering experiences. Be that experience!
As you allow this understanding to settle, just remember that blindness is 
not a defect or a stigma. It is a characteristic, just as sight is, and 
Helen Keller's words capture this fact beautifully: "I can see, and that is 
why I can be happy, in what you call the dark, but which to me is golden. I 
can see a God-made world, not a manmade world."

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