[Nfbf-l] Letter Opposing Dining in the Dark

Fri Oct 12 00:19:01 UTC 2018

Well, it is obvious that there are differing views on the Dining in the Dark issue. What works for one may not work for another. I speak from experience about the positive impact our Dining in the Dark events have had here in Daytona Beach. 

Kathy

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From: Nfbf-l [mailto:nfbf-l-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of kaye zimpher via Nfbf-l
Sent: Thursday, October 11, 2018 7:26 PM
To: NFB of Florida Internet Mailing List
Cc: kaye zimpher
Subject: Re: [Nfbf-l] Letter Opposing Dining in the Dark

Hello:
I have read many of the "Dining in the Dark" comments, and I fail to see where the NFB's opposition of this events makes us a victim of society. In fact, I believe steering away from these events shows that we in fact are not a victim. We don't need to blind fold the sighted to show them what our lives are like. We are equal to the sighted and we can and do live our lives the same as they do but for some minor modifications. I believe that putting a group of sighted folks in the dark and asking them to complete a task that we, the blind would find common or "normal" would only solidify their belief that everything we do must be so terribly difficult. They would have trouble just eating, and we all know that eating is no issue for us. I think we need to have fundraisers that promote our abilities and our complete equality in society, not those that contribute to society's false belief that we are not as capable as they are.
As previously stated, just my 2 cents.
Kaye
----- Original Message -----
From: "Brooke Evans via Nfbf-l" <nfbf-l at nfbnet.org>
To: <nfbf-l at nfbnet.org>
Cc: "Brooke Evans" <brooke6358 at aol.com>; <nfbf-l at nfbnet.org>
Sent: Thursday, October 11, 2018 11:54 AM
Subject: Re: [Nfbf-l] Letter Opposing Dining in the Dark

> Bah humbug!  I say.
>
> I have read every word posted on the dining in the dark opinions, 
> which are not always in sync with all people at any given time.
>
> Briefly, I support any activity I can use as a tool to enhance my life 
> not only as a blind, low vision person but a blind profoundly hard of 
> hearing person diagnosed as  deaf blind.
>
> What I hear throughout all I read has been the blind are still 
> perpetuating the idea that we are a victim of society. I am not a 
> victim of society. As a blind woman with profound hearing loss I have 
> engaged in education about my own way of living life as I moved 
> through my life as a young child, student, wife, mother of four, 
> grandmother, great-grandmother, supporting a career military husband 
> for 28 years, working part time, full part time, whatever was needed 
> to help the family coppers and never ever thinking I was a victim of my own circumstances.
>
> Any event, such as dining in the dark, to me is an invaluable tool for 
> myself as well as four  others in my life  circles. I have attended 
> for dining in the dark events in the past 10 years and believe it or 
> not, I have learned more about my own self through these events which 
> has given me a wider perspective on blindness and how to communicate 
> that to my family, and people in the public square.
>
> Just giving  my humble opinion here which  was hugely   expanded when I 
> saw a “hashtag” gem of a    quote,  by one of our very own NFB Floridians.
>
> This nugget told me to* “be yourself. Everybody else is taken.”
>
>  This little Oscar Wilde gem tells me I am not a victim of the world I 
> see. I am walking through life as everyone else walks through life...
> experiencing and lending my understanding to those whom I meet along 
> my journey, and this includes events such as dining in the dark.
>
> I appreciate the psychological data and what it takes to build data 
> but we are no longer  avictim of anything but ourselves. Take a look 
> at what we have accomplished in nearly 80 years of advocacy, tough  
> advocacy, breaking down all manner of  barriers. The list is long. 
> This is now 2018 and for me all that has gone before me has helped me 
> to come into this moment of wisdom.
>
> Thank you for listening.
>
> Brooke Evans
>
> Ask yourself: “do I dare shake up the universe?”     ~T.S. Eliot
>
>
>
> Begin forwarded message:
>
> From: Marion Gwizdala via Nfbf-l <nfbf-l at nfbnet.org>
> Date: October 10, 2018 at 8:06:13 PM EDT
> To: "NFB of Florida Tampa Chapter List" <nfbf-tampa at nfbnet.org>, "NFB 
> of Florida Internet Mailing List" <nfbf-l at nfbnet.org>
> Cc: Marion Gwizdala <marion.gwizdala at verizon.net>
> Subject: [Nfbf-l] Letter Opposing Dining in the Dark
> Reply-To: NFB of Florida Internet Mailing List <nfbf-l at nfbnet.org>
>
> Dear Florida Federation Family,
>
>
>
>               A week or so ago, I sent a message to these lists 
> concerning Dining in the Dark fund raising events. These messages were 
> triggered by a Tampa Bay chapter member who, in spite of knowing the 
> National Federation of the Blind's opposition to such events, 
> announced one being hosted by the Tampa Lighthouse for the Blind. I 
> understand another community rehabilitation program (CRP) is hosting 
> such an event. As per my previous message, it is the policy of the NFB 
> to voice our opposition to such events when we learn of them and to 
> encourage those conducting them to reconsider an event that only 
> serves to reinforce the negative stereotypes of blindness and demean 
> the blind they purport to serve.
>
>
>
>               As the president of the National Association of Guide 
> Dog Users and with the encouragement of President Riccobono, I have 
> written the message below with the unanimous consent of the NAGDU 
> board of directors.
> I
> encourage you to read this message, along with the supporting 
> supplemental information accompanying it so you are better educated 
> about our rationale for opposing these sort of events.
>
>
>
> Fraternally yours,
>
> Marion Gwizdala
>
> From: president at nagdu.org [mailto:president at nagdu.org]
> Sent: Wednesday, October 10, 2018 4:00 PM
> To: 'cbenninger at guidedogs.com'
> Cc: board at nagdu.org; officeofthepresident at nfb.org
> Subject: Concerning Canine Heroes Auction
> Importance: High
>
>
>
>
>
> Dear Ms. Benninger,
>
> Via Email: CBenninger at guidedogs.com
>
>           I am writing on behalf of the National Association of Guide 
> Dog Users (NAGDU), a division of the National Federation of the Blind 
> (NFB), concerning Guide Dogs for the Blind's intention to use a 
> blindness simulation episode during its upcoming Canine Heroes 
> Auction. Though the National Federation of the Blind is a proponent of 
> the use of learning shades - sometimes referred to as "sleep shades" - 
> to effectively train individuals in the techniques of blindness, we 
> object to the use of simulation as a fund raising technique. Whether 
> intended or not, simulation exercises tend to invoke fear and pity in 
> the participants, compromising the goals of the National Federation of 
> the Blind and, I would hope, those of guide dogs for the Blind.
>
>
>
>           Placing a blindfold on a sighted person does not help the 
> person understand what it is like to be blind; rather, such 
> simulations only serve to reinforce the negative stereotypes and 
> misconceptions that compromise our ability to fully participate in our 
> community as we strive to live the lives we want. This is not only the 
> opinion of the National Federation of the Blind; it is also the 
> conclusions of research in simulation exercises conducted by social 
> psychologists. A blindfolded sighted person will not encounter a 
> waitress asking their 5-year-old what her father wants to drink, 
> strangers grabbing and pushing the blind person where the well-meaning 
> individual thinks they are wanting to go, A doctor asking the blind 
> person who bathes them, or the condescending comments of pity offered 
> by the public, all incidents I and nearly every other blind person 
> have experienced.
>
>
>
>           We realize the importance of raising funds to continue the 
> work of Guide Dogs for the Blind; however, we object to the 
> exploitation of the fear of blindness and the demeaning of the blind 
> as the tool for raising those funds. We believe the Canine Heroes 
> Auction would be just as successful without the simulation episode and 
> urge Guide Dogs for the Blind to publicly join the National 
> Association of Guide Dog Users and the National Federation of the 
> Blind by condemning and opposing the use of simulation exercises as a 
> fund raising technique.
>
>
>
>           For your information, I have attached the text of Resolution
> 2012-04 condemning the use of simulation exercises as a fund raising 
> event.
> I am also including below links to two articles which recently 
> appeared in the Braille Monitor, the monthly publication of the 
> National Federation of the Blind. One of these articles is written by 
> Mark Riccobono, president of the National Federation of the Blind, and 
> the second by Dr. Ariel Silverman, a Social Psychologist.
>
>
>
> Walking a Mile: The Possibilities and Pitfalls of Simulations by Mark
> Riccobono
>
> https://nfb.org/images/nfb/publications/bm/bm17/bm1704/bm170402.htm
>
>
>
> Disability Simulations: What Does the Research Say?
>
> By Ariel Silverman, Ph.D.
>
> https://nfb.org/images/nfb/publications/bm/bm17/bm1706/bm170602.htm
>
>
>
>           In closing, I would like to share the spontaneous, unsolicited
> impressions of an executive with a major airline after attending two
> simulation events. "It struck me as not a realistic simulation of what it
> must be like for a blind person to eat a meal.After having done the 
> exercise
> twice, I have learned a few of the techniques that a person might use to 
> eat
> their dinner, but I have no illusions that it taught me much at all about
> the overall experience or skills required in life.  Unfortunately, I'm 
> sure
> that a large number of people who left the exercises think they learned 
> more
> than they really did.
>
>
>
> With kind regards,
>
> Marion Gwizdala, President
>
> National Association of Guide Dog Users Inc. (NAGDU)
>
> National Federation of the Blind
>
> (813) 626-2789
>
> President at NAGDU.ORG
>
> Visit our website <http://nagdu.org/>
>
> Follow us on Twitter <http://twitter.com/nagdu>
>
>
>
> The National Federation of the Blind knows that blindness is not the
> characteristic that defines you or your future. Every day we raise
> expectations because low expectations create barriers between blind 
> people
> and our dreams. You can live the life you want! Blindness is not what 
> holds
> you back.
>
>
>
>
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