[Blindtlk] Refusal To Use A Cane

[Gary Wunder]

I suggest that setting a good example will go a long way toward trying to
send the message you want to send.  That doesn't mean that the person you
want to use the cane will receive the message, but at least by setting the
example you will have demonstrated what you want him to see without him
being able to put off that message by regarding US preachy.  It is always
difficult to know when offering someone a little help is a good, kind,
Christian thing to do and when it is simply part of being an enabler.
Offering people the opportunity to grow is not the same thing as seeing to
their growth or demanding that they do it.