[Blindtlk] blind people being loners

Sun Jan 27 02:23:05 UTC 2013

Mark and all,

	It definitely is, and I confess that, although I pride myself on
being able to educate people about blindness, I have my defensive moments as
well. It's a fine line which is sometimes hard to walk.

Chris

-----Original Message-----
From: blindtlk [mailto:blindtlk-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Mark Tardif
Sent: Saturday, January 26, 2013 3:43 PM
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Unfortunately, Diane, I sometimes do the same thing, and I also know that it
is not a good thing at all for any of us.  I think I have become better over
the years, but it is a hard habit to break.

Mark Tardif
Nuclear arms will not hold you.
-----Original Message-----
From: Diane Graves
Sent: Friday, January 25, 2013 10:23 PM
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Absolutely Mark. And that is where I usually run into trouble. Also, when
someone appears condescending, as sighted people sometimes do, I tend toward
the defensive instead of taking the initiative to educate. This is not good
for anyone concerned, I know, and I am trying to break this habit.

Diane Graves

-----Original Message-----
From: blindtlk [mailto:blindtlk-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of Mark Tardif
Sent: Thursday, January 24, 2013 8:33 PM
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I generally agree with you, Mari.  However, I do think that for blind people
who are by nature introverts, it may be harder not to be a loner because I
think we as blind people must make more of an effort if we don't want to
become loners.  This is because sighted people who don't know much about
blindness and aren't certain what to say to someone who is blind may do the
easy thing and not approach you, so we need to assert ourselves more than
the average person.  Just my opinion.

Mark Tardif
Nuclear arms will not hold you.
-----Original Message-----
From: Mari Hunziker
Sent: Thursday, January 24, 2013 6:00 PM
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Subject: Re: [Blindtlk] blind people being loners

HI RJ,

I don't think it has anything to do with fear of the unknown. It has to do
with people's personalities. I attended a youth program at the Braille
Institute in CA when I was a kid. I was a very social child and still very
social. I do not drive, like most blind people. I must rely on asking for
rides from friends or from public sources. I always try and make friends
where ever I go. When I take my kids to the park, I try and start a
conversation with others there. Now that my kids are in school, I volunteer
a lot at their school and enjoy being involved. There have been times when I
have felt like a loner but  when I do I remember that I must reach out and
call a friend or a family member. Reaching out to others is typlically a
blessing to them as well.
Thanks,
Mari Hunziker

On Thu, Jan 24, 2013 at 4:03 PM, RJ Sandefur
<joltingjacksandefur at gmail.com>wrote:

> Do you think fear of the unknown might have something to do with it?
> RJ
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>  Hi, RJ. I do not. Do you?
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