[Blindtlk] My 2 Cents
Carly Mihalakis
carlymih at comcast.net
Sun Mar 24 03:46:03 UTC 2013
Hi, Diane,
What a great message!
I too have a duel disability. Not only am I totally blind since age
18 months, in 2003, I acquired brain damage, a side effect of which
is tactal appraxia, the inability for finger to communicate input to
the brain. So, essentially, I can not any longer perceive braille
although complete knowledge of the code including the many rules of
writing, does endure, held fast in long term memory which, ever
miraculously, remains untouched.
I too considdered braille one of my lovers, and losing it was akin to
losing someone with whom you share such intimacies.
I'd love to talk with you, Diane so gimme a call: 408-209-3239 At
08:14 PM 3/23/2013, you wrote:
>Good Evening,
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>For days I have been overwhelmed by the sizable discussion thread on
>"Adjustment to blindness training NFB Centers Or Not," and I admit to having
>deleted a good number of the messages without reading, so I apologize in
>advance if I missed some things. I changed the subject line on purpose, just
>in case there were others doing the same. However, tonight I am up late
>baking and have read a number of the posts, and feel compelled to share my
>sentiments on a few things, or the facts as I see them.
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>First of all, I'll say, very respectfully, that there is one participant in
>the discussion who has me very confused. On one hand I hear him saying that
>we in the federation need to "wake up and smell the coffee" and accept the
>fact that blindness does make us inferior. On the other hand, this same
>individual is saying that we need to come together to fight discrimination
>against the blind. If you, yourself, believe that you are inferior, then why
>should society stop discriminating? In fact, how can they stop
>discriminating? Why should employers hire us, and lessen that 70%
>unemployment rate, if we aren't equal to our sighted counterparts?
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>Secondly, I'll just say that the notion that NFB believes that one size fits
>all is ludicrous. There are no two blind people that are a like any more
>than there are two sighted people who are exactly alike. There are sighted
>people who are excellent construction workers, who do not have the people
>skills business prowess and any number of other skills necessary to be the
>CEO of a corporation. That CEO might not have the athletic prowess to
>fight his way out of a cardboard box. That doesn't make either one of them
>inferior. They're just different.
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>The statement that all blind people need to accept the fact that they can't
>perform any number of given tasks, is, indeed, arrogant. We are just as
>varied in our abilities as the sighted.
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>I have a dual disability in that I am not only totally blind, but also have
>a significant hearing impairment. Therefore, there are a number of blind
>people who can run circles around me in the mobility arena, simply because
>they have the benefit of that good hearing. The fact that I have trouble at
>times, doesn't mean that they face the same drawbacks and that their skills
>are not excellent and far above mine.
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>On the other hand, I am an avid Braille reader, and much prefer Braille to
>any other media, whereas there are other blind people who prefer to listen
>to tapes and recorded books. My hearing is good enough that I could
>certainly use audiobooks if I chose too. I just get more out of a book when
>actively reading it myself. Some of those people with the superb mobility
>skills may not have the same prowess in Braille that I do. We are all
>different.
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>Mike Freeman and Gary Wunder are both skilled in the area of computer
>programming, and, I suspect, could give sighted programmers a run for their
>money. I, on the other hand am strictly a computer user. Start talking about
>programming and you've lost me immediately. The fact that I can't do it,
>doesn't mean that they're not experts in it.
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>Don't know if this is making sense or not, but again, on one hand I hear
>this person telling us that we are a cookie cutter organization, while at
>the same time cutting his own cookies by telling us that we are all severely
>limited.
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>In our organization we have liberals and we have conservatives. We have
>Christians and we have atheists. We have people who are athletes and those
>who are out of shape and proud of it. Lol We have any variation that you
>could think of. What unites us is our desire and our intent to fight the
>discriminatory barriers which face the blind.
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>Now I'm not going to tell you that I've never known a federationist who
>believed that there was only one way of doing things and one standard as it
>relates to blindness skills. But that isn't the mantra of the organization
>at all.
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>If you want to "stop dreaming" then that is your choice. But you can't take
>my dreams.
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>Diane Graves
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