[BlindTlk] vent about my sister

[Jude DaShiell]

You're playing her game.  Indefinite ostracism is likely the only way to 
handle this problem child.


On Tue, 9 Mar 2021, Madison Martin via BlindTlk wrote:

> Hi all,
> Sorry, but I just really need to get this all out, as it's really been bothering
> me.
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> First of all I should tell you that my sister and I are 6 years apart and have
> never had the same interests so therefore our relationship has never been that
> grate. Lately things have gotten worse though. She's taken to bullying me. She
> tells me to shut up, says I'm annoying and sensitive, none of which are true.
> She also says that no one cares about my opinion. She also likes to say, "are
> you dumb or you  stupid?" and "I'm not being rude I'm just being honest," when
> in truth she is being rude and she knows full-well that it is. I've tried giving
> her a taste of her own medicine (not as rudely of course), but that didn't work
> as she just mocked me. She's also become a real potty-mouth which drives us all
> nuts. We can't even have a family meeting because she won't let the rest of us
> talk, she just thinks that she's right and that we're the problem. She also does
> this thing where she breathes in deeply holds it and then lets it out, it sounds
> like she's having an assma attack or dying. She thinks it's cool, but really it
> just sounds absolutely horrible and is extremely annoying. She also loves to
> bother our cats, especially our youngest one Charlie, by blowing in their faces,
> touching their paws, chasing them, and picking them up when they don't want to
> be held. Because of this Charlie gets very defensive when we pet him or try and
> move him and he's also not as affectionate as he might have been. Also, Rosie
> our middle cat is very skittish and gets scared so easily, it's sad. I think she
> feels that she doesn't get treated fairly and that I never get punished for
> anything which isn't true at all. She also feels like we don't listen to her
> which isn't true at all, we do, she just isn't always right. She also calls us
> loosers, and criticizes me or at least questions me about just about everything
> that I either do or don't do.
> She seems to have a tendency to not remember things how they actually happened
> and stretch the truth, and she also lies.
> She's not very empathetic, Mom and Dad have to make her apologize for being mean
> to me, and she never sounds sincere. She also has self-esteem issues, she thinks
> she's ugly when she really isn't. I worry that she's being bullied at school,
> and is therefor lashing out. Mom has asked her, but she's said no, but as I said
> she's been known to lie. I also worry about how her and her friends treat each
> other, some of them aren't the nicest people. She just has an all-around crappy
> attitude. Dad and I have talked about going to therapy and she'd be the main
> topic which would be fine, but I worry that a therapist might not be able to
> help us/her, especially since I know she wouldn't listen/talk to them she'd
> probably just say that we're the problem. Anyway, I know that you  can't do
> anything, but I just really needed to get this all out, as I'm really getting
> very fed up with her and living with someone who treats me and Mom and Dad the
> way she does. If you read this far then thanks for reading,
> Madison
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