[blparent] Noisy shoes

Sat Nov 15 05:43:05 UTC 2008

Of course, if you hit your head, the cane wouldn't of done you much good 
unless you were sweeping the air above the ground. smile.  this is what I 
thought when I banged my mouth.  If I was lucky I might have hit the post of 
the sign, but it was my face that hig the sign dead on. My feelings exactly, 
where was my cane.  Obviously not in front of my face. V
----- Original Message ----- 
From: "Jo Elizabeth Pinto" <jopinto at pcdesk.net>
To: "NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List" <blparent at nfbnet.org>
Sent: Friday, November 14, 2008 4:50 PM
Subject: Re: [blparent] Noisy shoes

>I remember getting really angry at a mobility teacher when I was a little
> girl for asking where my cane was when I hit my head on the corner of a
> counter that extended all the way to the floor.  I should have been using 
> my
> cane, but I was hurt, and I felt like she didn't care.  I remember that to
> this day.
>
> Jo Elizabeth
>
> It is easy--terribly easy--to shake a man's faith in himself. To take
> advantage of that to break a man's spirit is devil's work. Take care of 
> what
> you are doing. Take care.--George Bernard Shaw in "Candide"
> ----- Original Message ----- 
> From: "Veronica Smith" <madison_tewe at spinn.net>
> To: "NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List" <blparent at nfbnet.org>
> Sent: Friday, November 14, 2008 12:11 PM
> Subject: Re: [blparent] Noisy shoes
>
>
>> that has happened to all of us.  At the orientation center I ran into a
>> big sign and cracked open my lip and all my mobility instructor had to
>> say, and where was your cane. hahaha! V
>> ----- Original Message ----- 
>> From: "Barbara Hammel" <poetlori8 at msn.com>
>> To: "NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List" <blparent at nfbnet.org>
>> Sent: Thursday, November 13, 2008 8:44 PM
>> Subject: Re: [blparent] Noisy shoes
>>
>>
>>> JThey do have a mobility teacher.  I'm trying to see if I can create the
>>> desire to want to use one by allowing them to go out to the bus all by
>>> themselves.  Of course, I still have to go out and herd them in the 
>>> right
>>> direction but I don't think until the snow comes will they even have
>>> problems.  The only thing right now is that they sometimes run into the
>>> door
>>> of the bus.  We tell them to put out their hands but if they do hit it I
>>> tell them that if they'd use their canes that wouldn't happen.
>>> Barbara
>>>
>>> --------------------------------------------------
>>> From: "Pickrell, Rebecca M." <Rebecca.Pickrell at ngc.com>
>>> Sent: Thursday, November 13, 2008 1:30 PM
>>> To: "NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List" <blparent at nfbnet.org>
>>> Subject: Re: [blparent] Noisy shoes
>>>
>>>> As much as I hate to say it, maybe he needs to let his actions and
>>>> choices teach him, either getin g hurt or embarrassed due to not using
>>>> his cane.
>>>> Have you hada mobility instructor work with him? If not, why not?
>>>> There has to be a better way.
>>>>
>>>> -----Original Message-----
>>>> From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org]
>>>> On Behalf Of Tammy, Paul and Colyn
>>>> Sent: Thursday, November 13, 2008 1:11 PM
>>>> To: NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List
>>>> Subject: Re: [blparent] Noisy shoes
>>>>
>>>> Hi,
>>>> If he doesn't know or has no concept of how and why to use a cane then
>>>> he shouldn't be  using one.  As for holding on to your cane, there has
>>>> to be a better more safe way to travel with your children.  Not only 
>>>> are
>>>> you putting yourself in danger when you let your child hold on to your
>>>> cane,  but your children are also in danger if you don't use safe
>>>> methods of traveling.
>>>>
>>>> Tammy
>>>> ----- Original Message -----
>>>> From: "Barbara Hammel" <poetlori8 at msn.com>
>>>> To: "NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List" <blparent at nfbnet.org>
>>>> Sent: Thursday, November 13, 2008 10:21 AM
>>>> Subject: Re: [blparent] Noisy shoes
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>> And that is a problem we do have.  He refuses to use it correctly so
>>>> it's
>>>>> a good thing I know our block and other places where I have him do
>>>> that.
>>>>> Once in a while I do run into things or trip, but he has to learn
>>>> somehow.
>>>>> Got any ideas how to get him to hold his own cane.  We've tried
>>>> fastening
>>>>> it in his hand but he hates that.  The teaching cane is the best
>>>> method
>>>>> I've found so far.  I'm not bragging when I say I'm a very good
>>>> traveler
>>>>> who is very aware of my surroundings because I'm not brave at all when
>>>> it
>>>>> comes to new situations.
>>>>> Barbara
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>> --------------------------------------------------
>>>>> From: "Dena Wainwright" <autumnrose21 at gmail.com>
>>>>> Sent: Thursday, November 13, 2008 8:12 AM
>>>>> To: "NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List" <blparent at nfbnet.org>
>>>>> Subject: Re: [blparent] Noisy shoes
>>>>>
>>>>>> having a child hold onto your cane doesn't seem especially effective
>>>> or
>>>>>> safe to me... how can you get accurate info with someone holding it?
>>>>>> also, what if he lets go?
>>>>>> Dena
>>>>>>
>>>>>> ----- Original Message ----- 
>>>>>> From: "Veronica Smith" <madison_tewe at spinn.net>
>>>>>> To: "NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List" <blparent at nfbnet.org>
>>>>>> Sent: Wednesday, November 12, 2008 11:30 PM
>>>>>> Subject: Re: [blparent] Noisy shoes
>>>>>>
>>>>>>
>>>>>>> Personally, instead of holding your cane, you should have your child
>>>>
>>>>>>> hold onto your pants or belt loop. V
>>>>>>> ----- Original Message ----- 
>>>>>>> From: "Barbara Hammel" <poetlori8 at msn.com>
>>>>>>> To: "NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List" <blparent at nfbnet.org>
>>>>>>> Sent: Wednesday, November 12, 2008 5:55 PM
>>>>>>> Subject: Re: [blparent] Noisy shoes
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> The leashes we have are just harnesses with the leash attached.
>>>> They
>>>>>>>> fasten
>>>>>>>> with velcro in the back.  They're kind of tricky to figure out
>>>> though.
>>>>>>>> You
>>>>>>>> have to get the child's arms through in the right place.  We don't
>>>> use
>>>>>>>> them
>>>>>>>> often but if I take the twins alone I take one on a leash and the
>>>> other
>>>>>>>> holds onto my cane.  I've even tied the one's cane to his leash so
>>>> we
>>>>>>>> don't
>>>>>>>> have to spend forever looking for it if he drops it or throws it.
>>>> Now
>>>>>>>> looking for cane tips?  That's a different story.  So far I've
>>>> found
>>>>>>>> them
>>>>>>>> when the pop off.
>>>>>>>> Barbara
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> --------------------------------------------------
>>>>>>>> From: "Veronica Smith" <madison_tewe at spinn.net>
>>>>>>>> Sent: Wednesday, November 12, 2008 12:05 PM
>>>>>>>> To: "NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List" <blparent at nfbnet.org>
>>>>>>>> Subject: Re: [blparent] Noisy shoes
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>> I only had the opportunity to use it once and it was a real leash
>>>> that
>>>>>>>>> belonged to our husky.  Gab thought it great fun to wear Shelby's
>>>>>>>>> leash as
>>>>>>>>> we made our way through a very busy airport in Las Angelas.  I
>>>> don't
>>>>>>>>> care
>>>>>>>>> what others think as long as my child is safe. V
>>>>>>>>> ----- Original Message ----- 
>>>>>>>>> From: "Pickrell, Rebecca M." <Rebecca.Pickrell at ngc.com>
>>>>>>>>> To: "NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List" <blparent at nfbnet.org>
>>>>>>>>> Sent: Wednesday, November 12, 2008 6:06 AM
>>>>>>>>> Subject: Re: [blparent] Noisy shoes
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>> I've gotten comments on the leash I use for my daughter, and
>>>> they've
>>>>>>>>>> all
>>>>>>>>>> been positive.
>>>>>>>>>> Really though, I don't much care, because as parents, it is our
>>>> job
>>>>>>>>>> to
>>>>>>>>>> keep our kids safe, while still providing them and ourselves
>>>>>>>>>> oppertunities to get out and about.
>>>>>>>>>> Your husband doesn't have to like the leash, but he does need to
>>>> keep
>>>>>>>>>> his child safe. Liking the leash is not a requirement for *using*
>>>> a
>>>>>>>>>> leash.
>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>> -----Original Message-----
>>>>>>>>>> From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org
>>>>>>>>>> [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org]
>>>>>>>>>> On Behalf Of Melissa Ann Riccobono
>>>>>>>>>> Sent: Wednesday, November 12, 2008 7:30 AM
>>>>>>>>>> To: 'NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List'
>>>>>>>>>> Subject: [blparent] Noisy shoes
>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>> Hi Shannon,
>>>>>>>>>> I wasn't thrilled about the squeaking shoes either, so I put
>>>> bells on
>>>>>>>>>> my
>>>>>>>>>> son's shoes.  They are noisy, but at least it's a pleasant noise
>>>> to
>>>>>>>>>> listen to.  As for leashes, at least in the US, they sell really
>>>> cute
>>>>>>>>>> ones that are a small backpack that looks like an animal (we have
>>>> a
>>>>>>>>>> monkey) and the tail of the animal is the leash.  Austin still
>>>> loves
>>>>>>>>>> his
>>>>>>>>>> (not all kids do, of
>>>>>>>>>> course) and has even named it.  Maybe I get stares when I'm out
>>>> in
>>>>>>>>>> public, but at least I know Austin is safe.  And, I've received a
>>>> ton
>>>>>>>>>> of
>>>>>>>>>> comments about how cute the leash is, and even what a good idea
>>>> it
>>>>>>>>>> is.
>>>>>>>>>> Good luck!
>>>>>>>>>> Melissa
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