[blparent] Help
Veronica Smith
madison_tewe at spinn.net
Wed Jul 15 21:49:16 UTC 2009
And can you imagine if someone was walking by at that moment when books and
teddy bears came out of the sky? She must also know that she could of hurt
someone really bad! She is 6 years old and must know the possibility of her
actions. V
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Behalf Of Eva Adams
Sent: Wednesday, July 15, 2009 3:07 PM
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Subject: Re: [blparent] Help
Did u guys try to explain to her that it hurts his feelings when she does
things because he is blind? Most little kids don't want to hurt people
feeling, but they might not realize that they are. Maybe a punishment for
acting up might help her know that she won't get away with her bad behavior.
Like when your boy friend found out she was throughing her toys out the
window, then in form her since she was not being good she can't play in her
room for the rest of the day. I might also tell her that I guess that she
didn't want the toys she through out the window, and put those toys up for a
bit. I would definitely not ignore her behavior. I don't know just my
thoughts.
Eva
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From: "Jennifer Massey" <renandstimpy3 at comcast.net>
To: "NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List" <blparent at nfbnet.org>
Sent: Tuesday, July 14, 2009 11:44 PM
Subject: Re: [blparent] Help
> lovely a few years huh. I guess telling her when she feels like she is
> going to be bad to come talk to us won't work then. sorry being sarcastic
> a bit and fustrated. Last week she pushed her screen out her window and
> started throwing her toys out of it. we live in an apartment and the
> rental office called him to let him know I was working a double. last
> week I worked 63 hours, worked 4 double shifts and still having financial
> issues and the kids just make me sooo fustrated when they do stuff like
> this and then finally to find out why makes it even more fustrating when
> we can't find a way to fix it.
>
> Jennifer and dustin
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> Sent: Wednesday, July 15, 2009 1:26 AM
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>> she'll grow out of this. I currently deal with this with my 8 and a half
>> year old daughter and I do everything humanly possible for her.
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>> it isn't an attention thing its a I'm a little kid and I got something
>> to use to my advantage thing.
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>> give it time, like a couple of years time.
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>> On Jul 14, 2009, at 9:52 PM, Jennifer Massey wrote:
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>> My boyfriend has no vision but my children do. He watches them 2 or 3
>> days a week sometimes for more then 8 hours a day. My daughter who will
>> be 6 soon told him today that she does the things that she does that are
>> bad because he can't see her do them. This hurt him very much. We are
>> not sure what to do at this point and any advice would be helpful. I
>> have tried spending extra time with her when I can and giving her some
>> positive attention. This week we have swimming which we always do
>> together not only has a family but we each take some individual time
>> with both of the kids, we also are taking both the kids to a carnival on
>> friday and we are all going to the zoo on saturday. We really try to
>> spend as much time as we can with them in the positive and not sure why
>> my daughter is lashing out so much towards him in general. When I am at
>> home she doesn't do this and when she is with her dad and his wife she
>> doesn't do it either. Just with him.
>>
>> Jennifer and Dustin
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