[blparent] Help

Thu Jul 16 01:03:54 UTC 2009

Yes I agree here.  

We’re tolerant though I am a little stricter when it comes to learning about cause and affect.  I would imagine a child’s book falling from a fourth floor or hire could at the least cause a concussion?  I don’t know for certain but I’m not up for finding out.  

Kate

-------------- Original message ----------------------
From: "Veronica Smith" <madison_tewe at spinn.net>
>
> And can you imagine if someone was walking by at that moment when books and
> teddy bears came out of the sky?  She must also know that she could of hurt
> someone really bad!  She is 6 years old and must know the possibility of her
> actions. V
> 
> -----Original Message-----
> From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On
> Behalf Of Eva Adams
> Sent: Wednesday, July 15, 2009 3:07 PM
> To: NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List
> Subject: Re: [blparent] Help
> 
> Did u guys try to explain to her that it hurts his feelings when she does 
> things because he is blind? Most little kids don't want to hurt people 
> feeling, but they might not realize that they are. Maybe a punishment for 
> acting up might help her know that she won't get away with her bad behavior.
> 
> Like when your boy friend found out she was throughing her toys out the 
> window, then in form her since she was not being good she can't play in her 
> room for the rest of the day. I might also tell her that I guess that she 
> didn't want the toys she through out the window, and put those toys up for a
> 
> bit. I would definitely not ignore her behavior. I don't know just my 
> thoughts.
> 
> Eva
> ----- Original Message ----- 
> From: "Jennifer Massey" <renandstimpy3 at comcast.net>
> To: "NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List" <blparent at nfbnet.org>
> Sent: Tuesday, July 14, 2009 11:44 PM
> Subject: Re: [blparent] Help
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> 
> > lovely a few years huh.  I guess telling her when she feels like she is 
> > going to be bad to come talk to us won't work then.  sorry being sarcastic
> 
> > a bit and fustrated.  Last week she pushed her screen out her window and 
> > started throwing her toys out of it.  we live in an apartment and the 
> > rental office called him to let him know I was working a double.  last 
> > week I worked 63 hours, worked 4 double shifts and still having financial 
> > issues and the kids just make me sooo fustrated when they do stuff like 
> > this and then finally to find out why makes it even more fustrating when 
> > we can't find a way to fix it.
> >
> > Jennifer and dustin
> > ----- Original Message ----- 
> > From: "The BlindTechs Network" <info at theblindtechsnetwork.com>
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> > Sent: Wednesday, July 15, 2009 1:26 AM
> > Subject: Re: [blparent] Help
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> >
> >> she'll grow out of this. I currently deal with this with my 8 and a  half
> 
> >> year old daughter and I do everything humanly possible for her.
> >>
> >> it isn't an attention thing its a I'm a little kid and I got something 
> >> to use to my advantage thing.
> >>
> >> give it time, like a couple of years time.
> >>
> >> The BlindTechs Network
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> >>
> >> On Jul 14, 2009, at 9:52 PM, Jennifer Massey wrote:
> >>
> >> My boyfriend has no vision but my children do. He watches them 2 or 3 
> >> days a week sometimes for more then 8 hours a day.  My daughter who  will
> 
> >> be 6 soon told him today that she does the things that she does  that are
> 
> >> bad because he can't see her do them.  This hurt him very  much.  We are 
> >> not sure what to do at this point and any advice would  be helpful.  I 
> >> have tried spending extra time with her when I can and  giving her some 
> >> positive attention.  This week we have swimming which  we always do 
> >> together not only has a family but we each take some  individual time 
> >> with both of the kids, we also are taking both the  kids to a carnival on
> 
> >> friday and we are all going to the zoo on  saturday.  We really try to 
> >> spend as much time as we can with them in  the positive and not sure why 
> >> my daughter is lashing out so much  towards him in general.  When I am at
> 
> >> home she doesn't do this and  when she is with her dad and his wife she 
> >> doesn't do it either.  Just  with him.
> >>
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