[blparent] Help

Sat Jul 18 01:02:15 UTC 2009

this was funny, we were on the fifth floor of a parking structure this morning and Gab asked, if someone spit over the edge would someone on the ground think it was raining."  My husbgand said, no, they would think someone just spit on them. Kids are so funny. V

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From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of kate02 at bellsouth.net
Sent: Wednesday, July 15, 2009 7:04 PM
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Subject: Re: [blparent] Help

Yes I agree here.  

We’re tolerant though I am a little stricter when it comes to learning about cause and affect.  I would imagine a child’s book falling from a fourth floor or hire could at the least cause a concussion?  I don’t know for certain but I’m not up for finding out.  

Kate

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From: "Veronica Smith" <madison_tewe at spinn.net>
>
> And can you imagine if someone was walking by at that moment when books and
> teddy bears came out of the sky?  She must also know that she could of hurt
> someone really bad!  She is 6 years old and must know the possibility of her
> actions. V
> 
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> From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On
> Behalf Of Eva Adams
> Sent: Wednesday, July 15, 2009 3:07 PM
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> Subject: Re: [blparent] Help
> 
> Did u guys try to explain to her that it hurts his feelings when she does 
> things because he is blind? Most little kids don't want to hurt people 
> feeling, but they might not realize that they are. Maybe a punishment for 
> acting up might help her know that she won't get away with her bad behavior.
> 
> Like when your boy friend found out she was throughing her toys out the 
> window, then in form her since she was not being good she can't play in her 
> room for the rest of the day. I might also tell her that I guess that she 
> didn't want the toys she through out the window, and put those toys up for a
> 
> bit. I would definitely not ignore her behavior. I don't know just my 
> thoughts.
> 
> Eva
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> From: "Jennifer Massey" <renandstimpy3 at comcast.net>
> To: "NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List" <blparent at nfbnet.org>
> Sent: Tuesday, July 14, 2009 11:44 PM
> Subject: Re: [blparent] Help
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> 
> > lovely a few years huh.  I guess telling her when she feels like she is 
> > going to be bad to come talk to us won't work then.  sorry being sarcastic
> 
> > a bit and fustrated.  Last week she pushed her screen out her window and 
> > started throwing her toys out of it.  we live in an apartment and the 
> > rental office called him to let him know I was working a double.  last 
> > week I worked 63 hours, worked 4 double shifts and still having financial 
> > issues and the kids just make me sooo fustrated when they do stuff like 
> > this and then finally to find out why makes it even more fustrating when 
> > we can't find a way to fix it.
> >
> > Jennifer and dustin
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> > Subject: Re: [blparent] Help
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> >
> >> she'll grow out of this. I currently deal with this with my 8 and a  half
> 
> >> year old daughter and I do everything humanly possible for her.
> >>
> >> it isn't an attention thing its a I'm a little kid and I got something 
> >> to use to my advantage thing.
> >>
> >> give it time, like a couple of years time.
> >>
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> >> On Jul 14, 2009, at 9:52 PM, Jennifer Massey wrote:
> >>
> >> My boyfriend has no vision but my children do. He watches them 2 or 3 
> >> days a week sometimes for more then 8 hours a day.  My daughter who  will
> 
> >> be 6 soon told him today that she does the things that she does  that are
> 
> >> bad because he can't see her do them.  This hurt him very  much.  We are 
> >> not sure what to do at this point and any advice would  be helpful.  I 
> >> have tried spending extra time with her when I can and  giving her some 
> >> positive attention.  This week we have swimming which  we always do 
> >> together not only has a family but we each take some  individual time 
> >> with both of the kids, we also are taking both the  kids to a carnival on
> 
> >> friday and we are all going to the zoo on  saturday.  We really try to 
> >> spend as much time as we can with them in  the positive and not sure why 
> >> my daughter is lashing out so much  towards him in general.  When I am at
> 
> >> home she doesn't do this and  when she is with her dad and his wife she 
> >> doesn't do it either.  Just  with him.
> >>
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