[blparent] Help

Sat Jul 18 01:12:23 UTC 2009

This is basically what my husband used to do to Gab.  When she was very
young and we were in a public place, he would make her sit on his lap and
when she got a little older, he would make her sit next to him. Let me tell
you, she doesn't like this punishment. V

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From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On
Behalf Of Barbara Hammel
Sent: Wednesday, July 15, 2009 8:34 PM
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Subject: Re: [blparent] Help

Tell him that if he can't trust her to be good then he will just "glue" her 
to him.  How long do you think she'd like to have to be within his reach or 
sitting right next to him?
After all, children get grounded to the house when mom can't trust them 
outside.
Barbara

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From: "Jennifer Massey" <renandstimpy3 at comcast.net>
Sent: Wednesday, July 15, 2009 12:44 AM
To: "NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List" <blparent at nfbnet.org>
Subject: Re: [blparent] Help

> lovely a few years huh.  I guess telling her when she feels like she is 
> going to be bad to come talk to us won't work then.  sorry being sarcastic

> a bit and fustrated.  Last week she pushed her screen out her window and 
> started throwing her toys out of it.  we live in an apartment and the 
> rental office called him to let him know I was working a double.  last 
> week I worked 63 hours, worked 4 double shifts and still having financial 
> issues and the kids just make me sooo fustrated when they do stuff like 
> this and then finally to find out why makes it even more fustrating when 
> we can't find a way to fix it.
>
> Jennifer and dustin
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> From: "The BlindTechs Network" <info at theblindtechsnetwork.com>
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> Subject: Re: [blparent] Help
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>> she'll grow out of this. I currently deal with this with my 8 and a  half

>> year old daughter and I do everything humanly possible for her.
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>> it isn't an attention thing its a I'm a little kid and I got something 
>> to use to my advantage thing.
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>> give it time, like a couple of years time.
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>> On Jul 14, 2009, at 9:52 PM, Jennifer Massey wrote:
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>> My boyfriend has no vision but my children do. He watches them 2 or 3 
>> days a week sometimes for more then 8 hours a day.  My daughter who  will

>> be 6 soon told him today that she does the things that she does  that are

>> bad because he can't see her do them.  This hurt him very  much.  We are 
>> not sure what to do at this point and any advice would  be helpful.  I 
>> have tried spending extra time with her when I can and  giving her some 
>> positive attention.  This week we have swimming which  we always do 
>> together not only has a family but we each take some  individual time 
>> with both of the kids, we also are taking both the  kids to a carnival on

>> friday and we are all going to the zoo on  saturday.  We really try to 
>> spend as much time as we can with them in  the positive and not sure why 
>> my daughter is lashing out so much  towards him in general.  When I am at

>> home she doesn't do this and  when she is with her dad and his wife she 
>> doesn't do it either.  Just  with him.
>>
>> Jennifer and Dustin
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