[blparent] Help before 7:30 Arizona Time Please

[DIANNA ALLEY]

I agree with Dave not that it matters now
----- Original Message ----- 
From: "David Andrews" <dandrews at visi.com>
To: "NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List" <blparent at nfbnet.org>
Sent: Thursday, November 19, 2009 12:13 PM
Subject: Re: [blparent] Help before 7:30 Arizona Time Please


> Personally, I would take away something at home, watching TV, a toy, or 
> something like that -- not something at school.  It doesn't seem like a 
> good idea to mix the two to me.
>
> Dave
>
> At 04:40 AM 11/19/2009, you wrote:
>>Background:
>>
>>
>>
>>My daughter has had a great interest is woman supplies even before needing
>>them, she is 8.75 years old will be 9 in February. And she has been firmly
>>told it isn't time, for razors, shaving, lotions, etc.
>>
>>
>>
>>Even before needing to ware bras I would catch her sneaking them from 
>>school
>>from other little girls to ware them and be cool I guess. She now wares a
>>double a so that isn't an issue anymore so it's this razor thing.
>>
>>
>>
>>A couple of days ago I found a razor cap on the bathroom floor. Being I
>>don't shave I instantly walked up to her asking her where the razor was 
>>that
>>I suspected she had and she very much denied even knowing of one's
>>existences. I left it at that and we went on, although I always thought 
>>she
>>was just lying and I find it sooner or later, I always do and she always
>>gets caught.
>>
>>
>>
>>So, tonight looking in the medicine cabinet looking for something for my
>>ear, I found the razor, it's a disposable razor just like the one matching
>>the cap I found on the floor a couple of days ago.
>>
>>
>>
>>My problem:
>>
>>I always let my daughter know why she is being punished, and then I asking
>>her to fully explain to me so I know she understands why she is being
>>punished.
>>
>>
>>
>>Today she is scheduled to go to a field trip to a farm and she is really
>>looking forward to it. Should I keep her home for a form of punishment? 
>>The
>>entire school day is being spent at the farm so if I keep her home she 
>>would
>>be only missing out on the farm. Or do you recommend any other forms of
>>punishment.
>>
>>
>>
>>Please do understand we have talked, over and over and over about wanting 
>>to
>>grow up too fast, it has nothing to do with her not knowing. Its her not
>>listening, and lying about it when confronted with the evidence.
>>
>>
>>
>>Thanks
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>Gabe Vega A+, Net+, ATACP
>>
>>The Tech of all Techs
>>
>>(623) 565-9357
>>
>>
>>
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