[blparent] Help before 7:30 P.M. Arizona time please?

[Eileen Levin]

Hi Eric,
I have always thought of you as a man... Your note below brings up some
interesting images in my mind. LOL

I agree discipline is critical. If the child is also distancing themselves
from the parent then it's important to take steps to rebuild  the
relationship. Girls can become physically mature as early as 8 years old I
know of girls who have got their periods that early. I'm not sure where that
leaves their parents accept maybe with some frustrations that they aren't
expecting for another 4 years.
Best of luck Gabe,
It sounds like your troubles will not be over at 7:30  pm  Arazona time
regardless of what you chose to do.
Take care,
Eileen

-----Original Message-----
From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On
Behalf Of Eric Calhoun
Sent: Saturday, November 21, 2009 9:26 PM
To: blparent at nfbnet.org
Subject: Re: [blparent] Help before 7:30 P.M. Arizona time please?

I agree.  Your daughter is becoming a girlie-girl, too fast.  I was the same
way: I didn't listen!  Solution: Punish fairly.  For example: "You're on
punishment for 2 weeks."  Don't be mean about it when she lies again, and
again, and again.  Add on, but be firm.  When you and your husband see her
learning her lesson, or doing something good, subtract that ime from where
you added on; if she continues to initiate good behavior, back away from the
punishment completely.

She may be rebellious, but this is normal behavior.  You didn't say if she's
wearing heeled footwear or makeup, but these are signs  a child growing up
too fast.  Give her a four-legged animal to play with.  Take her out to a
favorite coffee shop.  But the fact she's beginning to turn into a
rebellious child should not go unnoticed. No wearing high heels right now;
let her feet grow.  No shaving; she needs to wait till she's older. 
Finally, let me refer you to a program that may help, the Total
Transformation, at www.thetotaltransformation.com.  This may help you.

Eric
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from Eric in Los Angeles!

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