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[Dena Wainwright]

wow...which ph.d. program allowed you to study with them without a bachelors 
and masters degree? remind me to avoid that university.

Dena

----- Original Message ----- 
From: "Rhonda Kubehl" <rhondakubehl at gmail.com>
To: "NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List" <blparent at nfbnet.org>
Sent: Sunday, November 14, 2010 8:48 AM
Subject: [blparent] (no subject)


> i'm simply writing to discus my issue with the group...
>
> I thought this group was to share parenting advice, wows, etc.
> i have met some good people, but \i also met people that think they know 
> everything.
>
>
> i'm tired of people comparing my child to there child... simply because 
> children are like apples, and oranges, 1 maybe be cognativly developed, 1 
> may not be... what ever the case is, all are different.
>
> i posted earlier, to shaire my sons wows... and some one came to me saying 
> how they didn't believe that my son can comprehend, nor understand 
> anything i said he could.... when I darn well know my child.
> i don't have to lie about his development, nor do i have to stretch the 
> truth, to what he can, or can't do... Just like you, i know my childs 
> potintial, no-one does.... know one knows him like his parents, teacher, 
> or family.
>
> My son has always been advanced in many things.
> Rolling over at 2 weeks from tummy, to back, sitting at 2 months, crawling 
> at 3 months, to walking holding on to objects at 4 closer to 5 months, had 
> a mouth full of teeth at 4 months... nursing him was great lol... NOT! ... 
> but he needed that nutrition, and asw a mommy, it was my job to provide 
> him with it.
> corban was 6 close to seven months when he took his for leap of faith, let 
> go of the coffee table, and holled tail... hasn't been still since then 
> lol.
> also at nine months, he was able to use simple 2 word sintences like Me 
> mommy, or me bye bye... one word at 8 months his favorte STOP, and NO... 
> he would also sign what he could not say... I did sing language from day 
> 1, many criticized me for it... but it made a difference in my house 
> hold... he has always been a demanding little bug.
> At 10 months, we started potty training... daytime went well, we still 
> struggled with night time for a while, he caught on the day time potty 
> training by 11 1/2 months, and his 1st birthday, he was in underware.
> He started showing intrest in night time potty training at 14 1/2 
> months... and has it downpacked... with a few accidents due to daddy 
> giving in, and giving him a cippy at night... but he hates to be wet.
> i was looking for cloth pullups simply because he doesn't want to ware a 
> diaper... he says its for babies, and thanks to several of you, we found 
> them.
> we also used the your baby can read system since day 1... Its a great 
> program... and works well with consistancy... and he absolutely loved it!
> Once I get everything together, we will pass it on to another lucky child.
> so, at 2, we had him tested, so we could send him to christian school, and 
> get him in a learning center at lease twice a week, because he's a Mommy's 
> boy, and i don't want to hinder his social development.
> we found out allot...
> He knows all 26 letters, how to write them, and can clearly pronounce 
> them, knows all his numbers to 10, we'tre working on 11-20, when he wants 
> to... i believe in learinging threw play... and he loves it!
> He knows number-letters in english, wich is his main language, and 
> spanish... I'm wanting to teacvh him German, but I think I'll wait... 
> because his brain is like a spunge, I want to teach him what he needs to 
> know.... adding fun to it.
> He's in the stage of wanting to know what, and why everything happens... 
> we don't pussy-foot arround it, we tell him in a way that a child needs it 
> in.
> He asked me what Viagra was the other day, and I told him... grandma is 
> letting you watch too much unsincered television, you aren't old 
> enough.... he pouted for a while, but he got over it.
> Yes, I studied child development, I have an associates degree in Child 
> development, going for my PHd in Child Psycology... so, it amazes me, when 
> people say how they studied the subject, there's no-way he is that 
> advanced.... it also annoyes me, because they compare him to there 
> child... and all children are different.
> Yes, I was amazed on how he has developed, and I'm sstill amazed watching 
> him and what he does... and each day, he learns something new and 
> different... tha wows me!
> Like, the man on the street.... After he,and i had that convo, I had to 
> pinch myself... its amazing how kids watch you, and mimic what you do.... 
> also, how much childrens chursh is helping him... we never put him in the 
> nursery.... we always had him in adults church, with his kids bible... 
> now, that's his favorite book...
> each day, is a new challenge... because he thinks he knows more than 
> mommy, but that's ok...
> as I email this now, he is sitting at the table writing.... and showing 
> his father how to spell his name... kids lol :p
> it makes me a proud MOMMY!...
> Many have asked me, how he got so smart... I go i donno.... The grace Of 
> God I rechon.
> That's honestly the only thing i can say... because i'm still amazed.
> His words are clear, his spech is vary clear, and he understands more than 
> I want him to...
> He likes to pretend he's cooking, or cleaning, or loves to help daddy fix 
> things.... it scares me when daddy allows him to help with things that 
> won't hurt himm... i guess, because I always get the worse in my head.
> so, before people tell me what my child can, or can't do... i think it is 
> respectful for them to get to know me, and meet my little dude... his IQ 
> was 180, I'v been told he was gifted... i tell people, don't brag, I don't 
> want him to get a big head.... I thank them as well.
>
> thanks for reading.
> ubehl
>
> rhonda K
>
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