[blparent] acceptance of mature parents

[PICKRELL, REBECCA M (TASC)]

	You know, I so don't understand the mindset of your older kids. 
I want my parents to be happy and the shape that takes isn't mine to say. 
I really could care less about the details. All I expect and want from them is love. Actually that's what I expect from everybody else in my life, genuine love. 
Jan, I wouldn't worry about the future. It's wasted energy and you know what they say about borrowing trouble. 	

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From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On Behalf Of jan wright
Sent: Thursday, May 12, 2011 1:55 PM
To: blparent
Subject: Re: [blparent] acceptance of mature parents

I fear that later on, my children might resent the new one for taking
muy time, attention and finances that could have been used elsewhere.
One son thought that I wanted a budding career.
And, he knows that i would stay home with the child until school age.
children do have expectations for their parents, as well.
I am trying to include them; but i know the reality is that they may
not want to be included -- after all, this baby's father is not their
father.
In any case, I will continue to make efforts and they can decide how
much or little they want to be involved.

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