[blparent] passing the baby

Wed Apr 4 20:23:16 UTC 2012

Brandy, I agree!  I used to let Gab float around with my good friends and my
family, but heaven forbid in a crowd of strangers.  That would hold true
even if it had not been my own, if I know the peeps it is always different.
Whether or not, you are a nanny, babysitter or just taking care of a baby
for a friend, responsibility is and always should be the most important
aspect.

-----Original Message-----
From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On
Behalf Of Brandy W
Sent: Wednesday, April 04, 2012 12:30 PM
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Subject: Re: [blparent] passing the baby

I provide child care in my home. I also took care of my niece very
frequently for the first 7 years of her life. I'm speaking of any large crud
in a larger space where there are more people than one is comfortable with.
I don't think in this thread whether I get to go home or not has anything to
do with what we are talking about. We are talking about whether or not we
let others hold our children. So I don't play pass the baby I keep the child
I'm with with me, and prefer to where them so others are less likely to ask
for them. If I do let someone it is someone I know well, and they know they
shouldn't hand the child to anyone else. I have cared for babies at
convention, many other conventions, places where I've done toy booths, and
in everyday life. It is just my way of doing things. I don't think attacking
me stating that I'm just a nanny was relevant or necessary.

Bran

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-----Original Message-----
From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On
Behalf Of Pickrell, Rebecca M (TASC)
Sent: Wednesday, April 04, 2012 1:44 PM
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Subject: Re: [blparent] passing the baby

        Aren't you a nanny?
Not that what you have to say isn't important, it's s just different.
Plus, you can go home at the end of the day. That makes a huge amount of
difference.

Lastly, are you speaking of random strangers and the parents are thinking of
people they know? That too makes a difference.

-----Original Message-----
From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On
Behalf Of Brandy W
Sent: Wednesday, April 04, 2012 10:03 AM
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Subject: Re: [blparent] passing the baby

When I have a baby with me I do not play pass the baby for many many
reasons. One is the main reason mentioned here where you don't know where
the child is. Second is people then think they have control of the baby and
will proceed to think it needs to eat or be changed or things like that when
they usually just want me. Last is germs. Who knows who's hand these people
have shaken, and who is sick with what. Babies don't need to be exposed to
that many germs. If aa good friend is sitting by me I may allow that person
to hold the child, but will ask them to use some hand sanitizer. I've found
that if I where the baby in a front or back carrier than people ask less.

Bran

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a spark."
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-----Original Message-----
From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On
Behalf Of Veronica Smith
Sent: Tuesday, April 03, 2012 6:33 PM
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Subject: Re: [blparent] passing the baby

I really didn't like strangers holding my baby, but when we went to a family
thing, everyone wanted to hold Gab and passed around she went.  But they
were family members, if the room was full of strangers, I probably would of
said, not right now.

-----Original Message-----
From: blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org [mailto:blparent-bounces at nfbnet.org] On
Behalf Of jan wright
Sent: Monday, April 02, 2012 9:48 PM
To: blparent
Subject: [blparent] passing the baby

Hi all,
I had a question and wondered if you could help.

My 23yo daughter just married on 4/1 .
We were elated and like the man she married.
My husband and I took our 4mo baby boy.
Everyone wanted to hole him.
the problem was that someone would come and talk to us and  the holder would
pass the baby to someone else, then to someone else and I did not know
"where" the baby was or "who "  had him. This is annoying for me. I would
have to continuously ask sighted people around me: "Who has the baby,"
"Where is the baby?"
 Before, when I had my little ones, I would just make them off limits to
others because:
when they were babies, we did not go out much and when we did, I wanted to
know where they were, etc. when people asked to hold my little ones, I would
just decline because it just seemed too hectic and chaotic. But, does anyone
have any suggestions to make it easier without just saying "no?"

Thanks.

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