[blparent] Ryan Knighton's Book

[Tammy]

Hi,

I was thinking about reading the book since I'm from Canada and probably 
could get my hands on a copy of it.  But after reading this I don't think 
I'll be doing that it would make me mad that such a father exists, and is 
making money off of his disability and obvious inneptitude as a parent.  If 
even half of what he writes below really happened here in Canada he'd be 
investigated by child protective services.  Instead of writing a book and 
touring the country giving real blind parents a bad name he might want to 
focus on himself and his obvious lack of ability as a father.

Tamy

-----Original Message----- 
From: Jo Elizabeth Pinto
Sent: Sunday, January 01, 2012 8:19 PM
To: NFBnet Blind Parents Mailing List
Subject: [blparent] Ryan Knighton's Book

I did a little research on the Ryan Knighton book featured on This American 
Life.  If you were appalled before, check out these details from Amazon's 
page on "C'mon Papa" Dispatches from a Dad in the Dark."  This book is 
apparently not available to people in the United States--thank God.  It will 
be at some point, though.


Editorial Reviews
Review
NATIONAL BESTSELLER

"Every new parent behaves like they're the first human to have given birth, 
and you don't always want to be seated beside them at a dinner party. What 
makes Knighton special is that, being blind, he's exquisitely attuned to 
every detail of the experience, every moment of joy and embarrassment, in a 
way that can make the merely sighted feel frankly unperceptive. His book 
made me want to have another kid, just to see what I missed the first time 
round."
- Daniel Richler, author of Kicking Tomorrow

"A warm, insightful and very funny book. Knighton is a writer you enjoy in 
the moment and think about later."
- Timothy Taylor, author of Stanley Park

"Ryan Knighton can't see, true. But his capacity to look inward, to create a 
landscape of what it is to be a blind parent, is nothing short of profound. 
He's also hilarious, and I'm warning you, you're going to cry, too. C'mon 
Papa is a memoir like no other, about a life like no other."
- Alicia Erian, author of Towelhead

"Painfully funny. Whether he's writing about almost getting run over, 
role-playing a cervix or losing his infant daughter in the snow, Knighton is 
wise, witty, moving and assured."
- Annabel Lyon, author of The Golden Mean

"A wonderful writer with a gift for laughter when the situation requires it; 
and even when it doesn't, he is still able to make it work. . . . Incredibly 
honest, eloquent and moving."
- Ottawa Citizen

"Funny and moving, this is neither a fact-driven public service announcement 
nor a romanticized representation of blindness. . . . Well-written, 
thoughtful and engaging, this is a discussion of parenting with a 
difference, a book valuable not so much because it tells a remarkable story 
but because it tells its story remarkably well."
- Winnipeg Free Press
&#16...


Ryan Knighton's humorous and perceptive tales of fatherhood take us inside 
an unusual new family, one bound by its father's particular darkness and 
light.

C'mon Papa is Ryan Knighton's heartbreaking and hilarious voyage through the 
first year of fatherhood. Becoming a father is a stressful, daunting rite of 
passage to be sure, but for a blind father, the fears are unimaginably 
heightened. Ryan will have to find novel ways to adapt to nearly every 
aspect of parenting: the most basic skills are nearly impossible to 
contemplate, let alone master. And how will Ryan get to know this pre-verbal 
bundle of coos and burps when he can't see her smile, or look into her eyes 
for hints of the person to come?

But this is no pity party, and Ryan has no time for sentimentality. Tackling 
these hurdles with grace and humour, Ryan is determined to do his part - and 
this is where the fun starts. From holding his daughter as she wails into 
the night to their first nerve-wracking walk to the cafe, no activity 
between father and daughter is without its pitfalls. In his struggle to 
"see" Tess, Ryan reimagines the relationship between father and child during 
that first chaotic year.

C'mon Papa: Dispatches from a Dad in the Dark is Ryan Knighton's second 
memoir, written after the birth of his daughter, Tess. (I reviewed 
Knighton's Cockeyed: a Memoir in April.) In his latest book, Knighton writes 
of his experiences as a blind father raising a daughter.

C'mon Papa is divided into three parts. The first part deals with the 
conception, where Knighton's wife Tracy suffers a miscarriage as a result of 
a molar pregnancy. Tracy goes through chemotherapy and the Knightons must 
wait a year before trying again to conceive. The second part is about the 
birth and Knighton's trials with an infant. The third part deals with blind 
life with a two-year-old. I did not find this story as funny as Cockeyed, 
although it still was a book I couldn't put down. Knighton writes of his 
failures at diaper-changing and baby-minding. After a heavy snowfall, 
Knighton loses his daughter while they are playing outside and there is a 
sense of panic that infects the reader until they are reunited. More tales 
of near-disaster, or even near-death, are included. The toughest time for 
Knighton is trying to care for Tess while she is a baby. It gets easier for 
him when she is a toddler since she, even at the age of two, can walk and 
see and lead her father around.

Unfortunately I missed seeing Ryan at an author appearance in Toronto while 
I was in Halifax in early May. It would have been a pleasure to meet him; 
even more so now that I have read his latest memoir.


Maybe we should write to This American Life and ask that equal airtime be 
given to competency.

Jo Elizabeth

"How far you go in life depends on you being tender with the young, 
compassionate with the aged, sympathetic with the striving, and tolerant of 
the weak and the strong.  Because someday in life you will have been all of 
these."--George Washington Carver, 1864-1943, American scientist
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